Train a Man

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fuzzydunlop
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Train a Man

Post by fuzzydunlop »

This is interesting. Some denial concepts, but not fetish based at all, and totally real people. Most people would think this is a little bossy, but not D/s:

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poor
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Re: Train a Man

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Non-fetish denial? I once tried to influence my better half with a book titled 'Around Her Finger' that introduced an example of OD leading to 'FLR lite' for an overworked soccer mom saddled with a caveman.
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fuzzydunlop
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Re: Train a Man

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FLR lite sounds about right. We have been heavy on orgasm denial/avoidence and also very vanilla. I am struggling a little with my ego and my patience. I definately am feeling the benefits. We've been more affectionate, but life, family, and biological concerns have our sex drives mismatched. It creates good opportunities for orgasm denial, but I also feel insecure and clingy, which is what a lot of people describe. Still, I want my butt whooped into shape and my caveman side held in check. What is a middle aged boy to do?