Hello all

[Lostinlife]

This is my first post after my initial hello world post. I wanted to post it in here so that I can talk to the actual members and not the moderators

I'm 26 married with children. I have been under lock and key off and on for about a year now.

My wife and I have tried the bdsm side of this and although I am extremely submissive unfortunately she is not at all dominant.

So after a break from my cage for about 6 months I finally convinced her to give it another shot and we would exclude all of the bondage and bdsm. After 2 weeks it seems to be going pretty good, I'm back to my "happiest and natural" state under her watchful eye. I do miss the bdsm however I believe that since she is so wonderful in indulging my chastity and panty wearing I could be considerate enough to not mention the stuff she doesn't like.

I love being in my cage because it opens up the deep love and attention to her that I always have just can't always show. Of corse I do miss being able to masturbate whenever I feel like it and get that "quick high" but I will ultimately give that up for her happiness.

Since I have been locked up we are taking it slow. She let me out after one week, an to my surprise she actually requested a picture of it back on the next day, something she has never done before.

Well that is my initial post and I hope to be able to have a normal conversation with like minded people in here pertaining to the stuff that I are about.

Thanks to all who read this long post and I'm sure I will find many friends on this board

[Belle]

Welcome! As for your wife not being into the other stuff, give her time. I am finding that as our journey continues I am more willing to indulge Jnuts desires in bondage and other aspects of SM. I am in no way dominant, but as my keyholder role grows so does the rest of me.

[Lostinlife]

I agree. I am starting to believe that instead of springing the whole shebang on her I need to just accept my role at her feet and whim when she will let me now and the rest will follow when she realizes that she will be happier thi way.

Also I think a lot of it has to do with our age. We are starting this journey at a very young age judging by my research over time. I think when we become more settled down and more domestic stuff is required that will also help

[Belle]

Check out our blog in my sig line, read some of the earlier posts. You will see our progrssion in our journey over the last year.

[Lostinlife]

Thank you so much. Wonderful blog I will have to start following you.

[fonetik2003]

I also keep a blog of my life's journey @ www.fetlife.com you might care to check out? My screen name there is the same as it is here... But for us, it was the opposite approach! I was into BDSM long before I got into chastity. In my case, chastity only solidified my role at Her feet!