New to chastity

[Lgoddess]

Hi there, new to this forum.... My husband recently suggested we try chastity... Very new to me. He is currently locked up and am trying to find new ways to make Him feel
like a sissy and humiliate him... Any ideas? I'm trying to be dominate but this whole thing is very new to me and any suggestions would help

[cb6000s]

I would suggest that you begin by reading as much as you can of the discusions on this forum. Many of your questions have been answered by others.

[Locked by LRC]

Welcome to the forum. I hope you find help here with the newest phase of your relationship. I also look forward to see how your journey progresses.

I'm not sure about making him a sissy specifically but, I would think like all new people to chastity a general tip, communication.

LRC's hardest part was accepting the role of being in charge of my orgasm. This took her over a year before she felt comfortable dominating it. LRC now admits the first year she let me orgasm every couple weeks because she felt she "had" to. It was a slow process for LRC to feel comfortable. I can't imagine addiding making him a sissy to it.

I think moving slowly will also help your husband sort out what is now fantasy and what reality will be.
The point of this is when we first started my fantasy of orgasm denial for over a month wasn't ready to accept the reality. By moving into this slowly I am now happily frustrated after four weeks. A year ago I was disappointedly frustrated after two weeks. I think in the first few months of chastity if LRC was strict about my orgasm, like she is now, I might have lost my enthusiasm.

Both sides of this changing relationship has required many hours of discussion over the last year and a half of full-time chastity. This was after we had played with part-time chastity for over five years prior.

LRC also complained about me not being open about my feelings and keeping them to myself. I think you will find numerous guys here say for the first time in their relationship they are actually talking about their feelings. Another comment I see a lot of is “I’m starting to actually listen to her.”

To repeat, I think the most important thing for both of you is to communicate.

[Celtic Queen]

Lgoddess, I note your use of the capital when referring to your husband. Is this a typo or are you switching?

If so, it is a fascinating fact that there is no female equivalent of "sissification". If I was a sub and was forced to wander around in Y fronts, I'm sure I would find the gap in the front a useful place to store my mobile phone rather than feel humiliated about it


Seriously though, chastity and sissification are very, very different things. If you are discussing using chastity for him to be emasculated, leading to sissification you might want to speak to some of the sissies over on Chastity Mansion who are usually helpful and open to get into his head about this.

[celticqueens_sub]

If I was a sub and was forced to wander around in Y fronts, I'm sure I would find the gap in the front a useful place to store my mobile phone rather than feel humiliated about it
.

And set it on vibrate.. I'm so dead..