"Hello world" thread
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Hi,
I've been loitering for a few weeks and read several threads on the journey section. Not sure on some of them but overall it seems to be more real life than a lot of other sites.
We've been together a few years and in about 2009 I first raised the concept of chastity as our sex life was non-existent. Our sex life consited of 60 to 90 minutes at 9pm on a Saturday but if anything got in the way we would skip weeks or months and due to the infrequent couplings my stamina in that area disminished which added to the issues when we did manage to spend time together.
We started playing with chastity initially after a dry period lasting years and primarily to stop over sitmulation during foreplay before PIV. This started as a way to keep her hands off (Gates of Hell) but a few months in it ended up as an overnight in the CB3000. This started a few years of lockup in several devices including a CB6000s and then a MM JB with lockups between 2 and 6 weeks. It started off well with both of invested in it but it became a very bumpy road much like cuyahoga's journey where it seemed to be going well and then just stopped for months for no apparent reason.
The lack of sexual activity returned during covid and although I've tried countless times our sex life seemed to have just completely fizzled out.
Back to the present and I approached my wife recently in regard to what was in our future as I was at the point of giving up totally (sexually and maybe our marrige). She has come back to me with a proposal I'm not sure I can accept as it gives her what she needs but it will mean long term chastity and complete denial for me. Apparently it's that or nothing so I may start a Journey thread or may delete my account.
I've been loitering for a few weeks and read several threads on the journey section. Not sure on some of them but overall it seems to be more real life than a lot of other sites.
We've been together a few years and in about 2009 I first raised the concept of chastity as our sex life was non-existent. Our sex life consited of 60 to 90 minutes at 9pm on a Saturday but if anything got in the way we would skip weeks or months and due to the infrequent couplings my stamina in that area disminished which added to the issues when we did manage to spend time together.
We started playing with chastity initially after a dry period lasting years and primarily to stop over sitmulation during foreplay before PIV. This started as a way to keep her hands off (Gates of Hell) but a few months in it ended up as an overnight in the CB3000. This started a few years of lockup in several devices including a CB6000s and then a MM JB with lockups between 2 and 6 weeks. It started off well with both of invested in it but it became a very bumpy road much like cuyahoga's journey where it seemed to be going well and then just stopped for months for no apparent reason.
The lack of sexual activity returned during covid and although I've tried countless times our sex life seemed to have just completely fizzled out.
Back to the present and I approached my wife recently in regard to what was in our future as I was at the point of giving up totally (sexually and maybe our marrige). She has come back to me with a proposal I'm not sure I can accept as it gives her what she needs but it will mean long term chastity and complete denial for me. Apparently it's that or nothing so I may start a Journey thread or may delete my account.
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Hello, 1st year trying chastity. Introduced the wife in September and dabbled here and there with it. Longest lockup has been two weeks, currently at 12 days.
Initially no big problems, had an issue with rubbing on second round and caused some owie's... Then on the next go round from Thanksgiving until December 7th, had an issue with sweating and caused jock itch. Found out that the 1st ss cage was too restrictive, currently in plastic.
Wife is starting to really enjoy teasing! after initially being very tentative with the whole experiment. I love the twinkle in her eye's!!!!!!
Initially no big problems, had an issue with rubbing on second round and caused some owie's... Then on the next go round from Thanksgiving until December 7th, had an issue with sweating and caused jock itch. Found out that the 1st ss cage was too restrictive, currently in plastic.
Wife is starting to really enjoy teasing! after initially being very tentative with the whole experiment. I love the twinkle in her eye's!!!!!!
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Husband of over 30 years introduced me to chastity. I have never had much sex drive. I am the keyholder. Trying to ease in to this and learn something new.
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My partner and I have been in a long term dom/sub dynamic, we’ve dabbled in and out of chastity play, (mostly out if we’re being honest) - but at my request I’m back under strict rules and we’re navigating how those rules work for us and integrate into our dynamic and lifestyle.
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James (m) and Max (f) here active in chastity for James with a Cobra N+ and cuckold living in Asia
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Several newcomers in recent day days. Welcome to all.
She says ‘it’s cute’ in the nub. 

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Wow! Lots of new ppl.
Welcome. Don't be affraid to ask or comment.
Welcome. Don't be affraid to ask or comment.
Me. "I only got 30 seconds, that's not fair". C. "life's not fair, suck it up" 

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I'm 65, widowed, and have been a professional tattoo artist since 1983. Working in this industry for that long, I have tattooed damn near every part of the human body that can be. Over the years, after having seen it all, I was pretty jaded about it and saw it as just another day at work.
I met my widowed wife on myspace and we chatted a few weeks before she invited me to her home for a steak dinner and sleepover. We hit it off, After a few weeks I moved in and a few months later we married.(my 3rd and her 2nd) I was smitten as was she and things were the best they could be.
She had several large tattoos before I met her and had spent quite a bit of time in tattoo shops and knew that people get naked quite often.
She stopped by my shop regularly and often I'd have some young cute thing in the chair in her panties and a t-shirt getting tattooed.
She never made a scene and took it in stride.
She got a job at a dog grooming and boarding kennel, perfect for her love of animals. As a result I saw less of her at work.
More to come later.
I met my widowed wife on myspace and we chatted a few weeks before she invited me to her home for a steak dinner and sleepover. We hit it off, After a few weeks I moved in and a few months later we married.(my 3rd and her 2nd) I was smitten as was she and things were the best they could be.
She had several large tattoos before I met her and had spent quite a bit of time in tattoo shops and knew that people get naked quite often.
She stopped by my shop regularly and often I'd have some young cute thing in the chair in her panties and a t-shirt getting tattooed.
She never made a scene and took it in stride.
She got a job at a dog grooming and boarding kennel, perfect for her love of animals. As a result I saw less of her at work.
More to come later.
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A bit more back story. When we met in 2008 I was 49 and divorced for the second time three years prior, she was 48 and widowed for three years.
We had both lived separate lives in the biker lifestyle. She stunned me the first time I laid eyes on her. 5'8", platinum blond hair, busty with well rounded hips and a striking Norwegian countenance. Very self confident and worldly wise I knew she was my soulmate.
For five years we lived like there was no tomorrow, living and loving in the moment.
One evening I came home and she began asking me what body parts I had tattooed and if I had gotten any "tips".
Her inference went straight over my head and I replied of course I did and proceeded to count them out.
She got a little snippy and said you know what I'm talking about and I looked at her slack jawed. I had no clue.
I know what goes on between tattoos she said and I simply replied Woman, it's not how I roll.
The next morning we talked again and she revealed to me that she was just feeling really insecure and had let her thoughts take charge of her reasoning.
I assured her that I wasn't interested in any little bimbos trying to get a discount and why would I be when I had the one in a million at home.
I thought the matter was settled.
A week later she suffered a widow maker heart attack that basically destroyed the left side of her heart.
After 10 days in the cardiac ICU she was released to come home and await a transplant.
We had several discussions the following week and she still had nagging suspicions that maybe, especially now that no strenuous activity for her was allowed, that I might lower my standards and stray with a younger and cuter woman.
I pleaded to her that I would do anything in my power to assure her that would never happen. Then the Bomb fell on me when she asked if I would wear a chastity device while at work. With out hesitation I replied of course I would. I wanted her to know that she was the center of my universe and I would do ANYTHING to keep it that way.
The story to continue in a journey post if I can figure out how. I'm new to blogging so stay tuned and wish me luck.
We had both lived separate lives in the biker lifestyle. She stunned me the first time I laid eyes on her. 5'8", platinum blond hair, busty with well rounded hips and a striking Norwegian countenance. Very self confident and worldly wise I knew she was my soulmate.
For five years we lived like there was no tomorrow, living and loving in the moment.
One evening I came home and she began asking me what body parts I had tattooed and if I had gotten any "tips".
Her inference went straight over my head and I replied of course I did and proceeded to count them out.
She got a little snippy and said you know what I'm talking about and I looked at her slack jawed. I had no clue.
I know what goes on between tattoos she said and I simply replied Woman, it's not how I roll.
The next morning we talked again and she revealed to me that she was just feeling really insecure and had let her thoughts take charge of her reasoning.
I assured her that I wasn't interested in any little bimbos trying to get a discount and why would I be when I had the one in a million at home.
I thought the matter was settled.
A week later she suffered a widow maker heart attack that basically destroyed the left side of her heart.
After 10 days in the cardiac ICU she was released to come home and await a transplant.
We had several discussions the following week and she still had nagging suspicions that maybe, especially now that no strenuous activity for her was allowed, that I might lower my standards and stray with a younger and cuter woman.
I pleaded to her that I would do anything in my power to assure her that would never happen. Then the Bomb fell on me when she asked if I would wear a chastity device while at work. With out hesitation I replied of course I would. I wanted her to know that she was the center of my universe and I would do ANYTHING to keep it that way.
The story to continue in a journey post if I can figure out how. I'm new to blogging so stay tuned and wish me luck.