Pain while getting used to new Cage?

[subby_hubby]

Sure! Here’s the translation:

Hello,

I have a question about pain from the chastity cage.

I've read that you need to get used to the cage and that it can be uncomfortable and even a bit painful at first.

I'm using the "Cock Cage 2," and I think it fits quite well. The ring is tight, but I can still fit a finger between it when I put it on. The cage itself also fits quite well.

I’ve been wearing the cage for a few hours at a time. On the first day, I wore it for 4 hours. On the second day, 6 hours. On the third and fourth days, 9 hours each. Yesterday, I wore it at night for a total of 14 hours. It was uncomfortable at night but bearable. Today, I only wore it for 4 hours because a few spots on my skin feel irritated, and I don’t want to risk chafing. I use body lotion for skin care.

When the cage is on, there’s about 8mm of space at the top of the ring between the cage—what is that actually called?—and the ring. Skin gets pinched in there, and over time, it starts to pinch more.

It doesn’t seem like there are any circulation issues, as the skin color doesn’t change, and there’s no tingling. It’s just the pinching, so my question is: is this something I have to endure until my body gets used to it?

Since I’m quite tolerant of pain and have read everywhere that pain isn’t good, I’m wondering if something might be wrong?

Lastly, how should I increase the wearing duration? How did you get used to it? When should it be possible to tolerate the cage for a whole day?

Thank you for your answers!

[Mr Pickle]

Hi Subby.

A good fitting cage is a comfy cage. You should have no pain or pinching.
I have seen people attempting to endure a cage hoping it will get better, but it rarely does without frequent intervention.

Those same people have swapped cages and have then been able wear the different cage continuously without issues.

I don't belive there is one true cage, because everyone that has a cage that is right for them says to get one like theirs.
This only works if you have exactly the same penis or very similar.

The ring measuring guide is no good. It doesn't matter if you can get a finger in the ring. Not if you are a shower, or if you grow an awful lot.

Measure the circumfrance behind your balls where the ring sits while you are very erect and very hard. This is the exact size you need (maybe 1mm less). No fingers, No room.

Also. Imagine a cross section of your penis. Is it round or is it more wide than tall, so an erganomic ring?

Length wise. What ever you think the length should be relaxed Deduct at least 30%. 50% if you are a grower.

Smaller is better. Always.

There is a thread in members about the amazing truth about cage sizes. With some good examples.

Hope this helps.

Good luck.

[subby_hubby]

Thank you for your answer.

You are right. I think it's a fitting problem.

Today i used some straps to hold everything in place an there is No pinching, friction etc.

Wearing the cage for over 10 hours and still got it on me without pinching.

I'll usw the straps in the next days or weeks, take new measurements and get a new cage...

Would be my third and hopefully the last one.

Do you have any suggestions for extend the periods of wearing the Cage or should i put it on and go from zero to Hero My wife and i look forward to at least one day, so the keyholding factor makes at least a little bit sense.

[Tongue+groove]

go from zero to Hero

Everyone’s journey is different. Make it an experience that both of you enjoy. Experiment. There are a lot of experiences to be discovered.

[Mr Pickle]

If it fits ok with a strap. Then you can push your limits. If you normally have sex every three days. Lock up for one of them. Then for two, three, ten, a month...

Really. You should ask your keyholder.

Needing a strap means the cage has too much room in my experience

[subby_hubby]

Hello,

Thank you for your help, suggestions, and advice.

A quick update:

I have now been wearing the cage for 3 days straight—except when I shower in the morning.

The initial pinching is gone. I also removed the Straps and am wearing the cage like this. It’s overall more comfortable.

The ring fits well. The tube is a bit too large, which causes some discomfort while sleeping...

I have one more question: Throughout the day, I regularly forget that I'm wearing the cage. At least until the foreskin gets pinched in the front part of the cage. How do you handle this? Do you have any tips and tricks to prevent this? It’s really uncomfortable, especially when it happens at work and I can’t easily fix it...

[Tongue+groove]

I regularly forget that I'm wearing the cage.

That’s a big step forward to long term wearing.

The next phase is the I don’t want to be out of it phase. You will know your there when you feel lost or exposed to the world when it’s off.

Sorry I can’t comment on foreskin issues. I do wish I had one though.

[KnownAsHerbert]

I regularly forget that I'm wearing the cage.

... I don’t want to be out of it phase.

When I first heard of this, I found it hard to believe. It sounded so unlikely.
I recently found out for myself that it's true.

Let out for a thorough clean and pamper but I was soon ready for it to be locked in place again. Still seems odd but I can't deny it's true.

[Tongue+groove]

Still seems odd but I can't deny it's true.

It hit me under a similar circumstance. I remember it felt strange washing myself. I felt a little guilty doing it. I nearly had a panic attack trying to get back in afterwards. It’s like I was afraid to let her see me without it on.

Really an odd state of mind.

[latecomer77]

One of the issues with any chastity cage is the back ring causing chafing or irritation of the underside of the scrotum. My solution to this is to cut off a section of a ladies panty liner and wrap the adhesive side around the bottom of the ring, so that the absorbent side is in contact with your scrotum.