David's Year of Orgasm Denial

[davidphd1866]

One week complete. 51 more to go.

Locked 5 of 7 days.
One orgasm for my wife
Zero for me (of course)

Happy Chastity everyone.

[davidphd1866]

Day #10:

I FINALLY got the "full" feeling after the Nov. 1st ejaculation. NOW the real chastity starts.....

Personally, I find the hardest part of a chaste period is that initial feeling of "full" after your last orgasm. The first couple of days after are no big deal (for me) because I don't hunger for the orgasm. But once everything is back to 100%.......I think you guys know the feeling.

My question to the group is: How long, typically, does it take after your last orgasm before that hunger really kicks into high gear?

David

[mikecb]

My question to the group is: How long, typically, does it take after your last orgasm before that hunger really kicks into high gear?

David

If I was to pick one day, it would be day 10. I'm usually at my horniest between days 7-12.

mikecb

[Atone]

If I was to pick one day, it would be day 10. I'm usually at my horniest between days 7-12.

I would agree with day 10 for getting back to the 'chastity' mind set.

My horniness seems to go in cycles though. Possibly affected by time but also with activities. When there is more opportunity for me to pleasure my wife it helps keep my horniness at bay. Although right now my horny level is low even though my wife and I have barely even kissed in the last week due to her not feeling well, it is allergy season for her right now.

-A

[davidphd1866]

Thanks Mike, Thanks Atone,

I am sort of comforted by the fact that day #10 seems to be sort of normal.

I can hardly believe the emotional impact this time around. Before I always felt that Day #10 was always a significant portion of my chastity period. (say, a month or two long) Now it is only the beginning. To say that the horniness is more intense than ever is an understatement. Only the intense disappointment I'd cause my wife is holding me back.

I guess the saying "chastity only really begins when you want it to end" has a ring of truth to it.

David

[mikecb]

I guess the saying "chastity only really begins when you want it to end" has a ring of truth to it.
David

rotfl! I love that. I hadn't heard it before.

If it's any consolation, as time wears on, my libido diminishes more and more. Now, this may also have to do with the fact that my wife does not do any tease and denial, so basically, I become more asexual as the length of the stint progresses.

I'll be interested to see if you find that you're level of frustration/grumpiness increases over time. I find that I have a "horny peak.". and then some time later, I have a "grumpy peak".

mikecb

[justplaying]

David;

This idea of tracking your libido, your level of being testy etc would make an interesting data set. It would be particularly interesting to see how your KH libido plays into your levels /emotions. Since you will not be having an orgasm for a year, no sense tracking that, but how you provide a service to your wife may say play into your emotions quite a bit.

I was kind of shocked to see the number ten come up so frequently. I hadn't really thought about it before, since this is now only our 3rd month into the play. But when I think back it is about 7-14 days that I feel like I have peaked. And I do get nasty right before this peak happens. I quickly apologize, because I realize it just has to be all the testosterone built up over that time....It would be great if there was a way to chart your moods based on how your interactions were going with your KH.

just a thought.

[davidphd1866]

Thanks guys,

I am keeping a diary so I will be able to create a chart. I am still tossing around ideas on how to record things that might be most useful for the group. But the "raw" data is being collected.

Like you guys, it's fascinating how the 10 day mark seems to be the first big milestone.

David

[Dev]

But the "raw" data is being collected.

Data are. The "raw" data are being collected.

Sorry, "data is" is like nails on a chalkboard for me and I must compulsively correct. I hope you understand, David, especially since we are in for a year of data collection adventures.

D

[davidphd1866]

Dev,

Your wit and wisdom is truly golden! While I humbly admit to the error, it's interesting that I had JUST read an article on the use of plural forms of nouns. One example were the words "data" and "datum". The author lamented that the word "data" has become accepted for both singular and plural.

Despite my lack of significant skill in the use of the King's English, I vigorously support that we all do our best in the Forum. I know our primary interest is male chastity play, but our respectful and careful use of language really sets us apart from the other groups.

Touche to Dev!

Now, if we WERE a typical chastity forum......I'd have to be punished......maybe another month!

David