College Student looking for a new direction and a male KH

[mahun]

I spend way too much time masturbating and having sex, taking time I need for my studies. I also feel weak and exhausted, I need to hit the gym with much more commitment to gain health and muscles.

My idea is that chastity is a perfect way to force me into a better direction, study harder and workout more - and also humble me since I tend to be bigmouthed.

What do you think about it?

I am looking for a keyholder that would like to help me with getting rid off my noxious strong sexdrive, humble me, let me focus on my studies, sports and later on my career - so it should be a longterm commitment on both sides.

I am gay but that is another reason why I think I should be kept in longterm chastity. The reason I am looking for a male keyholder is no sexual one but I think only a male can understand how a male sexdrive works, I do not care whether he is gay or straight.

Hope to find him here.

[thumper]

"I spend way too much time masturbating and having sex, taking time I need for my studies."

For me, the sexual frustration makes me browse porn and be generally less focused on non-sexual subject matter. Not sure you'll end up with more study time simply by locking yourself up.

[mikecb]

I agree, with thumper. There are times when I masturbate, just to reduce my sex drive, so that I can concentrate on more practical matters.

[danj]

"I spend way too much time masturbating and having sex, taking time I need for my studies."

For me, the sexual frustration makes me browse porn and be generally less focused on non-sexual subject matter. Not sure you'll end up with more study time simply by locking yourself up.

Yep, dead on.

[poor]

I think (as you were kind enough to ask) that you could engage in some kind of community volunteer work to 'tame your bigmouth tendencies'. I've found that seeing the way people with real difficulties in life quietly struggle through takes the wind out of most blowhards. It'll also look good on your CV.

The 'I need to be locked up because I'm gay' (deliberate misquote) isn't working for me. If you are still working the crap out of your sexual fuel pipe then you don't want to be turning off the engine. Your first love should always be yourself and guilt is a terrible burden, particularly if it's undeserved.

I won't disagree with your views about a male KH but if you honestly think that you won't develop intense sexual desire for whoever grants your orgasm, I'd suggest that you need to read further on this board. A lot of us are getting to the age where not much excites us and we're raving about this!

[mahun]

thanks for ur responses and i gave it a thought.

my experience just was: i lived under self imposed chastity for almost 3 months before. my grades went up, i did superb at the gym and it almost seemed as if my permanent hornyness and sexual frustration increased my agressivity at the gym alot, so helped me pump harder - and afterwards made me become much more balanced and calm. just made me a better person in every way.

i am still looking for a consequent longterm keyholder