[KHEmmi] Emmie's version

[KnownAsHerbert]

I’m sure herbi was still locked during the conversation, but, how would it have gone if the cage and key were on the table between the two of you. Plainly visible to you both.

Interesting thought.
May have been quite a distraction having it there on view all the time.

You are correct though. I remained locked for the discussion.

[KHEmmi]

Good to hear you’re both in agreement!
Just to clarify, that’s an average of less than one per month, not just once in the year? Just kidding!
Well done.
Presumably, as KH, you have ideas as to what other achievements you wish to make with Herbi and perhaps Herbi will enlighten us (or not) but as I mentioned before, are you also agreed about the intensity? But maybe you don’t want to give to much away…

Technically he could have 11 over the year and that would be less than one a month but... I don't know, does that seem a littler generous?

Herbi doesn't need to know about intensity. He's agreed that he wants to carry on and that's good enough.

[KHEmmi]

I thought that as Herbi has been good about his changeover to the big cage, I'd give him a treat last night.
Oh no, no, no! Nothing involving use of the key. I've got no need for the cage contents at the moment.
Instead I met him at the front door when he arrived home from work.
I'd changed into the fairy costume to greet him. His face was a picture.

His eyes go a bit bezoomy at times like that not knowing where to look first, and then where next.
“My eyes are up here” I reminded him when he became fixated on my boobs for some reason.
So a whole evening with me in the costume. Corset top, stockings and suspenders under the little tutu skirt.
He likes bare thighs, does Herbi.
Oh and I little g-string in case I needed to bend down to pick anything up during the evening. The tutu doesn't really hide my bum anyway but never mind.

I think he enjoyed it. He went to bed hard and happy anyway and woke up at 4:30 or some silly hour, hard again in the steel.
Well done Herbi. Keep it up! Oh you can't, can you? It's kept pointing downwards these days.

[Tongue+groove]

It’s good to see that you’re taking such good care of Herbi. He is a lucky man.

But then again many of us on here are also, to have that special woman in our lives who will tend to our hearts desires.

[cagedbasilisk]

I have really enjoyed reading your journeys.
Thanks so much!

Would it be possible for us to see the essays?

I just feel it would be beneficial for those of us in similar situations to understand the

key points along the way, benefits and drawbacks, high points and lows.

We think it took four months to 'get used to' chastity, get used to the cages, the disturbed nights, and find ways around any niggling issues.

It was a good discussion and the essays were worth the effort.
There was plenty of emphasis on the benefits and the fun.
With recognition of the unavoidable inconveniences.

If not, I totally get it. No worries at all!
Sincerely, D.

[denied_one]

Good to hear you’re both in agreement!
Just to clarify, that’s an average of less than one per month, not just once in the year? Just kidding!
Well done.
Presumably, as KH, you have ideas as to what other achievements you wish to make with Herbi and perhaps Herbi will enlighten us (or not) but as I mentioned before, are you also agreed about the intensity? But maybe you don’t want to give to much away…

Technically he could have 11 over the year and that would be less than one a month but... I don't know, does that seem a littler generous?

Herbi doesn't need to know about intensity. He's agreed that he wants to carry on and that's good enough.

How absolutely WIGGLY!

*Edit* tried to delete this, it won't let me

[KHEmmi]

Would it be possible for us to see the essays?

Yeah, I might do that sometime.
Probably doesn't add much to what's already been on here but a retrospective look at a whole year might at once be worth a read I guess.

[Rufusstone]

Quick question- you’ve both agreed to carry on but is that for another set 12 months like this has been or is it now indefinite until someone (maybe Herbi!) calls for a timeout?

[KHEmmi]

Quick question- you’ve both agreed to carry on but is that for another set 12 months like this has been or is it now indefinite until someone (maybe Herbi!) calls for a timeout?

It's another 12 months.
We'll have another review on 1-Apr-2026!

[KHEmmi]

Nice to see and to be able to report that after his orgasm on Sunday, and a couple of subdued days after that, Herbs is now back to normal. He woke straining hard against and bulging through the bars of his lovely steel cage this morning

Me: What's the little guy getting so excited about in there? Hasn't he learnt that he's not getting out for a while yet so there's no point straining?