This girls learning fast!

[mistress is god]

When we went to bed I told him I was having my period and If I couldn't get any than he couldn't either. I thought I would let him go to sleep with that thought. Anyone have a good idea what I can do with him in about 3 or 4 days?

The first thing I would say is you are in charge now (and liking it from what I read) so if you are having a red week, do you want to do anything? If no, then don’t. He will be primed and ready when you do.
If you do then I would recommend finding out what works best for tease and denial play.

What attention do you want from him over this week. Would you prefer he did not touch you sexually or shut up and got on with it?

If you just want to tease him the list is endless,
- Put the key in an envelope. Seal it and both take it to the post office and send it 2nd class recorded delivery over Easter bank holiday would be good (p.s. make sure you have a spare)
- Just ware knickers when at home, or sexy underwear.
- Offer to shower with him and rub each other down then use the shower jets to tease him through his cage
- Use lube and gently rub his balls and the skin between his anus and his balls (this will get his prostate) making him very hard in his cage.
- Start considering how you and he feel about anal play

Oh I could give ideas all day long. Do let us know what you decided on its great to here from the other side of the fence.

[hot_toddy_dog]

Sounds like a lot of peeps trying to inject their fantasies and enact them through the young horny couple, while the young horny couple has plenty of ideas for themselves.

All I'm sayin'.

Welcome. Play safe and enjoy.

Edit-- well maybe that's a bit harsh. She did ask for ideas, but seems some of us jumped the gun on that a bit though...

What do after 3-4 days? My suggestion is make him wait until he begs for the chance to go down on you, let him know that it will cost him another 3 days every time he does, and get him to beg for it at least every 3 days .. ad infinitum

[poor]

Sounds like a lot of peeps trying to inject their fantasies and enact them through the young horny couple, while the young horny couple has plenty of ideas for themselves.

Exactly my thoughts. 'You should' is a clumsy phrase at best.

I have no advice to offer; from what you've posted already you are doing fine.

[MissyBsBitch]

Sounds like a lot of peeps trying to inject their fantasies and enact them through the young horny couple, while the young horny couple has plenty of ideas for themselves.

My thoughts as well.
Just go along with what feels right for you guys. If you go in too hard now you might scare him or end up in an argurment and loose this wonderful game you have started playing.

[TwistedMister]

I don't think anyone 'jumped the gun', she asked. However, it *is* difficult to offer advice/suggestions of this nature without knowing where the other people are in experience and acceptable/desired kink level. Conorg's comment above is good.

There are also other...um...resources...one could use for ideas. A bit of googling and browsing what seems interesting to see if it hits any 'hot buttons' might be in order.

[mistress is god]

I suppose it is only sencible that I point you in the direction of the "Members Lounge" on this forum and look / ask on the "Keyholders Thread"

[Newkeyholder]

Thanks everyone! I appreciate the advice. It's not like I can talk to my friends about it.
So he's been locked up for a few days now. I can tell he's coming unglued. He can't keep his hands off me. Tonight is the night. Having him locked up for the last few days has got me worked up too. We did take it off each day in the shower but I was with him to supervise. It's very difficult to get him back in it though. It's not that he doesn't want to put it on it's that it's difficult to put it back on because he gets hard. I have to ice him down to make it small enough to fit in the tube but it's still difficult. Does anyone else have this problem?
He knows he's getting some tonight I can tell he's all excited. I plan on texting him all day today to keep him worked up. First I think i'll have him take me to dinner then when we get home it's game on! He's always very passionate and kinda rough when he's been locked up. That's good because I like it that way! I like the feeling of being kinda helpless and dominated by him. It's fun having the control when he's locked up but I want my man to be a man when we have sex. Tonight should be a good night!

[TwistedMister]

It's very difficult to get him back in it though. It's not that he doesn't want to put it on it's that it's difficult to put it back on because he gets hard. I have to ice him down to make it small enough to fit in the tube but it's still difficult. Does anyone else have this problem?

Try having him recite multiplication tables...that's what works for me. Or maybe you could put on a talk radio station- Rush Dimbulb or something, or NPR.

[locked4her55]

It's very difficult to get him back in it though. It's not that he doesn't want to put it on it's that it's difficult to put it back on because he gets hard. I have to ice him down to make it small enough to fit in the tube but it's still difficult. Does anyone else have this problem?

I'm in a CB6000s (hopefully just for a few more days) and I put the base ring on when I'm relaxed. By the time I've got all the pieces together I'm headed in the wrong direction. No way do I want my wife coming close to me with ice so I just get interested in something else like maybe making the bed and sure enough within a few minutes I'm relaxed enough to get back in the tube. Kinda like sneaking up on it

[poor]

I get 5 minutes if soft (10 minutes if hard) to present Chatelaine with a shackled cock from when she gives me the key. If I take longer then I get longer (and if she gives me the key in our summer house it takes almost 2 minutes to get to her Steelheart).

We've found if she is in the room with me, I can't squeeze into it anything like as quickly. This is by far the most efficient way to get me in.