Good things from Chastity

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EvelynOtter
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Good things from Chastity

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Hi everyone, first post here but I wanted to talk about some benefits I've personally noticed about wearing chastity 24/7 over the last 36 days. For context, I have CMC arthritis in both my hands, and arthritis in both hips and knees, and only at the age of 33! You will see why I mention this.

For starters, I've always felt like I've jacked off too much, usually 1-3 times a day. When I was diagnosed with CMC arthritis in my hands a few years back, it made it harder to do this activity. However I still pushed through and over the years, it has hurt my hands more. Being locked for over the last month and only having a 1-3 times total to do this activity, my hands have hurt less and less, it's been quite amazing. This has helped keep me motivated to stay locked.

I've also been working on weight loss and have that as a goal as well, another thing to keep me locked. If I hit a goal point, I get a reward! I've lost about 5 pounds, which is awesome and a start.

Found some studies with fish oil and how it can assist in making loads bigger and balls slightly larger. I have been taking 1 1000mg pill daily for the same time and both my partner and I can say that it is working, in tandem with being locked of course. This has been a cool thing to discover and have fun with, has anyone else done something like this?

What other benefits have others noticed to keep motivated and stay locked? Thanks for letting me chat :)
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More energy in general. More time since I'm not jacking off everyday. And yeah, my wrist/hand tendinitis is loads better.
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A very remarkedly increased emotional intimacy with my Wife

Mind blowing sex sessions with Her, where I don't even cum

Bigger more satisfyingly feeling balls that I ever have felt in my life

A renewed sense of focus and increase of productivity in all things personal and professionally.

More "drive" at the gym

That's a few of the good things
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Yeah I can’t say that I’ve found anything bad yet, except when I do cum the drop is horrible. Her solution is just no cumming.
She says ‘it’s cute’ in the nub. ;)
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I’m also thinking that it’s better not to cum at all, but the thought of it never happening again is quite scary.
I’ve found that repeating a mantra of "I’m not a slave to my biology" got me through it the last time I came without feeling the drop too bad.
I’m locked and kept by Redraven, my life partner, soulmate and loving key holder. When life is hard, she’s keeps me feeling loved.
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I'm finding that past the two-month mark, my desire to look at porn has dropped dramatically.
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I’m also thinking that it’s better not to cum at all.
So far neos do a lot to keep me at bay. The occasional ruin helps with my attitude and keeps me horny and passionate. She refers to this as taking a little off the top with a dribble cum. Sometimes she will let me know my attitude needs adjustment and this is what happens.
She says ‘it’s cute’ in the nub. ;)
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Tongue+groove wrote: Thu Feb 27, 2025 11:52 am
I’m also thinking that it’s better not to cum at all.
So far neos do a lot to keep me at bay. The occasional ruin helps with my attitude and keeps me horny and passionate. She refers to this as taking a little off the top with a dribble cum. Sometimes she will let me know my attitude needs adjustment and this is what happens.
Ooo what if She told you your attitude needed an adjustment and used the paddle on you! 😜
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. Ooo what if She told you your attitude needed an adjustment and used the paddle on you! 😜
I would welcome that in a heartbeat. Currently she paddles me mostly for my own enjoyment. There was one occasion where she felt I was fidgety and irritable from being horny. She gave me a good working over to calm me down.

I will say this has been a big step forward for her. As she becomes more comfortable she is also getting more out of it too.
She says ‘it’s cute’ in the nub. ;)
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When I was self locking., I set many a goal..
one such was to not mention me wearing a device for one month.. just live day to day..,being ready when she might be interested in sex.. really hard to not mention it.., she saw it on me in the bath one day. She says “ Oh that chastity thing again” .,I spoke the words.,about my desire for chastity and a few concerning the device.., this started the clock again..
wife is not interested in me wearing a chastity device..at all., so the real challenge was to remove it unseen when we decide to spend time together.. end result is no more self locking.. honor system.. sex only with wife.,
Broke up with lefty..