celticqueens_sub wrote:
Nothing to do with it being minus a million degress in New England in the winter then eh?
Meh. We New Englanders complain, but we're used to it. This year is very temperate. I took my bike out this past weekend because it was 58º F.
No, just read this again:
It's pretty simple actually... they both hold a key to my cb6000s and we live a mild FLR lifestyle.
They both have the right to take me out and play whenever they like, but they have to both agree on when I'm allowed to orgasm in order for me to have one.
Often times they both unlock and tease me at the same time. Sometimes I stay locked and only get to watch them enjoy themselves...
I mean, come on - I'd move to Alaska to learn how to do this.
Hi! My Wife and keyholder, Chel, and I are very new to the chastity lifestyle. It took me quite a bit of nerve to broach the subject as I am actually very alfa in every aspect of my life other than my desire to be involved in a FLM with Chel. She was extreamly interested and enthusiastically agreed to try it out. We are only in our first month of me being locked away. I have a rather basic steel device with the hinged ring, which is quite tight and holds me very comfortably. I am currently in my 13 day of total lock down and so far so good! Have never been longer than 4 days during my intial "break in" trials. She will not tell me how much longer it will be...part of the fun. I look forward to getting to know others in the lifestyle. Hope to talk soon!
I would just post a follow up on my prior posting in this thread.
I had Mistress over for New Year’s and we had some nice days together. Friday night we went to our club and had a great night with some heavy games. Saturday was the last day of the year and we decided to stay in and enjoy a good meal. Again we ended up playing some heavy games and just before midnight we pierced each other as a sign of our relationship.
While Mistress was here, I showed her the Steelworxx homepage and the all different models. Instead of asking her for permission to order one, I just let her look at the pictures. She said:”As I haven’t decided what to give you as a Christmas present, I think I want to give you one of these.” We talked about the different models and she decided, she wanted me to wear a “Revenge”.
So now I have measured myself 5 times during a week, just to find out what the right measures are. I find that the figures can change a little, so several measures will give a more correct sizing when ordering.
I ordered a Chinese cage from eBay, as I haven’t tried steel yet but only plastic. I know it is of poor quality and cannot be compared to the ones sold from the vendors mentioned on this site. But I figured it could give me a good idea of how it felt, if I liked it and what to look out for before ordering the Revenge. I paid 15 £ including posting and packing, which I see as money good spent. The device is of amazingly good quality compared to the price. I have worn it for 3 days and it fits me very good. When using the largest ring my testicles have a tendency to slip out, but the medium ring is perfect. It is heavier than plastic and it takes a little time getting used to. Over all it is not a problem and I’m looking forward to buying a custom made device.
I showed the steel cage to Mistress last night, and she was very pleased. She is a big fan of steel, and kept on caressing the cage. She told me to prepare the Steelworxx order, as she is not very patient. Last year she gave me another present. It was a custom made steel collar from another German site; sm-factory.de. The quality is great and we both enjoy me wearing it. She likes to touch the steel, when she can feel the warmth of my body has transferred on to the collar. The collar is also lockable, and she has the key. The collar is big and heavy, and cannot be concealed by every day clothes, so we only use it when we go to a club or are having a session at home.
Some of you have asked me, how we started out using chastity devices. It was my suggestion, as I was inspired by a friend of mine. He is wearing a full belt, as has been using it for almost 10 years. When I told her about it, she was curious. As I’m the one being restricted, and she only has to hold the key, she agreed to try it out. Of course our Mistress/slave relationship and being in the local BDSM scene make it much easier to suggest and talk about sexual experiments.
After she has found out how she wants it to be carried out, she has become more eager to use it as a part of our relationship. As mentioned before we don’t live together and our relationship is based on trust. I do, what she orders me to do. As a part of the preparation before a meeting, she orders me to put on the chastity device, sometimes up to several weeks in advance. When I miss her or get too horny, I ask her for permission to put the chastity device on. She likes me begging for her permission to do things. Her rule is once the device has come on; it will not be removed again, until she does it herself. So if I beg for permission to put it on, it will not come off until we see each other next time.
Combining chastity and steel make good sense to us.
I place the order soon and will post our experiences with the Revenge.
Current chastity device: Steelworxx Revenge.
Also owns: CB 6000.
Really nervous!!!! My girlfriend and I are trying REAL enforced chastity for the first time. We have tried cheaper alternatives but I am very handy so we went all out this time. We have an ALL titanium cage coming from Steelwerks in a week or so and I have a full month "no matter what" enforced chastity period to start with. Neither of us trusted that we wouldn't back down so the ex-wife has happily agreed to hold the keys. I'm nervous because I know this is for real and wondering if anyone with experience has any advice.