[Spaceman] The long road

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Re: [Spaceman] The long road

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Ok, something happened today that really shocked me. We were in tha car today and she was teasing me, rubbing my cage and nipples on and off, which she knows winds me up.

Anyway I absently minded touched her hand for a moment, just a moment as I was driving.

She immediately pulled away and said 'you're not allowed to do that, another week now"

I commented that we hadn't agreed a time limit so what did that mean.

The reply was "Ok to solve that its now permanent'

Me, a bit shocked "what, for the
foreseeable future?"

Her, "Yes".

Later on I got up courage and asked if she was serious, " "oh yes, your in that for a very time time, not just for the winter".

To say I was shocked is an understatement, I love the idea, and got an instant hard on just thinking about it.

Time will tell, but for now it looks like im locked for a long time, which also means no orgasm as I have only once come in a cage. I'm rather excited.

Of course she could always change her mind, i just have to wait and see.

I actually can't quite beleive the last year, we've been toying with cages for the last 10+ years with occasional use, until a year ago three weeks was my record. Last autumn that became three months, now it could be.much longer. Something changed and I havn't a clue what.
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Re: [Spaceman] The long road

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Good for you! It just means she has found her groove.
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Re: [Spaceman] The long road

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Maybe she's figured out that she doesn't need your cock to please her
And you have no problem with that either.
And she wants to investigate whether this is really the case. Which is why she said, it's permanent.
It will be quite a challenge for you to meet your own needs. Without unlocking.

Wish you much success and happiness.
Lock permanently in inverted cage with ballspliter under the kilt :mrgreen:
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Re: [Spaceman] The long road

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Just got back today after three days away during which I found I was missing the cage enormously, it went back on as soon as I'd unloaded the car, which was just as well as she checked shortly afterwards.

Its odd that when I'm caged it's frustrating as hell, but when free for a couple of days i really miss it and can't wait to be caged again.

Anyway sitting on the sofa tonight she teased me like crazy, she made me sit next to her, naked, so she could touch me whenever she felt like it, and she felt like it a lot in an absent minded way, mainly focussed on watching a film, i cant recall much of the film as i was totally distracted and almost screaming at one point.

Due to how everything feels for her she doesn't want me to touch her, but she loves winding me up knowing I'm powerless to finish the job.

She then spent a while trying to get me to break the no kissing rule, eventually succeeding and promised that punishment will follow. I still have the bruises from the last whipping five days ago, which she's rather pleased with. i may get some fresh ones tomorrow, we'll see, she enjoys using the whip and giving me what she calls a 'badge of honour'.

I'm also seriously thinking of asking for permission to get a smaller cage, I'm wearing a 3cm one now and rather fancy the 2cm version whether I'll be allowed to remains to be seen. I'm 9cm flacid so it should be a tight fit but so far ive found the shorter the better.

Hopefully i will be successful, but my request for permission to shave down below was turned down flat today, she knows I prefer to keep it smooth so this is just another way of emphasizing that she's in control.
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Re: [Spaceman] The long road

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Ok, i have no idea where im at and where this is going, i have mentioned this and she' very happy I feel this way. Anyway we were heading off on Friday and in the morning I ask if I will be getting uncaged as usual for a trip,, seems im not allowed to ask this so I get roundly told off.

She then takes the key from round her neck and places it round mine, with some sort of hasp I cant work, its to small to go over my head and the chains far too short to reach the cage, not only that I never wear a necklace so I'm very aware of this every mnutes I'm wearing it, scraping on my nexk and the key knocking my chest, even worse I cant remove it without her help. That was severl hours before we left, and i reckon I was bulging out of the cage the whole time. Guys this is absolute torture if you arent used to a neck chain.

Just for good measure every now and again she grabbed my nipples or reaches down and scrape the key across them. It wasn't until we were getting ready to go to bed hours later that she finally took the necklace off and told me to unlock.

Got back home today and i put the cage back on as normal, later on she groped me and asked why i had got caged without asking, i replied that she'd told me I always had to. Seems I was wrong again and im promised a whipping in the morning.

I protested and was told to behave " your already locked for 2025, do you want longer?"

What's happening??
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Re: [Spaceman] The long road

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The other morning we were getting ready to go away next day and I was just tidying downstairs whilst she showered, I heard a loud bumping and immediately ran upstairs knowing i was being summoned. She's naked in the shower rubbing her breasts and teasing me, orders me to get out and take my cage off quickly.

Thinking the obvious I quickly get undressed, take off the cage and ring whilst getting really hard and go back in the bathroom,

Me "Look I'm uncaged"

Her ' Oh good, now go and put the other one on'

So i do that despite being pretty hard and its a struggle

Her 'no, i want the other one' whilst teasing me with her body through the glass.

So I go back and change again, by this time its almost impossible, im so wound up, hard and ready to explode but I eventually got it on and went back in. By which time she's out of the shower.

Her' Hmm yes thats ok you can stay like that for your shower, now warm your hands and put cream on my back, if its cold you get whipped'

After doing everything to warm up my hands i got the cream out of the cupboard, and realised its really cold, i had no alternative but to use it, hoping my hands had warned it up. Anyway to cut it short i was ordered into the bedroom, she got the whip out and I get punished. I know she planned the whole thing, set me up to fail and love that she took me through the whole thing just to whip me for her pleasure.

Three days later the marks had gone and she's really upset. I sense another one coming up soon.

I love my wife so much.
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Re: [Spaceman] The long road

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set me up to fail
Awesome post! You lucky devil.

I felt like a fly on the wall watching you run around all crazed. :lol:
She says ‘it’s cute’ in the nub. ;)
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Re: [Spaceman] The long road

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Tongue+groove wrote: Tue Nov 19, 2024 9:02 am
set me up to fail

..... you run around all crazed. :lol:
And indeed I was, but not at the end, i had to stand still for that, hands behind my neck :D

As I said the marks soon faded, however that was followed by a weekend away, uncaged, and an evening of unrelenting teasing and edging, by the time she rolled over and said good night I was a quivering wreck, so when she started again in the morning I was shaking and writhing, the cherry on the icing was to be allowed to caress her and kiss her breasts, which had been denied me since August.

However I was then told that was not allowed and punishment would follow. And it did that evening when we got home, at least ten strokes with a riding crop, and 8 days later I still have the marks which she proudly inspects regularly, (and I must admit so do I).

I asked permission to change cages to the larger, heavier one. Apparently I'm not allowed to ask, so I was told to stay in the small one and buy a smaller instead (as described on the device chat).

Whats interesting is that the dynamic has changed, a while ago I tended to push the boundaries, protest at punshment and mock complain when told to get locked. Now I accept everything quietly and meekly, she orders me around, calls me her slave and i do exactly as im told, I'm much happier in my role and more importantly so is she. The only rule we have is that I do as she demands without complaint and that if she tells me to unlock if we're going somewhere I automatically lock up again when home.

I have no idea what's next, we have no timetable, I'm locked until she decides I'm not, and punished when she decides. Punishment used to be extra days, but as we have no timetable it now tends to be edging or corporal, I have a vague memory of an orgasm, but that seems ages ago now with nothing on the horizon.

I feel.a very lucky man.
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Re: [Spaceman] The long road

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So the smaller cage arrived and she immediately told.me to.put it on. OMG the difference between 3cm and 2cm is huge, there's nothing there, i mean nothing. So that was a bit of a shock, to look down and see nothing but balls.

She looked at it and asked why it wasn't shorter, which instantly started me getting hard, then I found it made no difference, nothing moved, rock hard and no bigger at all!!

So all in all the move to the shorter cage, the model suggested by Miss Emmi, is a bit of a shocker

She did ask what a shorter one looked like, so I showed her a flat, at first she didnt like it but later said it looked interesting. I have no idea what she'll do with that idea, right now 2cm seems pretty extreme.

I haven't had a chance to properly test it as we've been away, i was told to take it with me and she's made me wear it a few nights, however I suspext thats all changed now we're back home today, an hour after getting back she asked ne if i was caged, if not why not. That surprised me as she's got a filthy cold and is feeling rotten.

I stammered out some excuse and went and locked up, handing her the key, which she promptly teased me with, saying "I may be ill but i can still get to you".

10 days at home now, and ive a funny feeling That'll ve ten days locked, and shes still talking about no change for 2025.

I must say as others have found I really miss the cage and am glad to have one back on, it feels good and boy does it do things for us both.
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Re: [Spaceman] The long road

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Spaceman wrote: Tue Dec 10, 2024 5:44 pm So all in all the move to the shorter cage, the model suggested by Miss Emmi, is a bit of a shocker
Who would have thought that Miss Emmie would be suggesting cages for others! Not me, that's for sure.

Hope it works out well with the 2cm jobbie anyway.
Same as what I'm wearing right now.
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