Do you remember?

[Chastityrules2017]

So I was at home today and suddenly I remembered the first time I came across an article describing teasing and denial but it didn't call it that
It was in a magazine called Penthouse Variations and there was a section where supposedly readers of the magazine sent letters describing kinky things they did in the bedroom
The title of this particular one was "Tease for two" and I truly enjoyed reading it The wife is the one that wrote the letter and she described with great detail how she teased Ted. He wasn't allowed to even go to the bathroom or shower by himself. I suppose chastity cages weren't a thing then. He could only cum when she allowed it and there was a teasing session before bed every night. He was ordered to kneel in bed naked and put his hands behnd his head, she then would caress his scrotum, shaft and around his "special"area for 15 minutes.
And in the last minute he was supposed to count down to zero as an extra tease knowing that the sweet torment was about to end. I remember she mentioned he was always more than willing to do whatever she told him to do.
I still think the experience is very hot.
Finally I wonder what triggered the memory, I'm 57 and I read that magazine when I was in my 20s I think
Feel free to share your thoughts or any similar memories you may have. I find this topics very interesting for some reason. Thank you!

[Mr Pickle]

After poker night I'd had a few beers and decided to put a porn movie on.
When it started my mates all agreed I had aged a lot since that movie was made.

I still remember being asked to appear in the porn movie, I have a porn cock so why not?

Ended up I played the husband leaving for work before the plumber turned up!!

[Chastityrules2017]

That's pretty awesome!

[Tongue+groove]

I remember when neither she nor I could sleep without having sex. It was just part of our get ready for bed routine. No kidding this went on for the first 12 years or more of our marriage. Then she started working outside the home. Hasn’t been the same since.

Not complaining it’s just different now. It has really changed since the cage entered the picture.

[Chastityrules2017]

Thank you!

[Vinny51]

I am 73 and married 52 years to a dominant bisexual woman who had a live in girlfriend who is a true sadist. When she I would cry out in pain as she whipped me she would sigh with pleasure. When she felt I could not take anymore she would stop and I could see her lubrication flowing down her thighs.

Plus sex was a threesome almost nightly for 20+ years. No PIV sex for the last 35+ years for me.No blow jobs either. I get to perform oral sex twice a year only. I did get used to it and learned to enjoy being a sexual masochist. I enjoy sexual pain and the girls are not that into guys so I got lots f sexual psin even after we retired and moved away from our girlfriend 15 years ago.

I was on the honor system for 20 years assisting the girls giving each other orgasms and hurting me sexually to get aroused. They allowed me to orgasm after each threesome and again during my one on one session with the girlfriend since it was too extreme for my wife. I was given permission to jerk off as I was sexually tortured. If I took too long slaps turned into punches and kicks. Cigarettes would be put out on my penis and funny enough I would cum instantly putting out the cigarette. It was kind of funny. They did every fetish they found, even being their toilet slave. So, I did cum most nights but in pain.

Now it is just my wife and I but she is not a penis fan. Sex is just my wife making me moan in pain which triggers her orgasm on her vibrator. Most times I do not orgasm snd am locked every day except for medical reasons and a two week break each year to get my penis back to normal and discuss what to change to push the envelope for the next year. I am using the smallest KINK3D Baby Narrow cage now as it is tight enough to prevent pulling out without pain.

I am so used to wearing a cage after 15 years that I feel weird not wearing it. I rarely even think about it. My wife has trained me to enjoy feeling sexually aroused more than a 3 second orgasm followed by loss of sexual energy. Yes, we are realistic and sometimes ruined orgasms go too far or my wife may feel I gave her a lot of great orgasms during six and gives me one once or twice a year. Only once I pulled out to jerk off in 15 years. Not going to say accidents never happened but they are rare exceptions plus at my age, tend to be more painful than pleasurable.

Boredom also is an issue so we try to change things up. For 2025 we are using software to decide if I orgasm, how, locked for sex or not, can I touch my wife, can I see her, and how she can orgadm etc. I spent 52 years in IT so this is all automated to produce random chastity scenes in detail using logic so no conflicts. We both think that it might not be as good as my wife making all the decisions but it will remove ant guilt she may have in prolonged orgasm denial and me not touching her as well as prolonged denial periods as the software is weighted heavily towards no unlocking for sexual nor orgasms. To alleviate her concern she can ignore the results 6 weeks out of 52 if she wishes to so she had some control. We try lots of new theach years and some work but some do not. We are flexible though as my wife has final say all the time.