I can be such a dummy sometimes!!

[wishful4]

Being almost 4 weeks since my last orgasm, I am a bit needy. Since it is allowed in our chastity agreement, I asked my spouse for a few minutes of stroking. I'm on the honor system while awaiting the arrival of my resized MM Queen's Keep. She said I could stroke myself for 5 minutes and she would set a timer. I got started and then, she got a phone call. When the timer went off she interrupted her call to come and tell me time was up. I was so into it I asked for 5 more minutes. She was upset that this is the way I repay her generosity by asking for more. Afterwards, I was upset with myself, as well. I spent the rest of the day apologizing and trying to be extra attentive, but she said in no uncertain terms that I would NOT be allowed any more stroking for awhile. Even though I'm not allowed to orgasm, I really look forward to it. However, it does makes me even more frustrated and needy afterwards. What a screwup! I can be such a dummy sometimes!!

[Locked by LRC]

See what trouble you can get into when your thinking with the wrong head?

[Atone]

That is a tough one, good to figure it out now though.

I like the idea that she gives you a time limit and even sets a timer. When my wife lets me have a little "play" time it usually goes on too long. I think I would want more than five minutes but sometimes after a long time I am ready to be done but she doesn't care. She will even keep adding on more lube as we go. There is something a bit more exciting about being told to stop rather than just getting bored with it and giving up. I'm afraid if I suggest a time limit though it might be like what you are experiencing and not quite enough to get what I need out of it.

-A

[LockedUpNewb]

My wife and I play a game that involves timing me.

I am locked up for 3 days. On the evening of the 3rd day, I get released and I have 2 minutes to jerk off. I can cum freely if I can manage to "pull it off" in the 2 minute time limit. If I can't cum in 2 minutes, I get locked up again for 3 more days.

Next time I get a chance to cum, she adds 1 minute to my time. So 3 days = 2 minutes. After 6 days of locked, I get 3 minutes. After 9 days I get 4 minutes. 12 days = 5 minutes. You get the idea. Add 1 more minute of time to jerk off after each 3 days of being locked up.

If I cum, I have to eat all of it..... wherever it lands. If I don't eat all of it, the game starts over, but this time I start out with only 1 minute on the first day and subsequent days only get 30 more seconds to try and cum instead of the usual 1 minute added to my time. Makes the game a LOT harder for me. Obviously, it takes me a lot longer to build up enough time to actually cum when she only gives 30 more secs each time. By the 9th day you're only at 2 minutes of time. It takes 15 days just to earn 3 minutes of time.

Lesson learned:
Eat it all or you'll be locked up for a LOOOOOOOOOOONG time on the next round.

[Atone]

My wife and I play a game that involves timing me.

I'm glad that works for you, that is what is important.

Personally I have no desire to try to masturbate as fast as I can. I don't think I would even be trying until after about 45 days on that schedule as I would want at least 15 minutes to enjoy the lead up. I guess I could just use the shorter times as a bit of a "tease" session but it would take something away from experience knowing I could cum any time I wanted to.

Having said that, I am positive that I could masturbate to orgasm in under two minutes as long I was at least a little bit aroused when I started. Been there, done that. Not interested in it anymore though.

-A

[jnuts]

I like the idea that she gives you a time limit and even sets a timer. When my wife lets me have a little "play" time it usually goes on too long. I think I would want more than five minutes but sometimes after a long time I am ready to be done but she doesn't care. She will even keep adding on more lube as we go. There is something a bit more exciting about being told to stop rather than just getting bored with it and giving up. I'm afraid if I suggest a time limit though it might be like what you are experiencing and not quite enough to get what I need out of it.

THIS!

As for the guilt thing, it happens. I went through it last week. Best thing to do is get over it and not do it again.

[poor]

Chatelaine: Would you like to cum over my tits?
Me: (Being funny) After 2 months I want more than that. Something like fireworks, a fanfare from a marching band and dancing girls holding a bucket.
Chatelaine: Take it from me that will take quite a while to arrange...off you go now.