How long have you been married?

[Atone]

When I lived in Texas it was 30 days there.

Do they have to be continuous days? If not @Michele and I are married

Her other husband probably isn't happy about that either

[ARK]

Researching common law marriages, only 7 states and District of Washington recognize common law marriages. Several states have a date tied to the common law marriage.

I know several co-workers who have a family but are not married. I wonder what the drive force to this trend is?

[CCnewbie]

I have been married for 35 years. I bought my first cage and started wearing it 1/9/25. My wife was/is very skeptical and out of her comfort zone but so far so good…hopefully she gets more comfortable with chastity and becomes more active.

[Tongue+groove]

. My wife was/is very skeptical and out of her comfort zone but so far so good…

It seems many are in the beginning. Be patient it’s a journey. Keep the communication going, but try to let her be the one to bring it up.

[denied_one]

. My wife was/is very skeptical and out of her comfort zone but so far so good…

It seems many are in the beginning. Be patient it’s a journey. Keep the communication going, but try to let her be the one to bring it up.

This is sound advice.

My Wife evolved over time and we have been practicing since 2008. She is a Wife/KH dream

I am/was really lucky in that my Wife allows me to bring up chastity whenever I want to. I've asked Her about the whole...should I not "bring it up at all, really and wait for Her to?" She said that She enjoys talking about it with me.

The advice typically goes kinda like this "keep the communication going" and then not many breaths later the advice inevitably, ironically turns to, try to keep quiet about it until She talks about it.

One never knows really, unless they ask. They may have that spouse who is ok with chatting it up alot. Just another view

[CCnewbie]

Thanks for the advice! I’ve read that it even though we want to talk about it all the time, resist, and let her bring it up. Sounds fair but I want her to tease and deny or be more active. She basically ignores it until we have sex and then she unlocks it. In her world, nothing has really changed except she has to unlock me to have sex. She definitely has noticed me doing more and showing a lot more affection which is good…I’m just hoping for more participation on her end.