Cranky & Pouty

[Chuck]

My keyholder will not take me giving her suggestions or being cranky. She tells me to strip naked, ties my hands behind my back. Takes me to the spanking chair ( a chair with no arms on it) she sits down fully clothed, pulls me over her lap and takes a ping pong paddle to my bare butt. Sometimes I am told to count the strokes. Other times I am told to just stop squirming and take what she gives me. Depending on her mood or how mad I made her depends on how long the session lasts. I am then told to kneel in the corner and say nothing for the next 30 minutes. This changes my attitude and also enforces who is in control, and it is not me.

You lucky dog... I can't get my wife to spank me at all. We're still working on it though.

[danj]

Not sure I can see my wife spanking me. Nothing wrong with it, but it's not really our thing. She's turning into a pretty good keyholder, but more on the vanilla side with a touch of domme. She's doing great. Even just started "Male Chastity: A Guide for Keyholders"!

[poor]

That's a great little book. I found BCWYWF to cover 'pissed at being locked' better but for me Lucy's book is a great primer for the stuff that seems obvious to us but we never manage to explain properly to our KH. I might make the time over the holiday to re-read both books and see how they stack up against how we do this.

@Freespirit. That's wayyy too hot to ever be a punishment in this house!

The reason that I'm 'always' on my best behaviour is that I'm trying to make this as good for Chatelaine as it is for me. I can't see how adding to the list of 'things that she has to do' is going to help sustain MC whereas if I can make her day better in any way then surely that will be reciprocated. It's also true to say that I'm not confident enough to 'test the waters' with a strop. I'd hate for her to throw it back at me now.

[if53]

@poor

"@Freespirit. That's wayyy too hot to ever be a punishment in this house!"[quote][/quote]

I may be wrong, but it sounds like you wouldn't be against it though?

[Chuck]

Not sure I can see my wife spanking me. Nothing wrong with it, but it's not really our thing. She's turning into a pretty good keyholder, but more on the vanilla side with a touch of domme. She's doing great. Even just started "Male Chastity: A Guide for Keyholders"!

Not necessarily for punishment. At least for me, I don't see a punishment being required for a good, sexy spanking. Punishment wouldn't do for us since we don't have a D/s relationship. However, we are into several kinks that seem to be associated with other kinks that we have no interest in as well.

[Edgewood]

Lucy's book is a great primer for the stuff that seems obvious to us but we never manage to explain properly to our KH

I totally agree. We'll be reading it in the car together as we drive over the holiday.