[Spaceman] The long road
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Re: [Spaceman] The long road
I’d love to get back in the flat cage myself, but me KH isn’t a fan of the look, and hygiene is definitely more complicated in the flat.
I’m locked and kept by Redraven, my life partner, soulmate and loving key holder. When life is hard, she’s keeps me feeling loved.
Re: [Spaceman] The long road
I've not got a flat, but 2cnm seens pretty small when you look down, especially when you're not used to it. So to keep me alert yeasterday she had me unlocked all day until evening, but teasing me like crazy, nipple torture and edging, then into the 4.5cm and had the key thrown at me because I forgot to put it round my neck and this morning I have to change to the 2cm before getting dressed.
Last night was a tough one, the larger one creates much more sensation,nimerous attempts at erections, the problem is I rather enjoy the sesation and I can leep hard just by tensing muscles down there, so not a great nights sleep.
Now into the 2cm, goodbye sensations, goodbye penis.
Last night was a tough one, the larger one creates much more sensation,nimerous attempts at erections, the problem is I rather enjoy the sesation and I can leep hard just by tensing muscles down there, so not a great nights sleep.
Now into the 2cm, goodbye sensations, goodbye penis.
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So glad its helping, its partly why I started a journal. For some the journey is fast, for others it needs patience, for us we've been over 10 years and the rides been slow but fun. She hit the accelerator recently thoughChosen_Jackal wrote: ↑Sun Jan 26, 2025 3:42 am As someone who’s still very new to this life it’s really inspirational (and a little bit nerve wracking) to read about your experiences.
Parts of me both hopes and fears that my KH, Redraven, reads this.
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February has been a roller coaster ride for me, the last few days since i last wrote have contnued the theme, firstly we went away and I was unlocked again, the first couple of days getting used to self control again, then as we're sitting on the sofa in our room she starts teasing me and continues for what felt like a couple of hours, but in reality was probably only 20 minutes.
The end result was my first full O in over five months, and it was explosive, by the time she finished I was shaking from head to foot and could hardly move for a few minutes afterwards, while she just smiled sweetly and asked if I enjoyed it.
I mentioned that it had been months since the last time, she just said "so you're used to waiting now". I may have another long wait ahead.
Two days later back home and into the 2cm, after all that and being unlocked for a few days its a hell of a shock when your penis disappears, and takes most sensation with it, it seems other parts of my body become much more sensitive, which she knows and takes full advantage of.
The first night locked again was rough, repeated erections and some pretty intense, caged, dreams, i woke up reaching down to find nothing but balls.
Thats settled down a bit now after three nights, still getting erections but fewer and shorter lasting. Not helped when as I come naked from the bathroom yesterday evening she studies me and says "nice cage". How do a few words from her have such a major effect on me, another night of dreams.
I have got much better at not talking about it now, and try never to mention it, the problem is she has started to mention the cage and my status more and more, I am ordered to do this and that, told im her slave, reminded I'm caged and hers and so the tables seem to have turned.
The end result was my first full O in over five months, and it was explosive, by the time she finished I was shaking from head to foot and could hardly move for a few minutes afterwards, while she just smiled sweetly and asked if I enjoyed it.
I mentioned that it had been months since the last time, she just said "so you're used to waiting now". I may have another long wait ahead.
Two days later back home and into the 2cm, after all that and being unlocked for a few days its a hell of a shock when your penis disappears, and takes most sensation with it, it seems other parts of my body become much more sensitive, which she knows and takes full advantage of.
The first night locked again was rough, repeated erections and some pretty intense, caged, dreams, i woke up reaching down to find nothing but balls.
Thats settled down a bit now after three nights, still getting erections but fewer and shorter lasting. Not helped when as I come naked from the bathroom yesterday evening she studies me and says "nice cage". How do a few words from her have such a major effect on me, another night of dreams.
I have got much better at not talking about it now, and try never to mention it, the problem is she has started to mention the cage and my status more and more, I am ordered to do this and that, told im her slave, reminded I'm caged and hers and so the tables seem to have turned.
Re: [Spaceman] The long road
This month the balance of control has shifted, no longer is the key the foundation of her power, its not needed any more, since the beginning of the month ive had to wear the key round my neck 24/7. Tbh at first i was surprised, but now its become a symbol of her control over me.
More than physical but mental.
I could unlock myself any time I wanted, she knows that, but she's also confident she now has complete power over me and I would never do that without instruction.
A couple of evening ago we went round for a drink with some friends, not unusual but I've always, always been unlocked for that, so as we got ready to leave I said:
"May i have permission to unlock as usual"
"No, tonight i think you can stay caged and think about it the whole evening, I'll enjoy that"
When we arrived she made me sit next to them on the sofa, " so she could watch my reaction". Just as well I had the 2cm on, anything else would have been pretty obvious with the erection that gave me.
Thinking about the shift in power and the huge enjoyment she's getting from it is mind blowing, and that evening felt so erotic. Over 35 years together and now our dynamic has changed, we have discovered an intimacy which works with medical issues (piv is impossible) and i feel so lucky and so very much in love.
More than physical but mental.
I could unlock myself any time I wanted, she knows that, but she's also confident she now has complete power over me and I would never do that without instruction.
A couple of evening ago we went round for a drink with some friends, not unusual but I've always, always been unlocked for that, so as we got ready to leave I said:
"May i have permission to unlock as usual"
"No, tonight i think you can stay caged and think about it the whole evening, I'll enjoy that"
When we arrived she made me sit next to them on the sofa, " so she could watch my reaction". Just as well I had the 2cm on, anything else would have been pretty obvious with the erection that gave me.
Thinking about the shift in power and the huge enjoyment she's getting from it is mind blowing, and that evening felt so erotic. Over 35 years together and now our dynamic has changed, we have discovered an intimacy which works with medical issues (piv is impossible) and i feel so lucky and so very much in love.
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Now away from home and unlocked, tomorrow i have to pop back home.
Her- you did bring a cage with you didn't you?
Me - no, you said not to.
Her -Well you better get it when you go home.
Me- really?
Her- Are you qestioning me? Bring the whip as well.
Me- sorry, which cage
Her- the small one, that frustrates you more. Hmm i need to get you a flat one, that would be better.
Omg, the journeys moving fast and she's 100% on board.
Her- you did bring a cage with you didn't you?
Me - no, you said not to.
Her -Well you better get it when you go home.
Me- really?
Her- Are you qestioning me? Bring the whip as well.
Me- sorry, which cage
Her- the small one, that frustrates you more. Hmm i need to get you a flat one, that would be better.
Omg, the journeys moving fast and she's 100% on board.
Re: [Spaceman] The long road
Whip?
Your KH does not need to join the community. Before you know it, Mr. Tongue or one of the other talented members will be making an heart shape paddle for your KH.
Your KH does not need to join the community. Before you know it, Mr. Tongue or one of the other talented members will be making an heart shape paddle for your KH.
WPS
Re: [Spaceman] The long road
She prefers a.riding crop, as it leaves matks for longer, nearly three weeks is her record to date.
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Re: [Spaceman] The long road
Wow I’ve had the riding crop used on me. Three weeks is impressive. I can say Mrs. G doesn’t like marks. 24 hours is my best record.
Someday she may come around .
Someday she may come around .
She says ‘it’s cute’ in the nub. 
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She does rather enjoy it, and i must day i wear the marks with pride and find they turn me on just seeing them. Its really all part and parcel of her control over me, comments such as 'would you like to come, oh no you can't your caged' emphasize that.
The other night she showed me how she rolled her knickers up, and told me to roll my pants up the same way, i foolishly told her i didnt see the need, next thing out of the blue the riding crop landed on my backside i didnt even see her get it. "You’ll do as your told, especially while caged". They got rolled up in no time.
Whilst we're out and in company she talks about feeling caged, whipping up a meal etc etc, all while looking ar me in that way she has. Its now entered my dreams, this morning Iwas woken by a solid wood which lasted for ages after dreaming of her, i even dozed off for a while and woke up again still solid and straining at the 2cm of steel, her preferred size so far this year, in fact pretty much since it arrived before Christmas.
Others talk about finding the inescapable cage and look for physical restraint to stop escape, i actually find I no longer have any wish to escape, the cage is frustrating as hell, a huge turn on, when she touches me the sensation last many times longer than when uncaged,, and finally she controls me, so why would I want to try and esape?
Sorry, a bit deep this morning, but its good to talk to a like ninded, friendly group.
The other night she showed me how she rolled her knickers up, and told me to roll my pants up the same way, i foolishly told her i didnt see the need, next thing out of the blue the riding crop landed on my backside i didnt even see her get it. "You’ll do as your told, especially while caged". They got rolled up in no time.
Whilst we're out and in company she talks about feeling caged, whipping up a meal etc etc, all while looking ar me in that way she has. Its now entered my dreams, this morning Iwas woken by a solid wood which lasted for ages after dreaming of her, i even dozed off for a while and woke up again still solid and straining at the 2cm of steel, her preferred size so far this year, in fact pretty much since it arrived before Christmas.
Others talk about finding the inescapable cage and look for physical restraint to stop escape, i actually find I no longer have any wish to escape, the cage is frustrating as hell, a huge turn on, when she touches me the sensation last many times longer than when uncaged,, and finally she controls me, so why would I want to try and esape?
Sorry, a bit deep this morning, but its good to talk to a like ninded, friendly group.