"Hello world" thread

[denied_one]

Been thinking about just buying a cage.

Strongly recommend you just do it, be warned it's a sliperly slope there is so much choice that you'll just want to get one more to see how different it feels etc.

Soooo...this thing is addicting you say?

[vtris]

Been thinking about just buying a cage.

Strongly recommend you just do it, be warned it's a sliperly slope there is so much choice that you'll just want to get one more to see how different it feels etc.

Will do some exploring here to help me choice a cage.

Thank You for the warning. i am looking forward to the slippery slope

[denied_one]

Hi. I was introduced to chastity by my fiancé who I obviously love very much. He asked me to be his keyholder and I very reluctantly agreed. I don’t get much out of this and don’t care for it. I find it annoying, difficult, and that requires a great deal of work for me, without much reward, because I only want a partner, not someone to “dominate”. I’m looking for advice from other reluctant key holders, because obviously this is important to my partner and I want him to be happy.

Welcome, and Bless you and your patience with indulging your beloved partner with this exercise in withholding of sorts....

[Redraven]

New to being a keyholder , not sure if writing on a forum is my thing but I find I enjoy reading others stories and experiences so far ... Also I like to keep up with what my partner is writing because im nosy like that.
For what it’s worth I’m the keyholder of chosen_jackal who is also new to this forum .

[denied_one]

New to being a keyholder , not sure if writing on a forum is my thing but I find I enjoy reading others stories and experiences so far ... Also I like to keep up with what my partner is writing because im nosy like that.
For what it’s worth I’m the keyholder of chosen_jackal who is also new to this forum .

Welcome! I am excited for You and @Chosen_Jackal, it sounds like you two are off to a fantastic start!

[Redraven]

Thank you. I’m still feel like I’m the big winner in this world of new things, but my jackal assured me he’s some how happy with this arrangement.

[denied_one]

Thank you. I’m still feel like I’m the big winner in this world of new things, but my jackal assured me he’s some how happy with this arrangement.

You BOTH are the big winners

It's not as evident to be seen just yet though.

You are doing a GREAT job!

[Chosen_Jackal]

I keep pinching myself expecting to wake up at any moment

[Tongue+groove]

. Hi. I was introduced to chastity by my fiancé who I obviously love very much. He asked me to be his keyholder and I very reluctantly agreed. I don’t get much out of this and don’t care for it. I find it annoying, difficult, and that requires a great deal of work for me, without much reward, because I only want a partner, not someone to “dominate”. I’m looking for advice from other reluctant key holders, because obviously this is important to my partner and I want him to be happy.

I’m not a kh so you may not read this , however, my wife of 40 years struggled with my introduction of chastity also. She agreed to a two week test. Then we had some ups and downs. In the end she did realize that I was more attentive to her and not in sexual ways. She didn’t make a big deal out of me becoming high maintenance. She just lived life like normal. Early on she did confess that she didn’t want to loose her macho stud man. She wanted me to continue to be the leader in the home. She was afraid I would go soft in her words.

Let me say that is further from the truth. I’m still her macho stud man. But I don’t defile her house keeping like I once did and I take more time out for her. For example today she wasn’t feeling well. I made ham and eggs for breakfast, emptied the dishwasher and refilled, rotated two loads of laundry, folded and put away mine and hung up some of hers, cleaned the guest room floor as pre arranged then I was out the door about 0930 and cut about a dozen pine and cedar logs that I will mill in a week or two for a building project.

Point is I’m still the man in her eyes and I get the pleasure of also spoiling my queen. Oh what did she do. Some light house work, cooking and quilting. The latter two she loves to do. She says she feels guilty at times, but is coming to grips with the idea that I am intrinsically rewarded by doing this for her.

End result, I gave up secretly masturbating in order to focus on her.

Final thought, take the keys from him and toss them into the lost abyss that exists in every woman’s purse. if he is nagging about how you should behave, then tell him and do the following.

Honey you know that I love you and I want to help you with this so if it is going to work then you need to let me exercise the control you want me to have. Now leave me be I have things to do. When I need you for pleasure I will let you know. Scurry along now.

[Juss4you]

Heya,
Me and my partner have recently got Into chastity. I'm loving the tease of being locked up, but I must admit it gets really difficult around day 2. We've started experimenting with longer times and so far made it to 4 days but I don't get much sleep haha

My wife is loving teasing me with the key as well. She keeps it on show when we are home alone

Hopefully next session I make it past a week