Fast forward 4 years and saw more things online and got interested again. Decided to do more research this time and found the Reddits (good and bad) which helped me to find the way of measuring and ordering a smaller hopefully right size cage. By this point, I now introduced this to my now husband, then boyfriend. He was kind of weirded out about it at first and was fine with it for play only but didn't really think of it much more than that. I would start wearing it when we played and it made it more fun, but it still wasn't the right size.
Over the last 3 years, I've collected close to 6 different types of cages and only in the year of 2025 did I find the right size one that fits perfectly. In the last 3 years, I have gone from wearing it for play only to wearing it for a few days here and there just because the cages I found were not comfortable enough for longer than a few days time of wear. My husband was slowly coming around to the idea of me wearing it more often, but still wasn't fully into it. He was kind enough for me to bring it while we traveled in late 2023 and that was fun, but still was only able to wear it for a few days.
Now to the start of 2025: I found the perfect cage that fits and gives me 0 issues. I brought the idea of me wearing the cage more often with my husband in the goal of losing weight. He said that sounded like a fun idea and that he would be on board. So since the start-ish time of 2025, I've been constantly locked and loving every minute of it. My husband has let me out a handful of times to orgasm, but it's much less the 1-3 times a day I was at before. Ive also lost 10 pounds which has been a huge self esteem boost. But now, I don't really see myself wanting to be unlocked lol. We also discovered that while I am locked, I produce way way bigger loads when I do orgasm and that is something my husband really enjoys, just as much as I do.
I have CMC arthritis in both my hands so grabbing or gripping things sometimes just hurts to do, and jacking off as much as I was, wasn't helping that situation either. Being locked for 45 days so far has been a huge relief to both my hands lol.
The kicker, a few days ago I asked my husband how he feels about me being caged and any thoughts he may have. He said he likes it now and has a lot of fun with me and loves to see me happy! It melted my heart to hear this, I thought he would never come around but here we are in 2025, anything is possible!
So, here is to more locked days, more weight lost, less orgasms, less hurting hands, and lots more fun.
Thanks for reading my journey so far, feel free to comment below
