Hi all,
After many discussions over the past few weeks, my wife (Lady F) and I have decided to purchase a chastity cage and trial chastity. It should arrive in the next few days.
The objective of our chastity is to minimise/eliminate my masturbatory habits, reliance on pornography, and to enhance our emotional connection.
We have listened to the audiobook ‘Locked-in Love’, and excited to see what chastity will bring us.
We may be like many couples - Lady F has a low sex drive, while I have a huge drive. My sexual behaviours and the accompanying constantly asking for sex & intimacy have been a major turn off for Lady F, to the point where we agreed to keep me ‘pussy free’ for the past couple of months. This agreement has certainly helped with the nagging for sex, but has also increased my reliance on porn for edging/masturbation purposes as a substitute. She’s enjoying keeping me PF, and has given me the task of not cumming this week. I enjoy the FLR aspect of this.
Hopefully being in chastity will calm the farm on my masturbatory addiction, and allow us to reinvigorate our relationship into the future.
Who knows, she may even start seeking & asking for intimacy, which has only occurred once or twice in our 20+ years together.
Any advice or tips from your experience is appreciated.
LA
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No, which is one of the reasons i joined the forum. While looking for info on the urethral versions of the devices I stumbled onto Mr pickles thread and decided to join
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Welcome Dervil76 and LockedAussie.
There is a lot of good information on this forum. In addition it is a good support group. Don’t be surprised if members are swapping food recipes.
Enjoy the forum
There is a lot of good information on this forum. In addition it is a good support group. Don’t be surprised if members are swapping food recipes.
Enjoy the forum
WPS
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Welcome here! What you describe here is ExactlyLockedAussie wrote: ↑Wed Jan 22, 2025 6:42 pm Hopefully being in chastity will calm the farm on my masturbatory addiction, and allow us to reinvigorate our relationship into the future.
Who knows, she may even start seeking & asking for intimacy, which has only occurred once or twice in our 20+ years together.
Any advice or tips from your experience is appreciated.
LA
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Welcome here! What you describe here is Exactly
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Thank you!
Time will tell. Here's hoping!!
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Hello
I'm just 80yo and have just developed a desire to be locked.
Some 6 months ago I had to have a prostate op which required a penile catheter - the insertion of which was so foreign to me that it hurt.
I can now carefully insert an 8mm dia rod up my old boy without a problem so I'm now looking at a chastity device, picture attached. It is on its way by Australia Post, I'm keen to fit it but wonder how?
The base ring will be 45mm dia (1.77in). How do I fit my balls and rod through this? I expect to use some lube and also expect to push my balls into my body, they seem to disappear when I do so.
And when (and IF) I can get the ring around balls and cock, how do I get the ring off?
Please, give me some advice
I'm just 80yo and have just developed a desire to be locked.
Some 6 months ago I had to have a prostate op which required a penile catheter - the insertion of which was so foreign to me that it hurt.
I can now carefully insert an 8mm dia rod up my old boy without a problem so I'm now looking at a chastity device, picture attached. It is on its way by Australia Post, I'm keen to fit it but wonder how?
The base ring will be 45mm dia (1.77in). How do I fit my balls and rod through this? I expect to use some lube and also expect to push my balls into my body, they seem to disappear when I do so.
And when (and IF) I can get the ring around balls and cock, how do I get the ring off?
Please, give me some advice
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Hi everyone,
I’m excited to join this forum! I’m a 35-year-old female keyholder and sensual dominatrix with a passion for exploring chastity dynamics. Over the past couple of years, I’ve delved deeply into chastity and have developed extensive experience with online keyholding relationships.
For me, chastity is about more than just the physical aspect—it’s a deeply psychological and intimate.
I’m always eager to learn, share, and exchange ideas with others who are passionate about chastity and D/s lifestyles.
I’m excited to join this forum! I’m a 35-year-old female keyholder and sensual dominatrix with a passion for exploring chastity dynamics. Over the past couple of years, I’ve delved deeply into chastity and have developed extensive experience with online keyholding relationships.
For me, chastity is about more than just the physical aspect—it’s a deeply psychological and intimate.
I’m always eager to learn, share, and exchange ideas with others who are passionate about chastity and D/s lifestyles.
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Hi there. Welcome! I'm a solo chaste, but my friend @denied_one is in a D/S chastity relationship with his wife and they have a GREAT arrangement going for them. Perhaps they can give you some ideas to take things to a spicy new level.Lady Lockheart wrote: ↑Fri Jan 24, 2025 8:24 am Hi everyone,
I’m excited to join this forum! I’m a 35-year-old female keyholder and sensual dominatrix with a passion for exploring chastity dynamics. Over the past couple of years, I’ve delved deeply into chastity and have developed extensive experience with online keyholding relationships.
For me, chastity is about more than just the physical aspect—it’s a deeply psychological and intimate.
I’m always eager to learn, share, and exchange ideas with others who are passionate about chastity and D/s lifestyles.
I don't stay locked up because my dream girl ordered me to. No, I stay locked up because I want to!
I help others make solo chastity fun & thrilling.
My favorite saying: That's the way the Dice roll
My biggest problem: Keeping my hands off my cock
I help others make solo chastity fun & thrilling.
My favorite saying: That's the way the Dice roll
My biggest problem: Keeping my hands off my cock
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Welcome! There are a good amount of couples here married and otherwise who are engaged in the chastity lifestyle and ain't none of us complaining!Lady Lockheart wrote: ↑Fri Jan 24, 2025 8:24 am Hi everyone,
I’m excited to join this forum! I’m a 35-year-old female keyholder and sensual dominatrix with a passion for exploring chastity dynamics. Over the past couple of years, I’ve delved deeply into chastity and have developed extensive experience with online keyholding relationships.
For me, chastity is about more than just the physical aspect—it’s a deeply psychological and intimate.
I’m always eager to learn, share, and exchange ideas with others who are passionate about chastity and D/s lifestyles.
My KH/Wife is @MrsLockNkey
Have fun!
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Hi All,
Not sure what to say here.
i am a 60 year old male that is interested in chastity,
Been thinking about just buying a cage.
Not sure what to say here.
i am a 60 year old male that is interested in chastity,
Been thinking about just buying a cage.