Ok
So things have changed ....
The wife is getting more into me asking for permission and her supplying it before I am allowed to do anything.
It would seem that the simply options are by far the best. My wife decided that she would give me a hand job in the morning before I left for work so that the tank was empty

that night. In the evening we kicked things off and she came twice through fore play before I went in and 3 times whilst i was in her before she allowed me to cum.
By far that is my best ever...
one very satisfied wife
one very happy chastity boy
My mistress really is god
