Chasity and age

[rmcingle]

I am 56 and my wife is 54. We started this about 10 years ago.

I had an interest before that, but what really kicked it off for us was the availability of a reasonable priced chastity device. I have longed for a full metal belt but just can't justify that expense. The cost of a CB-2000 allowed it to be in the "toy" category.

I often look back at my life and wonder what it would have been like if the Internet had existed back when I was in college.

38 years ago when I got free of my parents knowing everything I did, pornography was expensive! Adult book stores were just as seedy back then and I really didn't believe any of the ads that were in the back of the magazines. Getting any kind of information on a specific kink was difficult.

15 years later I was introduced to the Internet. This was in the mid-90's, and usenet groups opened up a source of dialog of like minded people. Suddenly I was no longer alone. I was already married and had two kids so it was a little late to find a soul mate, but at least I found friends.

A few years later shopping on the Internet became a reality and now I could buy things in the comfort and privacy of my own home.

So, had the Internet existed when I was younger then I might have started chastity control when I was younger.

What if, what if......

Ron

[cbeltguy]

I'm 28, have been interested in chastity since my teens, made some homemade devices in my teen years, then when I was 18 or 19 purchased a cb-2000, then upgraded later to the cb3000 when that came out. When I was 25 I purchased my first my-steel belt, owned that for 2 years but lost some weight so it no longer fit so I then purchased another my-steel belt which I am currently locked in. Likely going to purchase a carrara belt soon.

So yeah, I'm under 30, have spent most of my 20's in a belt of some sort.

[Atone]

So yeah, I'm under 30, have spent most of my 20's in a belt of some sort.

welcome to the forum. Are you partnered? or doing this solo?

[Tom Allen]

[...] What if, what if......

I had to check to make sure that I hadn't written this post, myself.

Personally, I can't even *begin* to imagine how different my life would be now if I'd had internet as a teen or young adult.

[cbeltguy]

welcome to the forum. Are you partnered? or doing this solo?

Thanks for the welcome Atone, I'm single...ish? I generally play with a gay married couple as the third and I think it's actually perfect for me. I'm not looking for an all encompassing relationship so regular play with a regular couple works for me. Chastity isn't something for them really, but they know how important it is for me so they are going to be keeping me locked. Fortunately, or unfortunately depending on how you look at it, they do want use of my cock from time to time so I don't think super long lockups (more than a few weeks) are going to happen. Strap on's are fun...but no replacement for my warm pierced cock.

[chaste]

I'm also 28 and have spent most of my 20s playing with chastity devices. I found out about it through the internet when I was 22, and immediately formed an interest, but it only really made *sense* for me because I've been in to bondage and domination since an extremely young age... so when I first set eyes on the cb3000 it really hit home for me. I brought it to my (now) wife pretty much right away and she grudgingly allowed me to order it (funny thing is, I thought she'd love the idea). These days she is really into it and we both want a device that will work long term. We are both very happy in our relationship but we know we will be much happier when she controls my orgasms.

[hot_toddy_dog]

Hi, 35 here, wife a few years behind that. Got into male OD about 5 years ago and got really good at it (6 month stretches without a device). Now pursuing chastity with the goal of extending that period to a hopefully near permanent duration.

Echoing many comments of the older crowd here, I've noticed a drop off of sex drive with age - especially post orgasm. After an orgasm, I could go 2 weeks and not even have a care in the world about pleasing my wife - and to me, this is totally sad and depressing. I'd rather keep my sex drive elevated, and have found chastity and orgasm denial to help substantially with that.

[kpb57]

After an orgasm, I could go 2 weeks and not even have a care in the world about pleasing my wife - and to me, this is totally sad and depressing.

Wow, that sounds bad. I've never been "down" like that for more than a few hours after coming (if at all).
I can see why you'd like to be completely orgasm-free.

K

[J Random reader]

We're quite late 40s. 50s are barreling at us. We started when we were 47. About when I signed up here. Is this just something that fades after the novelty wears off? As long as it's working we'll keep going. We set dates. Each a bit further out. I've figured out workable dates for the next three years at least. Just adding a week longer each time. We have to talk about how we want this trend to go. One way to do it would run another five years. Then we hit a magic number. The misses' answer today to a maximum reasonable length. And I can see that changing in eight years. Would it have lasted if we started 20 years ago? Impossible to say. Several things came together to make this work. I would have enjoyed teasing and denial 20 years ago. I wouldn't have had a clue how to deal with being a bit erect most of the time. That would have been a challenge to overcome.

[warwick]

i'm 55 wife is 52. i have been out of my device for a few months. my masturbation habits are starting to get to a bad stage. i'm not satisfying her like i should, i am being selfish by playing with myself. after reading this thread it has made me realize its time to come clean and talk with her about being locked up again.

robby