How long

[KBCB]

Sure this has been covered before but maybe a new wrinkle? First if after 2 week of denial my orgasm is so incredible especially with a lot of T%D which she is so good at! So if she made me go three weeks or four would the orgasm be even better? So why not try 2 mos? I guess there must be a point where it cannot get any better? True-fully I cannot imagine it being any better after what I experience after 2weeks. Right now she needs me to fulfill her completely every 2 weeks so far. I guess she is truly in charge of my orgasms. Oh yea we are a pretty vanilla cpl in this game no BDSM or FLR! So comments please, K&C

[Tom Allen]

So, just imagine how good it would be after, say, six months. It would probably kill you.

Actually, a better question would be to ask when does it become a diminishing return? A month? 3? A year?

[KBCB]

First post here and first day too! So the new question is when does it become a diminishing return?

[kpb57]

Like all things, it does not scale indefinitely. There will be a point from which the intensity (of your orgasms, but also of your state of mind) won't increase any further. And some have reported to actually lose interest in all things sexual after a certain amount of time.
And remember, everybody is different. What takes months for some, may take only days for others.
And finally, be observant of your partner's needs. My wife repeatedly told me how much she likes the sight, sound and feel of me going through the spasms of climax (either in her, or by masturbation).

If you are interested in increasing the intensity of your climaxes, read the chapter "slow masturbation" in Joy of Sex.

K

[Tom Allen]

Like all things, it does not scale indefinitely. There will be a point from which the intensity (of your orgasms, but also of your state of mind) won't increase any further. And some have reported to actually lose interest in all things sexual after a certain amount of time.

And remember, everybody is different. What takes months for some, may take only days for others.

And finally, be observant of your partner's needs. My wife repeatedly told me how much she likes the sight, sound and feel of me going through the spasms of climax (either in her, or by masturbation).

We should frame this and put it someplace where people can read it once in a while.

[kpb57]

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We should frame this and put it someplace where people can read it once in a while.

Thank you. I'm truly blushing now.

[kinkywife]

I've been giving lots of thought as to how long to lock my hubby up for. I'll be playing a few games with him to see how long works best between unlockings. Something else that's also good to do is unlock, tease for a little while and then lock him up again without cumming. He said it's even worse than being kept locked up!

http://lockeduphubby.blogspot.com