[gggxthree] My journey with LadyJ

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Writing this post trial of chastity.



We (wife and I) started testing chastity in September-ish. Doing only weekend lockup's and release on Sunday with intercourse.



Told her I wanted to try locktober, but she had scheduled neck surgery and that was a no go. We did a 3 day chastity prior to surgery wear we learned that the length of a cage does matter. ( I bought too long of a cage),



Mid November we did a 6 day chastity. After Thanksgiving I was locked up until December 7th. Ended up with Jock itch and decided that the metal cage was not going to work, besides the jock itch, there were two small rub spots on the penis. Spent the next several days uncaged but still on chastity protocol. Re-caged, crotch grabbed daily, and occasional mild teasing. Then one major day of teasing, kissing - grabbing, flashing, a few penetrative strokes and relocked until December 31st evening when she decided that I had earned a release and sex. Currently uncaged for a few days I was told.

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Piv on the New Years Eve, and last night. Still unlocked.
Wondering how long...
She still wears her key daily.
Did tease me during sex, saying she's going to stop riding me and be done, but let me come.
Still grabs my crotch daily.
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How you feeling about all this? How is the "constant talking about chastity" going?

Have you kinda chilled out on that to where She isn't telling you, like you said "not everything has to be about chastity"?

Are you missing being locked?
Do you actually have a cage that is comfortable on you??
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I wish I was back in the cage...
We have a cobra cage that is the most comfortable so far.
I've backed off talking about chastity and only talk about if she brings it up.

I do wish she had a journal to read like KHEmmi ...
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gggxthree wrote: Mon Jan 06, 2025 4:21 pm I wish I was back in the cage...
We have a cobra cage that is the most comfortable so far.
I've backed off talking about chastity and only talk about if she brings it up.

I do wish she had a journal to read like KHEmmi ...
KHEmmi has a nice way to put it down on paper it certainly appears. I agree! 💯

Is LadyJ one to frequent message boards?
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gggxthree wrote: Mon Jan 06, 2025 4:21 pm I've backed off talking about chastity and only talk about if she brings it up.

This is a very positive development! Good job
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Is LadyJ one to frequent message boards?

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I do not know
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Still unlocked
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still unlocked
PIV last night, she suggested that she stop and lock, but did not :?:
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A new cage arrived yesterday and last night she said "have you tried it?" no, "well you will" ... At bedtime she locked me up. She likes that it matches her permanent earrings in color.

I do wish she had some follow though. Like when she has ridden me the last 2 times (PIV), she suggested she get off and lock up. But, never did. She doesn't want me to buy any more bedroom toys without approval, I bought some and she said there will be punishment, yet nothing happened.
Note, I do like spankings ... but she has the ability to make those hurt if she wanted to, she just doesn't. Thinks from her perspective that it would hurt and that's not what she wants ....