Need Advice - Strapon / Dildo

[gungadn]

Hey all, I need advice/recommendations on a Strap on harness / Dildo combination to purchase.
Quick background: We are a fairly Vanilla couple (except this whole chastity - tease - denial thing). So, if I am going to try to introduce her to strap on, I need something very non-threatening.

Thanks for any advice

[wishful4]

gungadn,

My advice for you would be to let her try out the low cost Vac-U-Loc harness with the smallest dildo available ( a 6"er, I believe). Tell her it is a beginner model for the two of you to experiment with and if she really gets into it, you can always order a high end model like Tom recommended. My inclination would be not to spend a lot of money up front until you see if she is into it.

[gungadn]

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[fuzzydunlop]

If you have no other toys, I would go with something that would make her clit happy---like a Hitachi vibrator.

[Celtic Queen]

I'd agree with advice here. Start cheapish (entry level, oooops!) and also be mindful that some materials for dildos can cause irritation so perhaps cover it with a condom - helps with the cleaning too. I wouldn't economise on the harness though because you'll be able to re use it with different dildos dependending on the style you go for and a cheapie harness just becomes a distraction as you'll spend your time adjusting the damn thing. Some are designed specifically to accomodate a chastity device by the way whereas standard harnesses aren't! Be reasonable in terms of size obviously and be mindful of the fact that you might be getting what you wished for ....You may find yourself getting home from work to find your other half sporting a smile, 10 inch appendage and a bossy attitude

Don't restrict yourself to just a strap on though. Try something like a cocksplint which goes over the penis and removes all sensation. Perhaps consider a second job because once you start building a toy chest, you discover a whole new credit card hungry monster.

Good luck. Invest in lots of lube!

[Tom Allen]

Tom recommended the Terra Firma http://stockroom.com/Terra-Firma-Dee-Di ... P4055.aspx in another post. Is that still the recommendation for a harness?

Did you get me recommendation before or after you bought the Vac-U-Loc?

Here's what we like:
http://www.blowfish.com/catalog/toys/re ... t-vxn-1930

But that page has several other excellent choices. The Vixskin products are not inexpensive, but they have held up exceptionally well in the EoV Labs testing grounds.

[wettie]

This is one of my fantasies, using the strap-on on the wife while in my chastity belt. I'm trying to make it happen, keep us posted on what works, I'm not as worried about size, my wife has taken a good 7"+ penis sleeve and was looking for something with a bigger width, but I'd like to know if there is a good harness that works well over a CB.

[Tom Allen]

but I'd like to know if there is a good harness that works well over a CB.

Hello? Is my internet on? Hello? Can anybody hear me?

[gungadn]

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[wishful4]

Another problem with the vac-u-lock is that the straps that go between the legs are too short for most people. We are going to try and sew some extensions on to them with some extra strap material we have around here. That has kept us from being able to give it a good trying out.