[Naughtyinchastity] No more self-locking in chastity and voluntary handover of control and Keys KH

[Naughtyinchastity]

The decision to remain chaste was primarily due to my habit of excessive masturbation, which had a decidedly negative impact on my daily and professional life. Taking away my ability to masturbate was supposed to help me improve myself, focus on more important, more useful and more interesting things that I had neglected for a moment of pleasure.

It was a good decision that I do not regret, because thanks to it, my daily life has improved significantly. Despite my initial concerns about choosing a chastity cage and how to limit access to the keys, I relatively quickly began to get used to the chastity, and despite the frustration caused by the lack of relief, I tried my best not to do it and to follow the plan that was initially very difficult to implement, but over time I learned not to think about it, dealing with other things, which exercises my strong will. Success for me is that before giving up the keys, for 15 days I did not feel any relief, where before locking myself in the chastity cage I did it several times a day.

So I decided to be consistent and take the next step in my chastity and fulfill my dream, which is to give the keys to my partner, who deals with my discipline and control. We are in a D/s relationship as a governess/charge, but we did not talk about chastity before because I was ashamed to tell her about my habit. When I decided to get chastity, I also did not want to go into unknown waters, not being sure if I would be able to get used to being locked in a chastity cage, especially since chastity requires getting used to and training. I also did not know if she would agree to be my KH and accept that she wanted to be locked. So initially I decided to lock myself and hide the keys in a box with a time lock, without informing her, against our rules, knowing that I would suffer the consequences.

Before the weekend we were supposed to meet, I decided to take a chance and tell her about my desire to be locked in chastity, admitting the reason for being locked in and breaking the rules in terms of my lack of information.

I informed her a few hours before the meeting that I was locking myself in chastity, to which I received a reply that we would have a serious talk. She also told me to bring my chastity device to the meeting, while forbidding me to wear the chastity cage before the meeting so I could enjoy my last moments of freedom. However, she forbade me from trying to masturbate in any way. It was a strange and difficult feeling at the same time, because the forced release tempted me to please myself. However, I did not want to make things worse, because I knew that I would suffer the consequences of hiding my chastity from her, so breaking her ban would entail even greater consequences, especially since I am not good at lying and the punishment at her hands can be severe and painful.

After arriving at her house and getting ready for my stay, I was invited to talk. It went quite peacefully, which was a surprise to me, even though I had hidden this fact from her. She was clearly pleased with the fact that she wanted to be in chastity, saying that it would take our relationship to the next level, give her new possibilities of controlling me and bring me many positive changes in my behavior. I agreed with her, because looking at my previous experiences with chastity during self-locking. I had to tell her the reasons for my decision and tell her about the time when I was locked up. After questioning, she told me that she did not approve of masturbation, and that I, having a problem with it, should not hide it from her despite the shame and especially since my position in our relationship required me to refrain from bad habits. She also said that I should not hide the fact that I wanted to be locked up. She also informed me that despite good intentions I had broken the rules and would face the consequences, so my fears were realized, also saying that after the punishment we would establish rules and I would be locked in the chastity cage.

It happened exactly as she said. After receiving a painful punishment for breaking the rules, we established the rules of my chastity throughout the evening, and after establishing the rules, I was officially locked up by my partner, who, in addition to being a governess who takes care of my control and discipline, also became my KH.

We established the rules together, taking into account hygiene, safety and discretion, taking into account the expectations of both parties and working out compromises.

Here are the rules we established:

- Chastity 24/7 with mandatory breaks for hygiene and checks every 2 days or more often if necessary.

- Longer breaks in wearing the cage are possible if you need to go to the doctor or hospital or during meetings, after prior arrangement and consent from the KH, which involves staying under constant observation.

- Hygiene after unlocking the chastity cage must take place at a previously agreed time. After the hygiene is completed, the chastity cage must be immediately returned to its place, which must be proven immediately. Hygiene during meetings will take place under the supervision of the KH.

- Orgasm is allowed once a month. In case of violation of the rules, the possibility of monthly orgasm is taken away and postponed to the next month.

- Wet dreams are allowed, and in case of their occurrence, the KH must be notified of this fact

- Changing the chastity cage is allowed after informing the KH and indicating the type of cage that will be used.

- Management of the time of locking spare keys, in the time-locked box is the responsibility of the KH. When a time for locking keys is given, the time must be set immediately and it must be proven that the keys are in the box, along with the set time and that the box is properly locked.

- Upon request by the KH, you must prove that the chastity cage is locked and in place, within the time specified by the KH from the moment the message is displayed.

- Touching the chastity cage is only possible for hygienic, physiological or control purposes.

-Attempts to stimulate the cage by rubbing or using other devices in order to achieve orgasm are prohibited.

- Any attempts to cheat and exit the chastity state in order to achieve orgasm are prohibited.

- Attempts to open the box containing the spare keys before the time specified by the KH has elapsed are prohibited.

- In emergencies, it is possible to open the box and exit the chastity in emergencies. However, you must immediately notify the KH of this fact.

- Voluntary locking in the chastity is for an indefinite period. You can withdraw from the chastity at any time. However, re-locking, control and possession of the keys by the KH will no longer be possible.

If necessary, we can discuss the rules we have established again and modify them.

So, as of 30/08/2024, a new chapter in my chastity journey has begun - I am locked under the control of the key holder. This is completely different than when I was self-locking, because when I was self-locking, I had control over my chastity. Now the control belongs to the KH, which already has an impact on my behavior and our relationship. I have become more obedient, I do not oppose her and do not rebel as before, which I used to do even when it threatened punishment. During the self-locking, I could give myself relief, but I tried very hard not to. Now after giving up control and keys, this is impossible, because my cage is so well-fitted that attempts to escape without using the key are impossible, additionally attempts to exit or stimulate the cage for pleasure are prohibited and result in punishment, with an extension of the waiting time for orgasm by another month as well.
Frustration also doesn't make chastity any easier, but I try not to think about it and focus on more important and beneficial things to distract me from the temptations of giving myself relief that are impossible and forbidden in my situation. Especially since my last orgasm was almost a month ago and the monthly relief leave is counted from the day of the KH closure,
So I prefer to be good, follow the rules and be locked in the chastity cage, as I wanted and according to the rules I agreed to.

I hope I didn't bore you with my post. I will update the thread with information about my chastity. Opinions, questions and suggestions are welcome.

Best regards.

[LockedByBD]

Sounds like your masturbation problem is under control.
How has the first month in chastity gone?