Locked and forgot?

[Chuck]

I now know what locked and forgot means.

Fortunately I got to cum just before it happened. This week was long and stressful at work for my wife and she had no interest or thought of sexual activity. It just so happens that after my orgasm I had no interest either so thankfully our weeks of no interest coincided. Last night though we were able to get back into some nice playtime with me giving her several orgasms including the "Big One".

I had read about the post orgasm low for us guys but always thought that I wouldn't get that. I was wrong. Even my nocturnal erections were weaker than what was normally quite strong. I guess that maybe it's always happened but now I notice it due to the focus on chastity.

I did get locked and forgot for a week but at least it was during the post orgasm low. I would hate to be locked and forgot during the time when I'm not in the post orgasm low. I really feel for the guys whose partners lack the interest or understanding and end up locking them and forgetting or ignoring them.

[Atone]

I really feel for the guys whose partners lack the interest or understanding and end up locking them and forgetting or ignoring them.

That would be a real challenge for me too. I like short periods of this on occasion, maybe 3-4 days, because it reminds me of how much I like it when it isn't like that One time I was "punished" (by mutual agreement) and for two weeks I was not allowed to even look at my wife other than eye to eye. If she was not fully clothed (in the bathroom, shower, getting dressed etc...) I wasn't even allowed that, I had to turn away. I was going nuts after about a week of that, the second week was really long. I had the benefit of knowing that it was going to end and it was still hard. I could see how that could really screw with someone that was really being "forgotten".

-A

[poor]

I take the view that every day counts when you finally get to come but some days are given and others are earned.

If I'm feeling bored or excluded I try to focus on doing something that she'll appreciate - if nothing else it'll remind her that I am here for her pleasure if she wants.