Hi everyone. My wife and I are very new to all this. Last night after sex and her denying me from orgasm , I brought up her teasing me in-between our twice a week sex sessions. She asked me for ideas and I could only come up with, her lying back using her vibrator and me only being able to watch. She quite liked that idea! Can you guys and gals help me out with other ideas. Nothing to extreme, she would hate that and I don't want to scare her off the idea.
TIA
Ideas for her to tease me.
Ideas for her to tease me.
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Chosen_Jackal
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Re: Ideas for her to tease me.
Don’t underestimate the effect of subtle touches and words. It doesn’t have to be grand gestures all the time, but small reminders every now and then that you’re on her mind will do wonders to your dynamic.
Incorporate words and phrases she can use to let you know your position in your relationship. Gentle touches on the cage, balls and other sensitive areas of your body takes literally two seconds of her time and gives you hours of excitement.
Or are you asking for more explicitly sexual stuff in the bedroom?
Incorporate words and phrases she can use to let you know your position in your relationship. Gentle touches on the cage, balls and other sensitive areas of your body takes literally two seconds of her time and gives you hours of excitement.
Or are you asking for more explicitly sexual stuff in the bedroom?
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Re: Ideas for her to tease me.
Both really
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Re: Ideas for her to tease me.
Since you’re already taken the steps to incorporate chastity devices it’s not too extreme to dabble in some light bondage if there’s an interest in that. Look up shibari knots. Don’t go all in on rope suspension and stuff like that, that’s for the advanced class.
The reason I bring up shibari is that it’s aesthetically pleasing and many women find it pretty to look at. She can tie your hands in the first place and exercise her control over you. You can begin with very simple knots and go on to more advanced stuff if you both like it.
If she enjoyed pleasuring herself while you were forced to watch it might heighten the experience if you’re also helpless and can’t interact with her unless she allows you to.
The reason I bring up shibari is that it’s aesthetically pleasing and many women find it pretty to look at. She can tie your hands in the first place and exercise her control over you. You can begin with very simple knots and go on to more advanced stuff if you both like it.
If she enjoyed pleasuring herself while you were forced to watch it might heighten the experience if you’re also helpless and can’t interact with her unless she allows you to.
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Re: Ideas for her to tease me.
Not sure about your relationship dynamic but for us it just took some time for her to get comfortable with leaving me frustrated.
If I were you I wouldn’t get too aggressive with giving her ideas. It will be much more effective if she uses her own womanly intuition.
If anything have her mentally go back in time to an era of when you were pursuing her. What would she do today if that were the case. How would she dress, act and talk if she were trying to lead you on. As chosen jackel said, it’s the little things that she says and does that are most effective.
One day you all will get to a point that your making out on the couch like teenagers and you’ll be wanting to “go all the way” and she will push you back and say”no” . It’s an awesome experience and will take years off your attitude and put a youthful bounce in your step.
Take your time and let her go back in time at her pace. The journey is worth it. Remember it’s not a destination it’s a journey.
Just my thoughts.
If I were you I wouldn’t get too aggressive with giving her ideas. It will be much more effective if she uses her own womanly intuition.
If anything have her mentally go back in time to an era of when you were pursuing her. What would she do today if that were the case. How would she dress, act and talk if she were trying to lead you on. As chosen jackel said, it’s the little things that she says and does that are most effective.
One day you all will get to a point that your making out on the couch like teenagers and you’ll be wanting to “go all the way” and she will push you back and say”no” . It’s an awesome experience and will take years off your attitude and put a youthful bounce in your step.
Take your time and let her go back in time at her pace. The journey is worth it. Remember it’s not a destination it’s a journey.
Just my thoughts.
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