Advice please - new to this forum

[braveslave0]

Hello everyone, let me firstly introduce myself as per Thumper's orders!!

I have wanted to be securely locked away for many years and have my pleasure in the hands of a Lady KH, but have thus far, after many, many attempts failed to find such a Lady and find a chastity device that actually works!! My aim is ultimately, for long-term chastity with a modicum of comfort.

My problem is that i have been able to pull-out of every device i've purchased, the latest Birdlocked Neo had less than half an hour this afternoon before finding it's way in the bin in sheer frustration!! (i must admit it was exceptionally comfortable though!!) i have owned the entire CB-x000 range (how people cannot easily orgasm in cage type devices as beyond me!!) and can easily escape from the back even with an entourage of KSD additions. The Exobelt V1 and Extreme went the same way and were not that comfortable either.

i have even tried a full-steel belt from mySteel, but have needed several modifications to this to make it inescapable and is not very comfortable at all especially when seated and night-time is a night-mare!! i've had all sorts of bruising a chafing as unless i have it very tight fitting, i can hook my finger around to pull out. Also, i've had an issue with the end of my foreskin swelling up (excess moisture soak-up?) which cannot be good.

So, where do i go from here?

Steelworxx seems a popular choice atm and it was in searching for a review of the Steelheart that i found this site. i was interested in the 'fixing made of rubber' but this has been written off by one member here and another has said to get a supply of different sized 'O' rings to get the right size. Is this system worth bearing with? If it fails, i will guarantee that i can find a way to pull out. The thing is, they are quite costly and i've been here before - i thought the steel belt would have done the job, but it's just too darn uncomfortable to wear long-term.

i know some will say "why would i want to pull out" but the point is that if i am not in a full relationship with a like-minded Lady (near impossibility) then pyschologically it's not the same knowing that you can pull-out any time you like.

Any help would be most appreciated!!

[Locked by LRC]

I don't think any ball trap device by itself is 100% secure. It's more of a "I can but I won't" type of thing. The only way I think they can come close to 100% is to have a piercing and secure it also.

[braveslave0]

i had a horrible feeling someone was going to say that!!

It does indeed look like having a PA is the only way to go, and i was reading the other day that it isn't as painful as you'd think.

If i did, i wouldn't be able to look, even having a jab at the docs is bad enough for me!!

[danj]

If you're self locking, won't you have access to the key anyway?

In any event, I'll second what Locked by LRC said....you need a PA piercing to get totally secure.

[braveslave0]

i am self-locking atm, but hope to get a KH even if it means seeing a Pro-Domme once a fortnight or so.

i have been just reading up on PA's and i must say that it makes my legs squeeze together when the detail of the piercing is displayed. Would a frenum piercing not do the same job - it seems a lot less painful!!

[Atone]

Would a frenum piercing not do the same job - it seems a lot less painful!!

I was wondering the same thing.

From what I have read the frenum is more likely to close up if you decide you don't want it. There is also the issue of peeing with the PA, it seems that many guys can no longer pee standing up with it. Well, if you are in a steelheart you would be able to but otherwise not so easily. Of course there are some downsides to the frenum as well. Migration seems to be more of an issue. There is a lot of information out there on both, I am sure others will chime in here.

Personally I go back and forth between definitely wanting a PA, to definitely not wanting a PA, to definitely wanting a Frenum, to not wanting anything at all. Right now I am solidly in the definitely wants a Frenum camp. Not that it matters because at the moment my wife is in the definitely doesn't want me to get either camp

[Tasholeo]

I used to have a jacob's ladder and now have a PA and IMHO i much prefer the PA. When i had the ladder i had three pericings two of which i ended up having to take out cuase they would not heal well and i ended up just taking out the third at thre request of my wife because the frenums hurt her during sex. this past august i talked her into letting me get a PA. compairing the two the PA hurt less but neither hurt all that bad (even concidering that it was a 14 ga with the ladder and a 6 ga for the PA). and the healing time and process is waaay better with the PA. when you pee, you just cleaned the peircing. and probably the best part (or maybe tied for best with using it for security) is that my wife REALLY likes this one. it has given her some really powerful orgasms...
just my opinion between the two...

[kpb57]

I looked up the page of one of the better piercers in Vienna. From what I see, a frenum piercing is best if you are circumcised, but if you are not, you could put in a ring thats formed so it does conform to your glans inside your foreskin and protrudes out in the front.
Gerecke makes a special insert that goes through the frenum ring and is anchored at the locking pin and the hole at the tip of the cage. You may slide along that insert, but you can't get completely out.

K

[braveslave0]

Not that it matters because at the moment my wife is in the definitely doesn't want me to get either camp

.. and as you like sex, you'll be going with whatever she wants!!

My mid has flitted between the two just as you have Atone, and i thank everyone here for their replies.

As i am uncircumsized, i think that if i am attaching the ring to a chastity device it will force the foreskin back leaving my head exposed which should stop the swelling issue that i have had with the belt.

Has anyone here got a piercing attachment to a chastity device? What happens when it's a clod day and the little one shrinks down - surely it must hurt when the ring pulls on the frenum or head?