"Hello world" thread

[DocSwitch]

Hello everyone,

Been a lurker for a few months but since I'm locked up now I decided to join and post. I'm 25, KH/Mistress is 25 as well. We've been together for 5 years and for 4 of them I've actually been referred to as Master and she pet. We're both switches, me being very dominant and her most submissive however lately I've had a very strong urge to be submissive for a prolonged amount of time and to try some fantasies that I've had and never been able to indulge in. After explaining them to her she found that she really liked all of them and since she's never been in charge more then a night every once in a while she was very curious to try it out.

We officially switched 4 weeks ago. Two weeks was spent on the honor system since from the onset she wanted to try controlling my orgasms and I wanted her to as well. The past two weeks I've for the first time been locked up in a brand new CB-6000. Now here's the complication though, I've been away in another state for all but two of those days preparing for medical licensing exams at a prep course held over 7 weeks in a hotel. Anyway I have been allowed to cum after 3 days in, then after another 5 days in. I return home and the two of us immediately the next day are heading to a hotel in 10 days and that's supposed to be my next release date.

I have to say thank you if you're reading this to Tom Allen and Thumper, without your blogs this would have been a very painful experience but all of your tips for comfort and sizing and adjustment were spot on. Anyway, nice to be here and can't wait to share some experiences.

[danj]

Doc,

Welcome! It's about time we have a doctor in the house! Maybe you can put to rest the question of prostate health and long term chastity?

[Tom Allen]

I have to say thank you if you're reading this to Tom Allen and Thumper, without your blogs this would have been a very painful experience but all of your tips for comfort and sizing and adjustment were spot on.

I just want to take a moment to thank you for writing that. I occasionally hang out in other chastity groups (less so, lately), and believe it or not, I get a ration of flames from people who get mad at me when I try to keep the conversations grounded in reality. Or when I call BS on somebody's story about how their partner locked on a device and left them for six months. Or when I question somebody's assertion that they have worn a CB6000 for 10 years, when it only came out 5 years ago. Or when... you get the idea.

Over the years I've responded to dozens of emails from women who were worried that chastity would turn their husbands into a sissified sissy slut, or turn them gay, or would want to introduce another man, etc., and it's mainly because when they start looking it up after their husbands have suggested it, what's the first thing they run into? Misinformation and fantasies. Seriously, I often think about not writing anything anymore because it's so frustrating. And on top of that, when I call out BS on a post or comment, half the members complain that I have no business doing so.

Thumper is smarter than me - he stays out of those groups (and started this one).

So, it's nice to be reminded once in a while that I've done something useful. Thanks, and welcome.

[DocSwitch]

In regards to having a Doc on the boards, not quite so. I'm still a student, it'll be a few years before M.D., and a few more on top of that before I'm Board Certified in anything. However I can answer some questions very generally and that one isn't too hard to answer. The current data from credible journals states that while ejaculation is helpful in prostate help by increasing regular flow and stopping the formation of crystals and stones in the prostate ducts that can cause prostatitis, it is not necessary for prostate health. It hasn't yet been shown that less frequency increases risk for cancer or other conditions. Emptying these ducts twice to three times a month can give you most of the benefits that regular ejaculation affords a man, or so some of the research has suggested. Bottom line is frequency is still up in the air, yes it helps, no not having it doesn't hurt. Your body will force those fluids out on their own when needed (i.e. wet dreams).

Also, Mr. Allen I'm glad I could brighten your day a bit. You and Thumper not only helped with the process but your writings really lead me to want to try this out and so far I'm very happy. Keep up the excellent work.

[Matt81]

Hello!

This is my first post here. I have been fanatasing about chastity for a short while and finally got the balls to talk about it to my girlfriend. I got the bon4 with small gage. We have been now experimentig it for two weeks or so. Our bedroom life went straight to all new levels.

[slaveg2000]

I suspect there is more than one doc here, just can't tell by their usernames. Mine for instance does give away my profession, which does happen to be physician.

[danj]

I suspect there is more than one doc here, just can't tell by their usernames. Mine for instance does give away my profession, which does happen to be physician.

The more the merrier! Welcome to the Forum!

[jack]

Hello,

I wanted to make a quick post to get off of Thumpers "possible spammers" list and to introduce myself. I have been spending a lot of time recently (probably too much time) on the web, visiting different sites and learning more about the various aspects of male chastity. I am very interested in introducing my wife of over 20 years to chastity play and I am planning to open the conversation with her in a couple of weeks.

I do like this forum quite a bit as it tends to offer realistic advice and information to those seeking help. While I have always had quite a bit of kink in my system, my wonderful wife on the other hand has always been pretty reserved. So, I plan to take things slow, point her to some web sites I believe will be useful and try to answer her questions as best I can.

Hopefully, everything will go well and she will eventually agree to become my KH.

I would appreciate any suggestions of good web sites my wife might visit to learn more about chastity play from the keyholders perspective.

Thanks,
Jack

[celticqueens_sub]

Welcome, check out the many blogs that are here. In my signature you will see keyheld there are good blogs there. On our blog we have a list of the blogs we think are worth reading, as do many others. Take the time and search about, there is good advice to be found.

[Tom Allen]

In the Members Forum we just started a Keyholder thread, where she can ask questions without worrying about locked men responding.

And as much as Sarah Jameson has done to make her blog resemble a miracle diet pill website, she really does write from a non-kinky perspective, and mainly keeps to a "Here's a sexy new game" tone. Read her earlier stuff, it's not as commercal. And her first book really is a good starting point, too.

Thing is, 90% of what's out there is written for the kinky sub male, so it's hard to find much for the vanilla, non-kinky women.