[Sam3655] I’ve put it out there

[Sam3655]

Today is the two year chastiversary of CS becoming my key holder. It’s been a rocky road to the point of CS handing me her wedding ring saying she can’t give me what I want to now laughing while telling me not to cum. Asked if she wants to stop and go back to no cages, she says no, she likes how things are and they are better and she is much more comfortable as a key holder.

Has chastity improved our relationship? Before the cage and keys we maybe and a big maybe it is if we would share any intimacy once a month and at times it felt like just doing your duty. Today she is free to cum as often as she likes without feeling the need to reciprocate or the guilt if she didn’t. She can tell me not to come or that I will not be unlocked. She still plays at games to extend my time between orgasms.

Quick stats in 2023 she allowed me twelve orgasms with five of them in May. So far in 2024 I have been allowed six. Makes me wonder if she will drop that even lower in 2025. Two years in a Cobra Nub has caused my once proud seven inch erection down to 3.5 inches. She measured it today. I know this is a temporary side effect of long term confinement but also better for CS as she has trouble with the cradle her bladder sits in and the smaller length is easier on her when we do have PIV sex. I wonder if she would try to make it shrink more if we can find a comfortable micro cage in gold. The number of her orgasms have increased each year from before Chasity of 12-15 a year to this year at 276 to date. Thank you to the person with the tracker program. She has become bolder and more confident.


So here is to two years on a fun journey of discovery and growth. Be interesting in seeing what the next couple of years bring.

[KHEmmi]

What a beautiful summary of your 2 years. Well done!
I like the ratio of hers to yours, 276:6 sounds good.
Wonder if I can get Herbi at a similar level this time next year.
He's on 8 since April this year and who knows how many before April? A dozen or more probably and that's just the ones I know about. No more of those DIY ones now though.

Single figures in 2025 ?

We'll all have to wait and see what the next 2 years will bring but good luck with it.
Sounds like you're on a winner.
Glad you have a Cobra Nub too. Great little things.

[Tongue+groove]

I like the ratio of hers to yours, 276:6 sounds good.

In no way am I being judgmental here. But, I am a retired math teacher so I must properly reduce your ratio. Sorry it’s a habit.

The properly reduced ratio would be. 46:1. Very impressive I might add. At this rate, with diligence, I estimate you should hit 100:1 in about 18 months.

Just don’t tell Mrs. Groove. Please.

[Sam3655]

With the weekend we finally got to celebrate our chastiversary. CS picked the restaurant as she likes the filet mignon and crème brûlée. Pricey but it’s once a year. After dinner she got her presents. She complained the stove had no timer so she got a rooster shape timer. Also got her a gold ring with emeralds. She really liked the timer and even said she was thinking of things to do with it. And how could she not like a new ring. Her gift to me? After saying no twice to a strap-on. I was told to order one and she would give it a try. I ordered two. lol and quickly before she changes her mind.

Cards and drinking. I won the first round and she won the second round. CS had me take a Viagra saying if I won the third round she would let me out. She won and wanted a massage. I stayed locked and with the Viagra doing its thing, I was straining against the cage the whole time. Gave her a happy ending and then was sent to bed.

[Tongue+groove]

Sounds like a splendid time. Hopefully the Strapon works out for both of you.

[Sam3655]

Another week done and one day shy of not having an orgasm in four months. CS and I were watching a movie and a scene in the movie had CS telling me if I ever did what we saw she would add another year to my time. But then she said she could never be that mean. This brought up a discussion on how anything a keyholder does can’t be mean. A kh takes possession of the key and ownership of the twigs n berries. Therefore they are her’s to do whatever she wants and therefore it can’t be mean as she is doing what she wants with her property. So during cards she stated if she won the hand we were playing she would show me mean for a week and if I won she would tongue her penis in the cage. She won so we will see what the next week brings.

Another development is the strap-on harness arrived. The Vixskin fits and my cage and balls hand just below it. It came on Tuesday. I showed CS that it arrived and then put it away and didn’t mention it all week. She is the queen so it’s her call when/if we used it. Last night with drinks and cards which she destroyed me, had her pull out the backgammon set. I won the best out of five so I got to use the strap-on. Went down on her till she came and then, still cage, slid the Vixskin in. The thrusting was different as the strap-on sits higher up. CS came twice more and then told me to get her vibrators which I used to get her to her fourth orgasm before having to wash the toys and clean her up.

I will say this. The positives of the strap-on were that I felt more involved in the love making that I could focus on more of her body. This I felt gave her greater pleasure which gave me greater pleasure. The feel of my cage hitting her ass each thrust had me feeling close to cumming. Never got there of course but was feeling pretty darn good. On the other hand, very frustrating as other than hitting her ass with my cage, I was bulging in the cage with no relief. Woke this morning incredibly horny for CS but she said she needing a day to heal down there. She also commented that while she really enjoyed the night, it wasn’t as good as just me. We agreed to give the strap-on four or five try’s before she decides if it’s a keeper.

So while she says she isn’t mean enough to keep me locked a whole year straight, I feel I have given her the means. She cut my orgasms from 12 in 2023 to 6 in 2024 so cutting them down even further in 2025 seems like a real possibility. No being mean there, just a natural progression.

Today is the start of her being mean so I will not be going down on her today and she has changed the radio roulette song from Killing Me Softly to N-Sync “Bye Bye Bye” which seems to play every day when I am in the car. CS even sang “if it plays you lose a month, in this crazy game, so it’s bye bye bye orgasm” complete with dance moves.

Gonna be a week.

[Sam3655]

The week of meanness has come and gone. For some strange reason I was really looking forward to seeing what CS could come up with to be as mean as she could. Instead, I got a week of being ignored. No touching, teasing. No going down on her which I feel like she was the one punished as she has orgasms and I don’t whether she has me go down on her or not.

She changed the song in radio roulette to one played multiple times a day and not once this week did we ride together. No additional time just because. No switching me to a smaller cage. She just worked, helped her daughter and laid on the couch. The most she asked of me was to make her an ice cream float.

I feel really disappointed and with no teasing, no touching I have lost the horniness and frustration that comes with chastity. I would as much rather read a book than to sit in the same room watching her shows just to be near her.

I guess she was mean after all.

[Sam3655]

For not having me go down on her for a week, CS must have really missed it. I did too and wanted to get back to that constant horny feeling. Went to the gym first thing in the morning and returned to go down on her.

Took her out to lunch before grocery shopping. Eating before grocery shopping cuts down on buying things we think we want, namely junk food. CS wanted to go out for Chinese food. Took her to a plant nursery to show her their Grinch tree as she loves the Grinch. This led to me taking her to three other shops so she could get Grinch pajamas and tree ornaments. Dinner was nice as this restaurant has the most incredible pot stickers and I am a big fan of Hot n Sour soup.

Back at home and in her Grinch pajamas we played cards, we played backgammon and not once did I win so no getting out and no orgasm for me. However, she had the strap-on come into play. After some heavy kissing and going down on her, CS got on all fours with her ass in the air. The Vixskin slid right in and I quickly brought her to another orgasm. Turning her over, I slid in again but went slower as with the strap-on my hands are free to explore the rest of her body and nuzzle her neck. I thought she came hard as she rolled on to her stomach and told me to kiss her ass. I quickly buried my face between her ass cheeks kissing and licking at her rosebud. My thumb found her clit slick with lube from the strap-on so I started rubbing it while continuing to rim her booty. What I thought was a hard orgasm paled to this one which also finished the night as I was told to go to my room but also told to come back to cuddle in the morning.

Woke up and cleaned the living room, kitchen and toys before sliding into her bed. Erections kept my cage tight as I pressed up against CS.

The horniness and frustration are back and all is right in the world.

[Sam3655]

After last weekend very fun night, this week has been a decrease to zero. CS needed Sunday to recover so no touch only for her to come down with a cold. Got her medicine and pushed fluids and increased my pampering of her. Cold lasted up till I took off for Atlanta this week to spend time with my son. CS did give me an emergency key sealed in an envelope. It’s still in the envelope. I get back this coming Wednesday as I am cooking Thanksgiving dinner for CS and her daughter.

[Sam3655]

Back from Atlanta and spending a week with my youngest son. So very proud of the person he has become. We ate well , saw a couple of movies and did the things he likes to do. It is a long twelve hour drive but well worth it.

Returned home with a cold of my own after a grueling drive at 2:00am. Let CS know I was home and then went to bed. In the morning told her it has been six weeks since she last unlocked me for any reason and while I do a good job keeping my nether regions clean and shaved while caged, I really wanted to do a good scrub and shave. Ten minutes later she relocked me. I have gone down three times on her in three days and got her to two more orgasms with her vibrator. Think she missed me?? She also had me hanging Christmas lights today which was about 20 degrees as the high. But she is happy as I have made her vision come to life. I also found a purple toilet bowl night light to go into her Purple Rain bathroom.

Tomorrow I hit 140 days since my last orgasm. My next potential release date was 02/14 but we went to a comic sale and she pulled 7 books for me giving me an extra day for each one so now looking at 02/21. Luckily “Killing Me Softly” played while I was alone at the gym or a month would have been added.