"Hello world" thread

[Tongue+groove]

You do know we could just be makimg it up as we go right?

If that’s the case the maybe international cage release day. One day a year where caged men world wide are allowed to let their Willy hang as long as he can for the day.

[LockedManDan]

Hello all!

I am a 24/7 locked male in his 30s with a wonderful partner who holds the keys.

I came from Chastity Mansion and am delighted to have found a forum that focuses more on the 'realistic' sides of chastity. I found Thumper's blog about 4 months ago and have been reading it like it's water to a man dying of thirst.

LockedManDan

[PornAddict103]

Hi everyone. I'm PornAddict103 and I've come from Chastity Mansion to seek out new friends in other communities in this lifestyle and hopefully share my experiences and help in any way I can.

First off, I'm a 44 y/o male who used to be a serial masturbator but it was getting out of hand and I decided to try chastity as a means of self-control. It worked a little too well, as it's since evolved into a kinky hobby beyond the typical lifestyle of a solo chaste. I can describe this if desired. I also like to help others in solo chastity keep things fun and not boring. I have my own "methods" and will be happy to share them with anyone who asks for them.

Now, I've noticed in Chastity Mansion, there are some "hecklers" there who are known troublemakers and the staff over there doesn't seem to care. I very rarely see anyone over there get banned for breaking the rules, so I've come here seeking an alternative. I hope to make some friends here and be an asset to this community.

[MaybeDeniedHusband]

Hey everyone,

Good looking forum you have here. I'm a 36 married male, just starting to explore chastity as something more than a porn fantasy. Longtime compulsive masturbator--as stress relief, as part of my creative process, whatever. Always been fascinated by the idea of chastity until I decided--as a kink thing--to try not jerking off for a few days at the start of 2025, with the assistance of wearing a cage while my wife was out of the house. But like two weeks in, I felt like a new person and it was very clear to me that this was something i wanted to pursue further. I had an incredibly productive week. I felt like I was on drugs all week. So in the interest of open communication with my wife, I sat her down for a whole discussion last night.

She was mostly just bemused, but she was happy that I shared with her. Didn't seem to have a problem with it. In fact, when I explained a little more about it, she said with a big smile, "So your kink is that you go down on me more and I don't have to do anything?" And "so you want blue balls?"

And later... "well I don't mind if you jerk off but maybe you should ask for permission" and "I could give you a time limit."

So honestly, for as vanilla as she is, I think it went about 10/10 what I could have possibly hoped for. Anyway, I'm looking forward to exploring this more, and I'm very excited to be doing it with my wife instead of keeping it secret and hidden. It's liberating.

[denied_one]

"...could give you a time limit..."

This is a very very good development

I can tell you where that is headed lolol

You are off to a fantastic start! Let Her lead

[Tongue+groove]

. It's liberating.

Yes it is .. congratulations on what appears to be a very successful startup and an excited kh.

[MaybeDeniedHusband]

. It's liberating.

Yes it is .. congratulations on what appears to be a very successful startup and an excited kh.

Thanks. Taking it slow, not pushing. She's not the only one figuring out what they want from it. But man, it feels like a real good start, especially with the...

"...could give you a time limit..."

This is a very very good development

I can tell you where that is headed lolol

You are off to a fantastic start! Let Her lead

That comment from her gave me chills. In a good way. She came up with that idea completely on her own, without any direction or context or pushing from me. So, yeah. That was a helluva start.

[Michaelcarver451]

Hello to all, I'm Michael, been into chastity for a few years, never had a key holder. I've tried a few devices in these years and am working down to smaller and smaller ones. Am using a steel inverted one but looking for something better for a long term lock up.

I live out west in the US, spend alot of time outdoors and love to hike and explore the mountains and desert. I do enjoy naturalism and nudism when I can as well. Am single and looking to make friends and learn from them. Am open always so feel free to say hi.

[Dervil76]

Hello all, checking in for my first post. I’ve been lurking for a bit and might have some questions and decided to create a profile. I’ve dabbled in chastity play a little with my wife.

[denied_one]

Hello all, checking in for my first post. I’ve been lurking for a bit and might have some questions and decided to create a profile. I’ve dabbled in chastity play a little with my wife.

Welcome! Are you locked presently?