I thought the constant arousal, erections, lack of sleep etc. were maybe because
a) we were away from home in an unusual setting, strange bed, different noises
b) the cage I was in at the moment, the big steel
c) Miss Emmie being more assertive in her teasing and demanding
d) just how I am
After a night back home and another disturbed night I realised that it's coming up to 3 weeks since the big O. It's that dreaded third week feeling isn't it? Maybe the big cage isn't helping but I'm now convinced it's the third week syndrome. Hope that means it will settle down soon.
I'm aware of being extra horny and getting super frustrated at the moment and it's noticeable to Miss Emmie too. She even wrote that I'm getting a bit cranky! Well, yes! Who wouldn't?
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It's great to have some time off work with nothing urgent to do at home either. Relax, unwind, enjoy being at home with no pressures. Time to talk to each other properly without rushing because there's something else about to happen. Then there's time to keep Miss Emmie happy in other ways too. Whatever it takes. Whatever she wants.
I'm being as good as I can not only to avoid the stick that Miss Emmie has taken a liking for, but also because I was supposed to be locked for Loctober and unlocked on the 1st November but that plan has changed. I have three 'penalties' of 4 nights each, so another 12 nights has been added to Loctober and I don't really want any more additions. Today she informed me that I've got “less than a month” to go now assuming no more penalty nights are added. The 13th of November then. Not that I'm countning.
At the moment, she seems to have no plans to change the so-called big cage to one of the others. I'm still stuck in the sensation inducing and frustration amplifying big steel. “You're good as you are for another week” is her latest throw-away line. Also “every week in the big cage is one week less in the medium-sized one”. Her remarks are so casual, but the impact to me isn't! Another week in this thing makes a huge difference! I'm wishing for one of the middle-sized (i.e. tiny) cages or even the Cobra Nub right now, not in another week's time.
Another chat this morning:
Em: When we were at mum's I was talking to her about going to see her again. Sometime before Christmas.
Me: Ok, that will be nice.
Em: I want to spend a few days with her and dad. I guess you'll have to work though?
Me: Quite possibly, yes.
Em: It'll be a shame to go on my own, but I do want to see them. I'll ask the deputy keyholder to stand in again.
Me: Ah. Miss Vikki.
Em: Yes. You'll be ok with her as the emergency keyholder again, won't you?
Me: I'm sure I will.
Her smile was a “That's settled then” smile.
Having time to sit and reflect, as I have now, I realise how much Miss Emmie has settled into her keyholder role. It's not that she's just got used to it, but she treats the whole thing, from choosing cages and when to change them, to dealing out punishments, to demanding what she wants, and even including a friend such as Miss Vikki as entirely normal. She's not shy about talking about any aspect of our new lifestyle together and will ask about my comfort in the cage as easily and routinely as asking whether I'd like chips and baked beans or mash and vegetables with my dinner.
So many things about Miss Emmie that I would never have suspected that she'd be capable of. But she is!
No point thinking about a change of cage then. I might as well just sit back and enjoy these steel bars as they effortlessly contain my erections.
Oh I am nicely "secured" to use Miss Emmie's new word.
I'm being as good as I can not only to avoid the stick that Miss Emmie has taken a liking for, but also because I was supposed to be locked for Loctober and unlocked on the 1st November but that plan has changed. I have three 'penalties' of 4 nights each, so another 12 nights has been added to Loctober and I don't really want any more additions. Today she informed me that I've got “less than a month” to go now assuming no more penalty nights are added. The 13th of November then. Not that I'm countning.
At the moment, she seems to have no plans to change the so-called big cage to one of the others. I'm still stuck in the sensation inducing and frustration amplifying big steel. “You're good as you are for another week” is her latest throw-away line. Also “every week in the big cage is one week less in the medium-sized one”. Her remarks are so casual, but the impact to me isn't! Another week in this thing makes a huge difference! I'm wishing for one of the middle-sized (i.e. tiny) cages or even the Cobra Nub right now, not in another week's time.
Another chat this morning:
Em: When we were at mum's I was talking to her about going to see her again. Sometime before Christmas.
Me: Ok, that will be nice.
Em: I want to spend a few days with her and dad. I guess you'll have to work though?
Me: Quite possibly, yes.
Em: It'll be a shame to go on my own, but I do want to see them. I'll ask the deputy keyholder to stand in again.
Me: Ah. Miss Vikki.
Em: Yes. You'll be ok with her as the emergency keyholder again, won't you?
Me: I'm sure I will.
Her smile was a “That's settled then” smile.
Having time to sit and reflect, as I have now, I realise how much Miss Emmie has settled into her keyholder role. It's not that she's just got used to it, but she treats the whole thing, from choosing cages and when to change them, to dealing out punishments, to demanding what she wants, and even including a friend such as Miss Vikki as entirely normal. She's not shy about talking about any aspect of our new lifestyle together and will ask about my comfort in the cage as easily and routinely as asking whether I'd like chips and baked beans or mash and vegetables with my dinner.
So many things about Miss Emmie that I would never have suspected that she'd be capable of. But she is!
No point thinking about a change of cage then. I might as well just sit back and enjoy these steel bars as they effortlessly contain my erections.
Oh I am nicely "secured" to use Miss Emmie's new word.
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I don't know whether writing that line altered my state of mind, but I had a better night's sleep last night.KnownAsHerbert wrote: ↑Fri Oct 18, 2024 10:34 am No point thinking about a change of cage then. I might as well just sit back and enjoy these steel bars as they effortlessly contain my erections.
Maybe I was able to simply lie back and enjoy those steel bars doing their job.
Or perhaps the 'third week syndrome' is past its peak.
Have I just got used to it?
Or was I just tired out?
Whatever it was, I woke up straining hard against the bars anyway. There followed another brief conversation where Miss Emmie demonstrated her 'business as usual' no-nonsense approach to chastity.
Em: Did you sleep right through?
Me: I did actually. Until about 6 o'clock I think.
Em: Did you wake up hard?
Me: Oh yes.
Em: Ok.
You don't get the intonation of her voice when it's just typed in black and white of course, but her final line there came across as a comfortable “Ok, that's good to know. Thank you for telling me.” kind of voice.
Later:
Em: Does everything feel alright with the cage and all? Any problems?
Me: No, it feels good. Don't think there's any problems.
Em: I was just wondering if I needed to do an inspection but if you sure it's all good then I won't.
Me: No need to, I'm sure.
Em: No pain or soreness?
Me: No, all good.
Em: And no discomfort?
Me: Not at all. I know it's there but it's comfortable enough.
Em: Sounds like there's no reason to change it then. You've got yourself another week in the big one.
Me: Thank you Miss Emmie.
Em: That's ok. Let me know if you do get any problems but otherwise we'll review it next week.
Me: I will. Of course. Thank you.
At least I know where I stand.
A trip out to the shops completed this morning, ham, cheese, and onion toasties for lunch and a quiet afternoon to take things easy.
Feeling nicely secured and enjoying those steel bars for a bit longer.
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It seems to be settling down so maybe it was just the third week syndrome after all? (Although it's only just three weeks) Two nights with slightly less pressure and slightly better sleep anyway. Woke hard. Made breakfast hard. Delivered breakfast to Miss Emmie in bed, still hard, much to her delight.
Miss Emmie is determined to keep me in the big cage for another week though so I expect to find myself getting hard a bit more through the day. And she's chosen to wear shorts today because we're not going out or anything. Not just any old shorts either. It's the short shorts, close figure hugging shorts. Bare legs. Bare thighs. So lovely...
Miss Emmie is determined to keep me in the big cage for another week though so I expect to find myself getting hard a bit more through the day. And she's chosen to wear shorts today because we're not going out or anything. Not just any old shorts either. It's the short shorts, close figure hugging shorts. Bare legs. Bare thighs. So lovely...
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I'm feeling strangely calm and contented this morning. I think those intense few days recently must have been the third week syndrome and now that seems to have passed.
I woke hard, and feeling as if I'd been hard for some time, but it wasn't in that 'chewing the pillow' sort of desperation of the third week. It was persistent and still frustrating but not in the same 'drive me crazy' sort of way.
I've also decided that I've got used to the big (that isn't big) cage. I actually quite like it. I can feel something at least. The two middle-sized cages (that are tiny) prevent a lot of sensation and we all know that the Nub suppresses it completely. The big (that isn't) cage is more frustrating because of the sensations and I get hard a lot more during the day. And it keeps me hard for longer. But it is quite comfy and nice. I suppose now I've got used to it I'll be moved into something else...
I woke hard, and feeling as if I'd been hard for some time, but it wasn't in that 'chewing the pillow' sort of desperation of the third week. It was persistent and still frustrating but not in the same 'drive me crazy' sort of way.
I've also decided that I've got used to the big (that isn't big) cage. I actually quite like it. I can feel something at least. The two middle-sized cages (that are tiny) prevent a lot of sensation and we all know that the Nub suppresses it completely. The big (that isn't) cage is more frustrating because of the sensations and I get hard a lot more during the day. And it keeps me hard for longer. But it is quite comfy and nice. I suppose now I've got used to it I'll be moved into something else...
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Long list of positives there, Herbi?KnownAsHerbert wrote: ↑Tue Oct 22, 2024 4:39 am I actually quite like it.
is more frustrating
get hard a lot more
keeps me hard for longer.
it is quite comfy and nice.
I suppose now I've got used to it I'll be moved into something else...
Don't worry you've got a bit longer in the big cage.
Time to enjoy the benefits
Then you can have the new middle sized one right up until you're next big O night!
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The next Big O night? Is that a term now? I know it's supposed to be 13th November including those penalties. I wonder if that still stands or has changed?
Looks like only one more change between now and then and I'm left wondering how nights make up the 'bit longer' segment, and how many with be in the 'right up until' segment that Miss Emmie mentions.
I know I shouldn't think about it really, but 22 more nights.
Will it be 5 + 10, or 10 + 12, or some other split. Not 1 + 21 I hope!
The longer spent in the big (that isn't) means less time in the middle-sized (that's tiny).
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Herbie mate, I’m not sure your “thinking” is doing you any favours !
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Miss Emmie has already described the way that I found out the Miss Vikki was joining us for dinner yesterday. The “That's a lot of sausages” comment. It was only a few minutes after that conversation that Miss Vikki arrived, and I was sent to let her in.
She gave me a big smile and looked directly at my cage and said “Good to see that you're ready for me” or some similar words.
“Big cage again then”.
“Yes, the big one” I agreed.
She was dressed in black leggings with a longish top over them, the top quite low cut so that I could see not only her boobs but my key nestling between them. Curiously or coincidentally, Miss Emmie was also dressed in leggings (white) with a shorter top (not over her bum) and also displaying boobs and key.
There was time to sit and talk, but I was sent to fetch drinks and do other things such as checking on the dinner. Miss Vikki was keen to watch as I brought the drinks to them.
VK: Nice cage, that one. When are you getting let out?
Me: It should be mid-November as far as I know. In about 3 weeks or so.
VK: Ok, not too long then. Will you be in that one all the time?
Me: I think Miss Emmie has plans to change to one of the others sometime but I don't know when.
VK: Better have a good look at that one again before you get swapped then. What is it I have to say, “Show” ?
Me: Oh. Err, yes, “Show”.
VK: Right then. Show!
I knew I'd get longer in the cage or the stick if I didn't do what was required. I was good and obedient. So I was standing and they were sitting. Their eyes at my cock level, and within reach. Vikki reached out and cupped her hand under my balls and said “Yes, I do like that cage. But I'd like to see the next one when you're changed.”
Another rub to my balls to get the cage feeling nice and tight. This was going to be a long evening.
Dinner was great though. Plenty of it and tasty stuff. I was sat opposite the others, Miss Vikki directly in front of me, Miss Emmie slightly to one side. Throughout the meal I was presented with 2 beautiful smiling faces, plus 4 boobs and 2 keys. Miss Vikki seemed to enjoy her evening. She's not shy about teasing and making playful comments and left with “Thank you for having me this evening, Herbi. Well, you couldn't actually have me, could you? But thank you for showing me your balls and caged cock. I'll see you in a different one next time, eh?”.
She gave me a big smile and looked directly at my cage and said “Good to see that you're ready for me” or some similar words.
“Big cage again then”.
“Yes, the big one” I agreed.
She was dressed in black leggings with a longish top over them, the top quite low cut so that I could see not only her boobs but my key nestling between them. Curiously or coincidentally, Miss Emmie was also dressed in leggings (white) with a shorter top (not over her bum) and also displaying boobs and key.
There was time to sit and talk, but I was sent to fetch drinks and do other things such as checking on the dinner. Miss Vikki was keen to watch as I brought the drinks to them.
VK: Nice cage, that one. When are you getting let out?
Me: It should be mid-November as far as I know. In about 3 weeks or so.
VK: Ok, not too long then. Will you be in that one all the time?
Me: I think Miss Emmie has plans to change to one of the others sometime but I don't know when.
VK: Better have a good look at that one again before you get swapped then. What is it I have to say, “Show” ?
Me: Oh. Err, yes, “Show”.
VK: Right then. Show!
I knew I'd get longer in the cage or the stick if I didn't do what was required. I was good and obedient. So I was standing and they were sitting. Their eyes at my cock level, and within reach. Vikki reached out and cupped her hand under my balls and said “Yes, I do like that cage. But I'd like to see the next one when you're changed.”
Another rub to my balls to get the cage feeling nice and tight. This was going to be a long evening.
Dinner was great though. Plenty of it and tasty stuff. I was sat opposite the others, Miss Vikki directly in front of me, Miss Emmie slightly to one side. Throughout the meal I was presented with 2 beautiful smiling faces, plus 4 boobs and 2 keys. Miss Vikki seemed to enjoy her evening. She's not shy about teasing and making playful comments and left with “Thank you for having me this evening, Herbi. Well, you couldn't actually have me, could you? But thank you for showing me your balls and caged cock. I'll see you in a different one next time, eh?”.
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That is the reason why I no longer mind others seeing that I am caged
People (mainly women) enjoy that I am locked up and it puts a smile on their faces.
And they usually think it's a cute sight.
It can be touched or played with without any obligations or consequences arising.
.A man without a cage will never experience this, he immediately wants more.
And will do everything he can to get it.
And we are rewarded for the good behavior we show.
Through a smile or a thank you.
People (mainly women) enjoy that I am locked up and it puts a smile on their faces.
And they usually think it's a cute sight.
It can be touched or played with without any obligations or consequences arising.
.A man without a cage will never experience this, he immediately wants more.
And will do everything he can to get it.
And we are rewarded for the good behavior we show.
Through a smile or a thank you.
Lock permanently in inverted cage with ballspliter under the kilt 
