[KHEmmi] Emmie's version

[Rufusstone]

Strict but fair makes him feel loved

[KHEmmi]

Oh dear, it looks like Herbi's transition from Cobra to Steel isn't being very easy for him.
I'd prefer it not to keep him awake at night, especially as it's waking him early in the morning as well. No doubt he'll settle into it before too long.

Herbi won't be on here any more today.
Technology curfew and all. He can do all his updates tomorrow.

Maybe I'll offer him a little pause to the struggles with the middle-sized steel that is tormenting him.
No plans today so how about a special deal since it's a long Bank Holiday weekend?

I think I'll give him a whole day (today) with me wearing the fairy costume, in exchange for him swapping into the 2cm steel "naughty cage" for the week ahead.
Perhaps I should start a poll to find out how many think he will go for it and how many think he'll turn it down.

The naughty cage week won't count towards his next release. He'll still have to complete his time in the medium steel.
It will just defer it, put it off for a week.
I think that sounds fair. The technocurfew will mean that he doesn't read this until tomorrow at the earliest of course. Hehehe.

Ok, I'm off to ask the question.
I can be a fairy by 9am and that will give him 12+ hours to enjoy it.
If he chooses that option of course...

[Tongue+groove]

No question he will take the deal. I don’t know who wouldn’t take it.

Your beautifully evil. Hopefully you take that as a compliment.

[Herman]

Take the deal Herbi!

I agree with Mr Tongue+Groove - you are beautifully evil! Herbi is a lucky man!

[KHEmmi]

So Herbi bought himself a fairy for the day.
Knock down price too. A week in the naughty cage and how squashed up in the 2cm it looks too.
He'll have no room to grow in that one.
Perhaps he'll even sleep better?

Soon another month will be over and I'll still have only let him come twice.
Twice in five months of 2025 so far.
I think the average of 0.40 is something to be quite proud of.
How nice to finish that fifth month off in the naughty cage!

[waki86]

That is indeed something to be proud of that the average is 0.4. Do you also notice the difference now that you let him come even less in his behavior?

For us it works best for both of us that I don't come.

[KHEmmi]

That is indeed something to be proud of that the average is 0.4. Do you also notice the difference now that you let him come even less in his behavior?

For us it works best for both of us that I don't come.

Definitely notice the difference, especially with longer between coming.
Once he gets to 6-8 weeks, it's like he's just settled somehow.
That's what 2025 has been like with only allowing him to come twice.
I think I like the 0.4 average!

[Nick0965]

Newbie to the forum here, but I have read through all of yours and your husband's journey posts (It took about 7 hours through the night, but I couldn't stop, and then had both open at the same time so I could compare how you both journalled on the same events). That has been some incredible journey for the two of you.

Based on how "well" he is doing, it's quite scary that orgasms in late July and early November would give him an annual average of 0.33, and based on the gaps between orgasms so far this year (February and early May) those don't seem unreasonable (although he may not agree)

[KHEmmi]

@Nick0965 Thanks for posting.
It made me smile that you had read the whole lot and it took 7 hours!
I hope it was 7 hours well spent!

I agree that 0.33 doesn't seem unreasonable with the way things are going at the moment.
An average of 13 weeks between orgasms.
There's no physical or practical reason that I can think of not to aim for that.

As you say, Herbi might not be in total agreement.

Hopefully you will be starting your own journal, if you haven't already?

[Nick0965]

I hope it was 7 hours well spent!

It was, but draining as well as enervating. I just couldn't stop reading on Saturday night / Sunday morning until I got to the end at 5am. Sunday day was hard work!

As you say, Herbi might not be in total agreement.

I don't want him putting me on his Foe list

Hopefully you will be starting your own journal, if you haven't already?

I have a Wordpress website which gets absolutely no traffic at all, consequently I sort of lost interest in it and then will update occasionally. I will have to do a number of posts to get from when I started to where I am now, so I can start going forwards. Thanks for the encouragement.