Still Going

[michaelnmelissa]

Hi,

Been awhile since I've been on here. I see some new folks and some familiar faces. Some who used to be here a lot seem quiet. Still playing? We are.

Early May was my last orgasm. Melissa insists no more for the rest of the year.

I've been locked 24/7 for almost a month. She has less need for the cock since she has several nice dildos and my fist. Sometimes she teases me through the device as best she can, but mostly my only stimulation is ball torment through ice, clothespins, slapping, etc. She did mention milking me through a ruined orgasm - inside the device - but that hasn't happened yet.

We still love it. Hope your all enjoying yourselves too.

Michael

[MikeyLikes]

WB, M&M. Glad to hear that you're having a good time with this. Your WM device also still doing well for you? Although I read several reviews of the MM devices, for some reason I could really relate to your comments/review of the WM that you ordered, and I ultimately ordered the (new) Queen's Keep, which is a cross between the WM and the JB.

My wife is slowly warming to the idea of me being in chastity. She's reading Sarah Jameson's bcwywf book, which gives a good starting point for discussions.

[fuzzydunlop]

Thanks for the update. I love the idea of longterm denial. Seems like you guys are having fun. My wife and I just got through a 14 day stretch, which I have only done a few times in adulthood. We tend to hit grooves like the current one once or twice a year and then sluff off. We are now back to day two and will see how it goes. I would like to make it through the summer with almost no MB.

[celticqueens_sub]

Hi,



We still love it. Hope your all enjoying yourselves too.

Michael

CQ and I are still going strong. We had a break due to the nasty problems I had with my vasectomy but that all seems cleared up and we played for the first time the other night, we have both blogged about it. CQ has also been researching ball busting, it was a hard limit for me, no ball impact, but that seems incongrous for a sub, so we have removed this limit. Last night was my first ball busting, she flicked my balls and slapped me good.... It really hurt, but was amazingly hot! I am not sure that I can articulate it yet... but it really helped me feel submssive.. I will think on about it and may blog about it.

Glad you are both well and having a good time.

[sub4becca]

CQ and I are still going strong. We had a break due to the nasty problems I had with my vasectomy but that all seems cleared up and we played for the first time the other night, we have both blogged about it. CQ has also been researching ball busting, it was a hard limit for me, no ball impact, but that seems incongrous for a sub, so we have removed this limit. Last night was my first ball busting, she flicked my balls and slapped me good.... It really hurt, but was amazingly hot! I am not sure that I can articulate it yet... but it really helped me feel submssive.. I will think on about it and may blog about it.

Glad you are both well and having a good time.

Ball busting seems like a hard line to cross. is it something that you just went for and said i guess i will try it? or was it something you sorta worked into. I know its not the sissy clitty club in here. but at some level i guess all of us in chastity are submissive. it definitely appeals to the submissive in me, but my instincts want to protect that region of the body

[celticqueens_sub]

or was it something you sorta worked into.

Definately something we are working into and it is an indication of my deepening submission to CQ. It is not that she wants to do it - far from it - but as her sub I do not feel I can impose on her. She has the choice and because she has an IQ of 150, she knows what is safe sane and consenual.

I know its not the sissy clitty club in here. but at some level i guess all of us in chastity are submissive

Certainly not the sissy club, the site for them is well known... I am not sure that I agree that all in chastity are submissives on some level. Many here are using chastity and male orgasm denial to refresh/rebuild and heighten their sexual relationships and would definitley not place themselves in the sub category in the same way that I do. I think, as I have, many here have just handed the control of their sexual relationships to their partners in order to remove pressure from their relationships. That to me is not necessarily submission but good use of emotional intelligence to ensure a communicative and succesful relationship. However CQ uses MC to control me as much as to create the correct behaviours and we have also taken our FLR into a D/s relationship which really works for us.

What is so cool about all of this is how this varies and changes for each and everyone!

[sub4becca]

It seems to me that what ever the reason for chastity, there is an inherent relationship of submissive and dominant. Maybe it is does not come natural for everyone, and maybe it is less in some relationships than others. like you said each and every case is unique. but in order for a man to allow his genitals to be put under lock and key doesn't he have to submit to the will of the key holder to some level? this is my understanding of what I do. admittedly i have not been involved in chastity for very long and my own degrees of chastity have varied. I am here to see what works for others and hopefully find something new that works for me. i only give my imputs so that others may add or subtract their own feelings

[Davarian30]

It seems to me that what ever the reason for chastity, there is an inherent relationship of submissive and dominant. Maybe it is does not come natural for everyone, and maybe it is less in some relationships than others. like you said each and every case is unique. but in order for a man to allow his genitals to be put under lock and key doesn't he have to submit to the will of the key holder to some level? this is my understanding of what I do. admittedly i have not been involved in chastity for very long and my own degrees of chastity have varied. I am here to see what works for others and hopefully find something new that works for me. i only give my imputs so that others may add or subtract their own feelings

I think that you are correct. Assuming that the KH actually has the power to grant, or deny, release from the device and orgasm, then there is a degree of power exchange that is inherent. Dominant/submissive? Sure, why not...but not necessarily in a D/s sense. Though, that does seem to be the more prevalent manifestation.

[sub4becca]

Dominant/submissive? Sure, why not...but not necessarily in a D/s sense. Though, that does seem to be the more prevalent manifestation.

I think that you understand what i am feeling. i did not mean to imply dominant and submissive as in a bdsm relationship. while i am sure that there are those who incorporate such ideas into chastity i believe that it is a completely separate practice. we all have to find what works for us right.