Chuck wrote:Hi,
I did my research and read a lot and finally got a metal device. Durability to me is a big factor in playing this as real as possible. I had a fantastic talk with my wife while I gave her a foot massage and she went for it. I sent her relevant links so she could see that this is a legitimate way to live/play.
We had a talk about how long and we decided to go for at least 2 months of orgasm denial the first time. (If it's longer than that it will be her choice since she now has control of my orgasms.) I gave her my keys and have been locked for 10 days.
I guess that's it for now.
Chuck
Welcome to the forum, lots of great advice from real couples experiences of living it can be found here.
Owned and loved by Celtic Queen. Her perception is my reality.
ziggy wrote:Hello
My wife and I have been married for 16 years. I am finally ready to submit to her and she enjoys the control.I am coming to terms with my fate and thought I would join. Thank you
Ziggy.
A big hello to you!
Owned and loved by Celtic Queen. Her perception is my reality.
Chuck wrote:New guy to the forum and to the vanilla chastity lifestyle.
So what metal device did you get?
2 months is a very ambitious first time goal, try not to get too wrapped up in it in case it works out differently. My first time was 45 days but the original goal was I think only 2 or 3 days, it just ended up being a lot longer.
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I'm new here, but I've been lurking and reading for quite a while, learning a LOT from everyone else's posts and experiences. My wife and I are slowly experimenting with chastity - I'm locked in my CB6000 right now, going on about two days - and this board has been incredibly helpful to take some of the "scary" out of it.
Looking forward to participating more here. This is such a great resource. Thanks everyone!
a 20 something in the US finally testing the waters in an area that has been of interest for a some time now. Just looking to chat with people on a common topic. And looking for other 20 somethings into the same.
I got a Houdini. Not the one with the handcuff welded, but the one with the hinged ring and tube. After some slight mods and a larger ring it's awesome.
I don't think 2 months should be unbearable. We both work during the week so we mainly have our sex on the weekends anyway so a week or two would be nothing... except I normally crank one out by hand a couple times a week. lol.
Atone wrote:
Chuck wrote:New guy to the forum and to the vanilla chastity lifestyle.
So what metal device did you get?
2 months is a very ambitious first time goal, try not to get too wrapped up in it in case it works out differently. My first time was 45 days but the original goal was I think only 2 or 3 days, it just ended up being a lot longer.
