I failed...

[fonetik2003]

Well my Chastity Mistress just left me and while I believe she'll return, I simply couldn't handle the stress anymore. I had taken off my device as my balls need some recovery time... I just orgasmed after 22 days of being chaste... That's 8 days longer than I've ever gone before though! So it ain't all bad! I guess I should be ready...

[Atone]

I thought your wife was your mistress, are you saying your wife left you? I hope that is not the case. If so you have bigger problems than breaking your chastity.

-A

[fonetik2003]

Well she is, but she's not up to the task right now as she's sick. (But getting better!) So someone else was filling in for her as my Chastity Mistress... Though to be honest with you, I'm pretty sure she'll be back soon enough... I'll just chill in the meantime!

[jnuts]

I can't help it...I have to ask...how did the conversation go when you two decided you needed someone to fill in?

[fonetik2003]

Fairly well as it's someone we both know and trust... Though she has issues about sharing control, but I'm fairly certain those will disappear soon...

[LockedUpNewb]

My wife didn't really want to try chastity at first. She did it to make me happy, but we failed miserably for the first 3 or 4 months. Just poor communication and not understanding each others needs.

We're better now, but there was a time when she actually brought it up -- I should maybe seek a chastity mistress outside the marriage. I was..... SHOCKED. Thats not what I want. It's never been a dream of mine to have sexual interaction with other women. I want my wife to do this with me and help both of us become better people.

We went through about 2 weeks of discussion about it. She was ready to do it and invited a woman to our home for a 3-way interview. At the end of the night both women were ready to go - full steam ahead with my chastity training. I was horrified and terrified but did not let on while the other woman was in our home. After she left my wife and I talked about it. I immediately admitted to her that I was only acting so as not to offend the woman and I had NO desire to do what she and the other woman had planned. My wife thought I was testing her and kept insisting that we go through with the plan. She thought this was what I really wanted and she was trying to be firm with me. It took some real honest begging and pleading with her to convince her that I REALLY was serious and I REALLY did not want to go through with it. When she figured out I was serious - she called it off immediately.

I've wondered if she actually knew I didn't want to go through with it and was just screwing with my head? I've also wondered if she and the other woman just did it as a game to screw with me. My wife is devious enough to do that to me. God bless her for the fantasy, but I really thought they were serious and I REALLY thought my wife didn't know that I REALLY didn't want to do it.

[jnuts]

Wow. I'm sure there are some who would kill for that opportunity. I'm not one of them either.