hot_toddy_dog wrote:Welcome, Barbara.
Have you considered something like this:
http://steelworxx.de/Dildo-with-A-Ring-76p.html
If my wife still desired penetration, that's all we would be using. It allows a very active involvement without (at least in theory) the ability for the wearer to get off.
Apologies if I've double posted this. I'm kind of a moron when it comes to remembering what I've already said.
Hi hot_toddy_dog & thank you for the welcome.
i have seen that item on their site but worried that the lock could pinch my wife or irritate her in some way. We do have several toys & devices that we use but always willing to try something new. Just this past Friday, she texted me at work in the morning saying she would be home at lunchtime & wanted to know what time i would be home for lunch & that she "may unlock me" for a while. i said i would be home as soon as possible & met her there. We ate, then i went to the bedroom to get ready for whatever she planned. That meant i was to put on my leather hood, gag with the dildo for her, posture collar, blindfold & lock them all in place. She came upstairs, got out her lock box with the key to the chastity & unlocked me.
Instantly i was aroused as she leaned me over the bed. She used her crop, her braided nine tails & her wooden paddle on her awaiting ass. i noticed that her paddling has gradually increased in force & made me wince in pain more than usual. That was very exciting to know because it showed me that she was not as concerned with being "easy on me" & worried that it hurt too much. She knows i will give her the safe signal if it's too much to handle.
The next thing i felt was her hands grab her cumless cock to stroke it steadily as she cupped both balls & gently squeezed. i let out a huge moan & thought that it would continue. i was wrong as a sudden smack of the hardwood paddle went across both cheeks. The paddling & stroking at the same time was too much & i felt i was close to cumming within a mere matter of seconds. She must have sensed it & stopped.
i caught my breath as she was undressing, then felt her grab my hands to signal that i kneel before her as she lay back on the bed with her legs over the edge. i heard her turn on the Hitachi as she started to stroke me. It was an incredible sensation that didn't last. It was interrupted by the feel of her hot, wet pussy engulfing the tip of her cumless cock. i could now feel the warm & soft flesh that i haven't felt since sometime last fall. i also felt the powerful vibrations from the Hitachi pass from her to me.
Suddenly as i heard her moan, she pulled away leaving me on my knees with her cumless cock bobbing in the air dying to thrust forward into what i was craving beyond belief, her pussy. She came loudly & her moaning told me that she was almost finished with me. i waited patiently hoping that she was going to allow me to have an orgasm or at least feel her from the inside fully & not just the tip, but she leaned next to me & said, "That's it, you are done, it's time to get locked & dressed."
She never needed to be penetrated that day & has been content more & more with other means of stimulation to achieve orgasm. It was beautiful to have been able to feel her soft, warm, pussy for the first time since early November & it was all i thought about for the rest of the day at work & couldn't concentrate on anything else. i texted her to let her know & she replied, "Glad you enjoyed it, that's all you're getting for a while." i still think about it on & off every day & can't wait for the next time she allows me permission to feel her again.
