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wants2lockhimup
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HI everyone,
I am a 40 yr old woman and my boyfriend of 3 and a 1/2 yrs is also 40. We both were married before and in not so sexually adventurous relationships. We are playing at male chastity(his idea) by using the honor system for now. Fairly early into our relationship with he offered to not masturbate or orgasm without my being present, at which I was thrilled.(This was something he did daily before we were together) It was a very sweet and intimate gesture in my mind. We live an hour and a half apart and think that a device may not work for us YET :), but am taking notes on all that everyone is experiencing in their various devices!! We both are raising our kids and won't be moving in together for a few yrs , but are very interested in MC and are committed to making it work for us.
I love how attentive it makes him and how he focuses on my pleasure even more than before. It has been a few months now with 3 weeks being the longest he has gone without an orgasm. We spend much of our time together, which is usually a few nights a week, playing at T&D. I love to give him this attention and reassure him that I am taking his chastity to heart and am aware of the sacrifice he is making. I have also found that, although my sex drive has always been fairly high, it is even higher when he is chaste. It fills my mind with wonder and I think our relationship has blossomed because of MC.
Anyway, I have enjoyed reading this blog and that of Dev's, Thumper's, Tom's, and Jnuts as well! Am happy to have found places where people can be open and honest and accepted. I look forward to being a small part of this forum and reading and learning.
Thanks!
M~
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thumper
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wants2lockhimup wrote:I have enjoyed reading this blog and that of Dev's, Thumper's, Tom's, and Jnuts as well!
The Four Horsepeople of the Apocalypse.

Welcome to the forum! Glad to see you here.
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Belle
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Welcome! Great to have another female here:)
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michaelnmelissa
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Welcome to the group. My wife and I are new to this too (about one month).

Michael
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Dev
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I have also found that, although my sex drive has always been fairly high, it is even higher when he is chaste. It fills my mind with wonder and I think our relationship has blossomed because of MC.
Isn't that an amazing thing? Chastity is so counter-intuitive---I think that's part of its magic and why so many of us (dare I say all?) feel like we have discovered the fountain of youth...or something. And that's also why we want to talk about it endlessly.

Welcome, and thanks for the compliments on my blog. I am glad you find it helpful!

D
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a couple's explorations with a chaste life, from the wife's point of view
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Tom Allen
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thumper wrote:
wants2lockhimup wrote:I have enjoyed reading this blog and that of Dev's, Thumper's, Tom's, and Jnuts as well!
The Four Horsepeople of the Apocalypse.
Hmm...

War
Conquest
Famine
Death

Nope, not gonna touch this one.
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mikecb
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Welcome to the site. :-)

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