Testing her slut

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fonetik2003
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Testing her slut

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My Goddess recently allowed me to cum on her birthday (The 25th) and told me that she intends to test my devotion now. She said I may very well be chaste for months! The longest I've ever gone was 22 days so I was just asking if there's anything I should be aware of about going "long term" so to speak?
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Re: Testing her slut

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For me it is getting into the Zen of chastity. I orgasm and am locked up and am fine for around 14 days. Then, I get increasingly horny from day 14 to around day 28. Assuming I am getting attention from my keyholder and allowed to be of service to her, she can keep me at the high level or arrounsal for an infinite period of time. On the other hand, if locked and ignored what happens is a complete lack of desire. Chastity, contrary to common belief, is a hands on not a hands off experience. Neglect will kill chastity faster than anything else.
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Re: Testing her slut

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cb6000s wrote:Chastity, contrary to common belief, is a hands on not a hands off experience. Neglect will kill chastity faster than anything else.
Sometimes when things get hectic and we haven't spent any time together for a while I just need my wife to tell me that I'm not getting out for a long time. That alone can be "hands on" enough to keep me going (and in the Zen).

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Atone wrote:
cb6000s wrote:Chastity, contrary to common belief, is a hands on not a hands off experience. Neglect will kill chastity faster than anything else.
Sometimes when things get hectic and we haven't spent any time together for a while I just need my wife to tell me that I'm not getting out for a long time. That alone can be "hands on" enough to keep me going (and in the Zen).

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Yeah I agree... just "knowing" that she wants me locked up often maintains my zen.
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fonetik2003
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Re: Testing her slut

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Thank you for the advice people! I just let my Goddess know what you were saying so she can better maintain her slut...
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Re: Testing her slut

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Echoing others, if I feel connected to my spouse, and she is assertive that she values my discipline, it gets my chastity motor going. Getting over periods of feeling disconnected seems to be key.
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Re: Testing her slut

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Precisely why I should make it a point to bring it up every so often. Like the other day when I said, "Your slut belongs in a chastity cage and butt floss panties doesn't he?" or the day before that when I said, "Cum belongs in your balls and I belong in the kitchen right Goddess?"
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I know that everyone is different but if I did that it would just piss my wife off.

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Atone wrote:I know that everyone is different but if I did that it would just piss my wife off.

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Agreed. To each his own, but that would turn me off immediately.
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Re: Testing her slut

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She ought test your limits by taking you shopping for her stuff all afternoon, or by having you go detail her car, or by seeing if you can listen to the stuff she wants to talk about. The kinky stuff isn't all that tuff.