[KHEmmi] Emmie's version

[Rufusstone]

Sounds like you might be going for my suggestion of Loctober followed by No- vember.
Nice to give him the choice though about Fairy night though and he could choose to go to Xmas/New Year and bring the numbers down with a re-set for 2025?

[KHEmmi]

Sounds like you might be going for my suggestion of Loctober followed by No- vember.
Nice to give him the choice though about Fairy night though and he could choose to go to Xmas/New Year and bring the numbers down with a re-set for 2025?

You can take it that after 30th September, he won't be seeing the light of day until November at the earliest.
November is still up for grabs at the moment.

[tegelad]

I just wanted to let you know that the trip you and Herbie have made is downright amazing, so Kudos to you. I love the ratio aspects, and it seems like you have a 100:1 ratio while he is sub-1:1, which is the perfect ratio you need to have.

You know, I was thinking that predictions are fantastic things as the end of the month approaches. You can use your ratio aspect to let him "orgasm" as much as he desires, and you could add the kicker that each orgasm "adds" an interval of your choosing (day/week/month). So picture the joy you could have of making him orgasm over and over and over, knowing at the very end when the lock goes "click," you state I am so proud of you.

You added "X," and by the way, 2025 is all about getting you below 1:1... My love

Thank you and Herbie for sharing something so intimate and amazing on your travels.

[Mr Pickle]

I just wanted to let you know etc..

Holy missing person Batman.!

This is the second post after nine years.

Welcome back @tegelad why not introduce yourself.

[tegelad]

Holy missing person Batman.!

This is the second post after nine years.

Welcome back @tegelad why not introduce yourself.

Hi there, I was cleaning up passwords and re-found the forum. I have been into Male Chastity for a very long time (I was on CM), I am a natural switch, but I love everything about chastity. My wife isn't into it (so it is extra thrilling to see a wife really into it.)

I didn't want to hijack Emmie's thread, but I had to say wow and great job.

As a dominant (when not submissive) I have been told I am delightfully wicked, but I also have a deep submissive side too (which makes when I dominate very "good".

So thanks for the response ...

[KHEmmi]

“Three months is good and you will both learn a lot”

Those words or similar are what I read and decided to try it.
It's the last few days of Herbi's 3 months (slightly short of 3 months but I'm going to count it as good as)

What have we learnt then?
It said we would both learn a lot.

First off, I've learnt that Herbs can indeed go 3 months without an orgasm.
He can also do 6 weeks straight in the Cobra Nub.
I've learnt that all 4 cages have different positives and negatives so a mix is a good thing. Chop and change.
I now know that Herbs will put up with any of them and that incentives (such as fairy night, hehehe) can extend lock ups even further.
He will do anything willingly. I don't have to ask, ever, to get my back washed in the bath or help with drying off.
He is happy to help me fill a jar with beans in next to no time.
Things that he would have found odd or even outrageous before (the “strip” command) he doesn't even flinch at now.

He's put up with a lot.
Night time disturbed sleep etc. Day time distractions too.
Being naked on front of Vikki. The stick for being naughty.
He takes it all well.

He's not allowed to complain, but we have open discussions where he can speak freely without consequences.
He's said it's tough sometimes.
Waiting and looking forward to his list of what he's learnt over the past 3 months.

Horny as hell now. I know he's ready for Monday. His average will be down to 1.33 by then.
Can't wait to see how it goes and to lock him back up for October. Average 1.14 by the end of October. Getting there.

[Tongue+groove]

Please don’t take the following as judge-mental, I’m actually very curious. But everything you mentioned was things that you learned about Herbi. May I ask what you have learned about yourself?

I only ask because since Mrs. Groove and I have started this I have noticed that when she gets horny she’s nearly unstoppable. Once I get to the point of managing my own desire (10-14 days or so) she will unleash herself. And when she does she can be very demanding that I ‘fill’ her up. I understand it’s all about her, but the cycle of starting over again can be frustrating.

Terrible problem, right?

And hopefully you hear my question in an honest curious way.

[Rufusstone]

Nice update, Miss E.

[KHEmmi]

Please don’t take the following as judge-mental, I’m actually very curious. But everything you mentioned was things that you learned about Herbi. May I ask what you have learned about yourself?

I only ask because since Mrs. Groove and I have started this I have noticed that when she gets horny she’s nearly unstoppable. Once I get to the point of managing my own desire (10-14 days or so) she will unleash herself. And when she does she can be very demanding that I ‘fill’ her up. I understand it’s all about her, but the cycle of starting over again can be frustrating.

Terrible problem, right?

And hopefully you hear my question in an honest curious way.

Question taken in an honest curious way and thanks for asking. It's a good question.

I guess the main thing is that I can be dominant!
I never thought of myself like that before but I think I've managed to be a bit creative and at the same time, determined to make it work.
I think those are the biggest things that surprised me.

Before our chastity adventure I would never have involved anyone else in our sex lives. Nothing like giving Vikki a spare key for example.

One other thing is that I've found I can manage things more than I've ever thought possible before.
Managing in the sense of being in charge I mean and not just his cock.
@Mr Pickle summed this up in one of his picture where the girl says “The key isn't just the key to his cock and for sex. It has put me in charge of everything else as well.”
It's very true.
Interesting wording “it has put me in charge” and not “I have taken charge” but that is how it feels to me. It has put me in charge but I have been up to dealing with it.

I am sure there are loads of little things that I could write about but I'm sticking to the biggies for now

[Tongue+groove]

Thanks for answering my question so honestly. It’s interesting that I have seen some of the same assertive behaviors in Mrs. Groove. It’s also quite arousing.