Hello All. I have been reading here and elswhere for some time about chastity. Thought I would join to be able to ask some questions from those that have been doing this a while. Finally my wife(20 years) and I decided to give it a try to see if it would help our sex life. Things have been slow in that area for quite some time. We know that I help myself a little(lot) too much. And she was all in favor of me stopping that. Bought a 6000 in Nov. went through the usual trial and error to find the right ring and spacer. then I found out my penis slipped out in the shower. Bought a KSD3 and that stoped the pullout but after 3 or 4 days, my penis was cut on top. Ouch! Out for the holidays cause of being so busy then back in first of January. Ground down the rings last week to make them rounder where they touch my balls.(getting a little sore there). also ground and bent the KSD the other day and have been wearing it now for 3 days.
Of course the whole point is how it is effecting our sex life. and ive got to say it is quite remarkable! She is loving the attention. I have to hold myself in check to not bother her all the time cause the urge to touch and hold her is there all the time. Hormones really do drive... We will see. Im hopeing that she will stay interested do to her benifets too. we' ll see. Rich
"Hello world" thread
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Welcome!
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Hello,
I'm totally newbie that trapped in my CB.
I'm totally newbie that trapped in my CB.
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Hi world,
Having used this site to learn much from everyone's experiences to prepare me, I feel that now I am no longer a 'wannabe' and as I've start to practice regular self chastity it's time to join.
After many years of being interested, a period of enforced abstainence recently brought me to back to the value chastity to help me in the longer term. Having tried a member of the CB range many years ago, I wasn't too keen on it's comfort levels - so have brought a Bon4 into my life. I think of it as an entry level device, knowing it is comfortable and will allow me to adjust before I move to more serious devices (which I am already excited about).
My goals are to hopefully be able to maintain 24/7 over long periods, restore some sensuality to the rest of my body and remove sexual desire from parts of life it's not required. Not that I have any chronic problems, but at the moment it's not something I want to encourage. I don't want to be dominated, but am quite interested in a mutual arrange with another man where we can assist each other with long term goals. In the meantime, I'm happy self locking - though I am in that period where everything is still adjusting.
Looking forward to being a member of this community.
Having used this site to learn much from everyone's experiences to prepare me, I feel that now I am no longer a 'wannabe' and as I've start to practice regular self chastity it's time to join.
After many years of being interested, a period of enforced abstainence recently brought me to back to the value chastity to help me in the longer term. Having tried a member of the CB range many years ago, I wasn't too keen on it's comfort levels - so have brought a Bon4 into my life. I think of it as an entry level device, knowing it is comfortable and will allow me to adjust before I move to more serious devices (which I am already excited about).
My goals are to hopefully be able to maintain 24/7 over long periods, restore some sensuality to the rest of my body and remove sexual desire from parts of life it's not required. Not that I have any chronic problems, but at the moment it's not something I want to encourage. I don't want to be dominated, but am quite interested in a mutual arrange with another man where we can assist each other with long term goals. In the meantime, I'm happy self locking - though I am in that period where everything is still adjusting.
Looking forward to being a member of this community.
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Welcome, Brute.
I don't know about 'removing' sexual desire, I find that I think about it and want it *more*. When I wasn't locked up, my method for removing desire was to simply rub one out in the shower real quick- problem solved, move on to other things. Of course, that didn't make the Mrs. very happy when she was feeling frisky and I'd tell her to leave me alone so I could sleep or continue doing whatever I was doing at the time...things are a little different now...
I don't know about 'removing' sexual desire, I find that I think about it and want it *more*. When I wasn't locked up, my method for removing desire was to simply rub one out in the shower real quick- problem solved, move on to other things. Of course, that didn't make the Mrs. very happy when she was feeling frisky and I'd tell her to leave me alone so I could sleep or continue doing whatever I was doing at the time...things are a little different now...
04/07/19 "And then I 'punished' you by making you lick my pussy after I let my other 'boy' fuck me." --Mrs. Twisted
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I'm a newbie to the site but been a chastity slave for a few years now!
Always looking to explore new things
Always looking to explore new things

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My wife and I have been experimenting with this for a few months now. We initially started with an inexpensive device that could only be worn for a few hours at a time. I am currently wearing a steelworxx crossfire that I find much more comfortable for long term wear.
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bluecage wrote:My wife and I have been experimenting with this for a few months now.
How many of started like this

Welcome to the forum bluecage.
That is a big jump from inexpensive to a crossfire. What influenced your decision to go with the crossfire?I am currently wearing a steelworxx crossfire that I find much more comfortable for long term wear.
I love my steelworxx device(s).
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Howdy world,
While my girlfriend and I have just recently begun exploring chastity, it's been an interest of mine since as long I as can remember. Just this past week, she locked me in my Cb-6000, and I was kept locked for 4 days. Needless to say, it was a very interesting experience, especially when she invited me into the shower with her. We're both looking forward to exploring more, and I can't wait to see where this leads in our relationship.
While my girlfriend and I have just recently begun exploring chastity, it's been an interest of mine since as long I as can remember. Just this past week, she locked me in my Cb-6000, and I was kept locked for 4 days. Needless to say, it was a very interesting experience, especially when she invited me into the shower with her. We're both looking forward to exploring more, and I can't wait to see where this leads in our relationship.
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Hi there. Not a scammer. Married for 7 years to wonderful woman. Came out to her about my desire to be left waiting about 6 months ago. Had a number of honor system denials, longest 9 days. More recently had one that went 38. Things have since escalated. Now locked in a CB6000 with a release date in 51 days. Amazing experience. Loved every minute of it.