KnownAsHerbert wrote: ↑Fri Jun 13, 2025 4:03 am
Something of a setback last night.
she noticed a small red area that "looked sore".
Apologies, I am on holiday in foreign climes and reliant on roaming on a French mobile network so am catching up.
It is one of the (many) remarkable things about your journey that you have had so little difficulty with fit. I am on my 8th cage / ring combo and currently out of my cage recovering from yet another rubbed sore patch. I seem to have very thin skin, which tears easily, and even adding a strap was enough to wear two sores on top of my shaft. Without a strap, I have a sore patch under my scrotum.
For people like me, cages are a very precise science - ring too big and balls escape, rings too small and instant pain. Keeping your balls warm seems key - the optimal temperature seems to be somewhere above 16°C- balls floppy enough to fit inside the gap. Any lower and pinching occurs.
KnownAsHerbert wrote: ↑Fri Jun 13, 2025 4:03 am
Something of a setback last night.
she noticed a small red area that "looked sore".
It is one of the (many) remarkable things about your journey that you have had so little difficulty with fit.
I just think I have been very lucky to have not have many issues. The only bad experiences were with the CB6000s and once I moved away from that, it's been much easier most of the time. Even the CB6000s had its benefits though - it was useful for experimenting with the ring sizes.
Hang on a minute... . This is FLR! We've been living a FLR!
Awake super early thanks to the 38. It seems so much more intense after a few days in the mild little Cobra. I've been lying here for the last hour with repeated erection attempts prevented.
Miss Emmie will be pleased to learn that she's achieved the additional 'sensations' that she wanted.
Hang on a minute... . This is FLR! We've been living a FLR!
I know those frustrations so well. My current cage is the absolute best I’ve tried in all ways except the fact that it took me well over two weeks to get used to sleeping with it. Night time erections woke me up every night around 04.30 and I had to get up and pee to have any hope to get back to sleep.
It finally seems to have settled down over the last week and a half so I’m glad Red isn’t planning on changing my cage anytime soon.
I’m locked and kept by Redraven, my life partner, soulmate and loving key holder. When life is hard, she’s keeps me feeling loved.
KnownAsHerbert wrote: ↑Mon Jun 16, 2025 11:07 pm
Miss Emmie will be pleased to learn that she's achieved the additional 'sensations' that she wanted.
Disturbed sleep is unfortunate.
An undesirable by-product.
One of the plus points of changing cages is the increased awareness and reminders.
Reminders are good.
Ten weeks in and obviously going through a peak of horniness just now. Another early wake up for the same reason. Already been awake for almost an hour. Why does it always have to be so early? Miss Emmie wouldn't be pleased if I woke her this early so I end up having to just lie here and put up with the undesirable by-product.
At least I'm getting the benefits of awareness and reminders and reminders are good apparently.
There's no "off" switch, is there?
Hang on a minute... . This is FLR! We've been living a FLR!
Chosen_Jackal wrote: ↑Tue Jun 17, 2025 12:58 am
It finally seems to have settled down over the last week and a half so I’m glad Red isn’t planning on changing my cage anytime soon.
It takes a while to settle, doesn't it?
I've noticed that with Herbs.
But I think it's a positive. A change causes awareness.
A reminder. I think that's useful. One of the reasons that I like to chop and change.
If I could take away the disturbed sleep bit, then I would but otherwise, it's just what it's all about.
Everything's better with a locked male. Better still with a nude, locked male.
Strange time for an update but it's been an unusual few days. Miss Emmie has been unwell with a stomach upset that's left her feeling rather drained of energy. Thankfully over it now but straight into her "out of service" time, and feeling rather grotty because of that. Not been a great time for her.
It's coincided with a mad spell for me at work with so much going on. I could have done without that right now but there you go.
I am, of course, taking care of Miss Emmie as she recovers from one thing and endures the other. At the same time we are preparing for another trip, in the UK this time, setting off on Friday. Peace and quiet and lots of rest should be good for both of us.
For the time being, and possibly while we're away, I'm wearing the Cobra again. She didn't see the point in leaving the 38 to do its intense worst while she couldn't make the most of it. So I'm enjoying the Cobra's more subtle sensations and restrictions for now. Expecting another two weeks or thereabouts before I get unlocked for any fun, making 13 weeks since last O...
Hang on a minute... . This is FLR! We've been living a FLR!
I have said it before and I’ll say it again. Enjoy those moments of hormonal disarray. Tend to her. Once the dr.s get ahold of the anatomy it’s never the same. I miss my horny fuck me crazy wife. Now it seems we just manage. I’ve probably said too much at this point.
Love her and tend to her and hopefully she will allow you to take her.
