Deciding how long you are in chastity

[John]

Yesterday Jan and I celebrated our longest spell of my denial - 6 weeks.

The experience has been wonderful - most of the time. Previously our longest spell for my chastity was one month. I am not locked all the time - we depend mostly on the trust system. I do not cheat, but it is extremely difficult and, like so many others, we are looking for a device that works well for us.

Jan says I may get release tonight - Phew! We are in UK so you may hear the yells across the pond.

However, I now find I have mixed emotions about this - part of me wants to carry on with denial, part wants release. I think this is quite common.

One of the hardest things for Jan during this 6 week period has been learning how to be firm and say NO.

How long next time? We don't know yet. Jan has decided we will discuss this after my release.

[celticqueens_sub]

Jan says I may get release tonight - Phew! We are in UK so you may hear the yells across the pond.

However, I now find I have mixed emotions about this - part of me wants to carry on with denial, part wants release. I think this is quite common.

We are in North Wales, we'll put our ear plugs in.... As to the mixed feelings... yeah I get that too.. I too think it is quite common, but you get over it!

[LockedUpNewb]

My wife doesn't like the pressure of having to decide how long to deny me.

We have been using dice. Get 2 regular dice.

The first one is the number of days you get locked up.
The second is the multiplier.

You should probably be already locked up for this.

You toss the first one. Thats the number of days you get locked up. Let's say it is a 4.

Now you toss the second one. Thats the multiplier. Let's say it's a 2.

4 x 2 = 8

You're locked up for 8 days.

Worst case scenario a guy could end up locked for 36 days if he rolled a 6 with both dice.

Want longer? Then use 3 dice.

Roll the first one. Thats your number of days.
Now toss the last 2 dice together. There's your multiplier. Worse case would be 72 days if you rolled a 6 on the first one and then both 6's on the 2nd two dice.

Total chance with no idea when you get out?
Colored Beads

Buy a bunch of plastic beads. You need 4 or 5 different colors.

Our game:
Blue bead = denied. No release. Put the bead back in the bag and add 2 more blue beads to the bag.
Orange bead = release from cage and a full orgasm. Orange beads do not go back into the bag once removed.
Green bead = slaves choice. Anything he wants. If he asks to be let out and have a nice orgasm, he agrees to be locked up again immediately after said orgasm takes place. Green bead goes back into the bag.
Red bead = extreme punishment. Mistress can use any form of painful punishment she desires and slave must submit too it. Red bead goes back into bag.
Yellow bead = Free Pass. Slave can hold and save. Can be used to trump a red bead. Can be used to take a 2nd draw after getting a blue bead. Slave holds yellow bead until it's used.

Game starts with:
10 blue beads
3 orange beads
1 green bead
5 red beads
1 yellow bead

Slave must draw a bead each day.

If he gets a blue bead, he gets nothing. Put the bead back in the bag and add 2 more blue beads.

Green beads, red beads and yellow beads are as outlined above.

When he gets the first orange bead, he gets out. He gets an orgasm, but it's up to Mistress as to HOW he gets that orgasm. He gets 24hrs of freedom. Then locked up again.

Put all the beads back in the bag - EXCEPT the orange one he just pulled out - game continues.

When he gets the second orange bead, he gets out. He gets to cum. Take all blue beads out of the bag and count them. Divide by 20. He gets that many days of freedom. Then locked up again.

Put all the beads back in the bag - EXCEPT the orange one he just pulled out - game continues.

One last orange bead....... and a WHOLE LOT of blue beads in the bag now.

When he draws the last orange bead, he gets out and he gets to cum. He has to put the cage back on immediately. Take the blue beads out of the bag. Count them all. Divide by 5. He has to remain in chastity for that many days before he can start over and draw a blue bead.

Reset the bag:
10 blue
3 orange
5 red
1 green
1 yellow

My wife and I worked this out together. I have not drawn an orange bead yet. It's been 16 days. By my count, there's at least 42 blue beads in there now. Odds are getting pretty damn slim that I'll ever get that first orange bead.

[LockedforHer]

Last night Wife said she wanted me to use my tongue to get her off, she seemed to enjoy herself as I did my best to satisfy her. She now says that I have to wait and see if I get release on the 10th as she is happy for me to be locked up as long as she gets the use of my tongue.

After 5 days my balls are starting to ache a little, not pain just an aching, she thinks this is good but we would both like to know is this normal after only 5 days?

[LockedUpNewb]

It's called blue balls, and yes, it's normal. Happens to me after about 7 days of relentless teasing.

[LockedforHer]

I have stated to my Wife that after the ten day period it is up to her if she wishes to release me or leave the cage on, she sais that she liked the sound of being in control. I also like the not knowing when I am to be released, love the sound of the dice game above, will have to give that one a try next time.

[Harry Haversackers]

For the first few months of our involvement in male chastity, Mrs Haversackers would roll the dice and we'd go with the period of denial that a little formula gave us. However, as she really got into keeping me chaste, the dice game lost its appeal.

Now, I'm locked and kept chaste and horny for whatever period of time suits her. She seldom has a date in mind, but rather decides on the spur of the moment. She almost let me come a couple of evening ago, then decided to have me keep it bottled up a while longer.

I'm not sure which I prefer. Having a date gave me something to anticipate, but my preference doesn't count.

It's only been a bit more than three weeks since my last orgasm, so I'm not too wound up about it yet.

[LockedforHer]

Wife text me last night to say get ready to be unlocked, when I got to bed there was a set of pink pajamas with a note "wear these as you have a locked up cock, you might as well look like a girl". When she got to bed she looked and me and just smirked. She used my tongue and stripped me, she then unlocked my cock, I thought "yes tonight is going to be fun". She went to the toilet, got back in bed and said "not tonight for you dear" but you are released.

My wife is becoming quite a tease, and I love it.....

[LockedforHer]

Wife has come up with an idea, put paper pieces in a hat with numbers from 1 to ?? ( she says that is up to her ). I have to pick out a number and that is the number of days with no cumming.

I have said that sounds OK and she is going to prepare ready for tomorrow pm....

[kinkywife]

You can still have sex even while being denied.

Melissa and I still enjoy intercourse but I am not allowed to orgasm. It's exquisitely frustrating to be thrusting inside her all the while trying desperately not to let go. She sometimes also will have me ruin my orgasm during those times too. I have to thrust until I'm right to the edge and then stop. I don't move but my cock releases inside her. She loves the feeling and I can continue but I am denied the pleasure of a true orgasm.

Another way of thinking is to see that sex does not need to be cock-centered. Once your cock is out of the equation you'll be surprised how imaginative the two of you can be.

Michael

That's exactly what I do with my hubby too. I let him out quite regularly but he is still not allowed to cum, I lock him up again when I am completely satisfied. He's getting quite good at holding it, especially with the help of a safe word and some china brush