[Spaceman] The long road

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Re: [Spaceman] The long road

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Sorry, a bit deep this morning, but its good to talk to a like ninded, friendly group..
No need to apologize. It’s good to hear about others who have similar experiences. I doubt I could have this conversation within my immediate circle of friends.

Public innuendos may be the best form of teasing. And I too dream about my wife as if I just met her. Enjoy the fact that you get to experience something few ever do.

It’s a good lifestyle.
She says ‘it’s cute’ in the nub. ;)
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Re: [Spaceman] The long road

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I enjoy reading your journal. I think it’s a good thing that you feel safe enough to share these moments with us here.
I’m locked and kept by Redraven, my life partner, soulmate and loving key holder. When life is hard, she’s keeps me feeling loved.
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Re: [Spaceman] The long road

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Thank you for your comments, i really appreciate them.

I just looked back and its just over a year since I bit the bullet and started this journal, and reading back how much has changed in life. Its been a long journey but what a ride, long may it continue
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Re: [Spaceman] The long road

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And it does continue to surprise me. All our married life its always been me that bought toys, vibrators etc etc, either on line or in the early days when I travelled on business to Holland in the sex shops there.

Shes been hinting at stuff lately and been talking about a flat since december, as ive mentioned a few times here, nothing came of that until the other day when she shows me her phone and shes looking at cages.

Now she's sat with me to chose things on the past, including the various cages ive had, but absolutely refused to order anything or have it delivered in her name.

This morning i get a text, what ring size are you? So i told her and asked why, she said she was just keeping me on the boil.

So imagine my shock when hours later she calls me over and tells me to bring her purse, and I find shes got a cage shop on line and is looking at cages.

To cut a long story short she's chosen, ordered and paid for a flat cage which is arriving tomorrow.

Ive been told that its going on as soon as it arrives and she cant wait and is excited, thats nothing to what I felt at that.moment. Needless to say that was an imediate turn on and im still up the wall hours later.

I am shocked to the core, I'm also over the moon and feeling incredibly horny, but just a little anxious.. This is going to be a very, very special cage, the first toy she's ever chosen and ordered, She says she cant wait to see my face when i put it on for the first time and to see what happens when she teases me. I love her so much.

I just hope its as comfortable as the 2cm i have on now, omg its only 4mm long :ugeek: :ugeek:
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Re: [Spaceman] The long road

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You lucky devil. Mrs. G is that same way about purchasing sex toys. Some time back she offered to help me shop cages. I choked and said I would be fine. What a mistake I made. I have two in my cart at the moment. I’m just waiting for the right moment to get her feedback. Oh to have her pick the device and require it locked. I could wear anything under those circumstances.
She says ‘it’s cute’ in the nub. ;)
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Well between ordering yesterdy and this evening I reckon she can't have mentioned it less than 20 times today. To make it worse we went out, the post arrived 20 minutes later and she took great delight in showing me the cctv footage of the package being left at the side of the house, as she said "to think about for when you get home", and I did. If I talked about a cage that much i would have been slammed very early on, but she sets the rules and doesnt have to follow them, theyre for me alone.

Anyway when we got home several agonising hours later it duly went on while she watched intently, which made it twice as hard, in both senses.

Its weird, i have absolutely no penis, its gone, vanished, i feel bereft, lost, lucky and very horny. I then came to understand this was no 15 minute trial, i will be sleeping in it tonight and until she decides a change is in order.

So far its surpisingly comfortable, i will see what the night brings, especially about 5am (what is it about 5am?).

Wish me luck.

Ps, for those interested its an HoD S154

https://www.houseofdenial.com/products/steel-hod-s154
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Re: [Spaceman] The long road

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Oh wow! 5AM here you come or rather here you don’t come. Sorry. Hopefully your morning passes smoothly.
She says ‘it’s cute’ in the nub. ;)
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Re: [Spaceman] The long road

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I have two cages with hinged rings, and I find them hard to put on without getting pinched in the process. I'm curious if this is your first one with a hinged ring, and if so, what was your experience putting it on?
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Re: [Spaceman] The long road

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Herman wrote: Thu Apr 03, 2025 6:07 pm I have two cages with hinged rings, and I find them hard to put on without getting pinched in the process. I'm curious if this is your first one with a hinged ring, and if so, what was your experience putting it on?
I've been wearing a hinged ring most of the time since December, a bit fiddly and needs care to avoid pinching, but with practice i found a technique which works ok.

From my experience do not ask your kh to help, the extra hands makes it much harder :D
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Re: [Spaceman] The long road

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Tongue+groove wrote: Thu Apr 03, 2025 5:36 pm Oh wow! 5AM here you come or rather here you don’t come. Sorry. Hopefully your morning passes smoothly.

Yup 5 am did its stuff, that was after dreaming about it. But a surprisingly easy night until that time, at which point I had to get up to releive myself, and the straining which subsided after a while.

Its just a weird and wonderful feeling, reaching down and there's nothing, and i thought the 2cm was extreme. What has surpised me is how comfortable it it, I think it was @Mr Pickle who said the shorter the cage the more comfortable it was. And I see he's back in a flat.