Received my Watchful Mistress this week

[LockedHub]

First off, it appears to be a very good quality product, I'm impressed with the quality. Customer service is good, communication was good, and it got here sooner than promised.

I used the rings I ordered to determine the size, along with comparisons to two other devices I have, a Bon 4 and another off the shelf steel cage that was too big.

I was very conservative in my measurements and wanted it small as possible for concealment. I got it small alright. It fits but couldn't be any smaller. Actually if I have another one made in the future I'll probably add 1/8" to the diameter, length I pretty much got just right. NO, room to grow. I had the oval ring, and it's comfortable. I may eventually get a smaller size base ring, but probably only one size smaller. I probably would have been fine with the 1/4" space but went with the 3/8 space between the cage and base ring, that's an easy fix if I decide to change it.

I got home Thurs evening and put it on for the first time. Very comfortable, even ran 4 miles the next morning wearing it. She let me out this evening for a little fun, a Christmas tradition for us, after Santa comes on Christmas night. No pun intended. Anyway, went right back in for what I'm told will be 10 days before I'm unlocked again.

One thing I've noticed everyday, mid morning to mid day, especially if I have on tighter pants, I have a lot of pinching where the skin protrudes from the openings on the sides and it's very sensitive. Then it goes away, not even able to tell it's there. I'm not sure what that's about, has anyone experienced that? Maybe it's just because it's new. Anyway, that's my first report and thoughts on the device. We'll see how it is in 10 days.

[danj]

Congrats on the new device. I wear a Steelheart that I'm extremely happy in, but would go 1 or 2 mm longer if I ordered again. I hear a lot about ordering as small as possible, but not sure that is really ideal advice. If I had done that, my device would be a few mm smaller and probably just too tight.

[Locked by LRC]

I think accepting the advice about going short is more about the male ego. When I started with chastity I had the CB2000. After a while I decided I needed more room and tried the Curve, I needed something with more room because I was bigger than that, the male ego part. I quickly learned that was a big mistake. When the 6K came out I was happy with this because of the bend problem in the 2K. On a whim I ordered the 6K short and was convinced that shorter was better, male ego aside.

I think we try to tell others to go small so they don't make the mistake of getting an expensive device and then be unhappy with the fit. I do agree you can go too small. If your measured length is "X" go with this size. Don't go a 1/4" shorter or longer for a better fit.

I think this problem is most prevalent with the growers. I have a change in length of 4 1/2" from flaccid to hard. I also have a 3/8" change in girth. I had a hard time convincing myself that I didn't need a larger device. It took more than one Email swap with MM before he could convince me of this. After I got a custom device I am now convinced that the maker of the device knows what they are doing when they ask you to measure in their particular way.

[Atone]

One thing I've noticed everyday, mid morning to mid day, especially if I have on tighter pants, I have a lot of pinching where the skin protrudes from the openings on the sides and it's very sensitive. Then it goes away, not even able to tell it's there. I'm not sure what that's about, has anyone experienced that? Maybe it's just because it's new. Anyway, that's my first report and thoughts on the device. We'll see how it is in 10 days.

So how has the Watchful Mistress been treating you?

I had some similar problems with my Pet Trap but didn't wear it long enough to work it out. It ended up just being too small so I had it modified. That did't work out too well either but that is another story. I think this is something that is going to happen to some extent anywhere that the skin can try to get out. I think there is probably a sweet spot where it is minimized though. I never had a problem on my jailbird because the openings where big enough without being too big. The small openings on the CB3000 could be really tough. Now that I think about it I had small "flush fitting" pins made for my Jailbird to go in the anti pullout pin hole. If there was no pin in place that small 1/4" hole could become irritating. On the Steelheart it is only a problem on the rare occasion that the tip of the penis was pressed out the hole on the end.

[LockedHub]

So far so good. I've been wearing it for a little over a month now. I have been out of it a few times, 3 days unlocked is the longest I've been unlocked due to an out of town trip where I had to fly. Other than that I've just been unlocked for short periods of time, maybe a few hours at a time for the most.

The pinching is no longer an issue, the skin, even if it protrudes from the openings I don't notice it. The screw has worked loose a few times during some physical work I was doing I think, so this week while at work I have a brass lock on it. Need to get some blue lock tite for the screw to keep it from backing out. Tried a dab of the red and almost didn't get the thing off. Stay away from the red lock tite, it's great for auto parts but not chastity devices.

Night time erections and even morning erections haven't been an issue either. They just haven't been happening much at all. When they do I notice very little if any burning.

Very pleased with the MM WM. No regrets.

[Locked by LRC]

I have a problem with having a screw loose once in a while, on the cage not me. Every couple of says LRC will give me the key to check the screw. We also found that if I tighten it the screw stays seated better.