Its the end of a week of wearing the larger, heavy birdcage style cage and its still feeling so enclosed, when i reach down all i touch is steel. At least with a slot in the cage i can feel my penis rubbing my traouser or the bed sheets, with this one its like all sensation is gone. At least it is until my wife runs her finger tips between the bars, or taps the end, its so sensitive now that even a bumpy road gets me going.
I love swapping the cages, such a different feeling which each of them and im so happy my wifes enjoying seeing what its doing to me.
Tomorrow we're going away for the week and I believe the cage is staying at home, however i've been very forcefully told there will be trouble if i touch myself. Its not a week less, as she's made it clear that every week uncaged now will be added on later. Her original target was January this year, somehow thats now slipped to the end of October. If that continues to slip I'll be a very happy caged male, I'd love to make it a full year.
Later it escalated out of the blue, I cimbed into bed tonight and found a riding crop there, I exclaimed "really?"
She laughed and said "get up and bring it round here"
I thought to put away in her wardrobe again, instead she took it and whacked me,
"Turn round and hands on your head"
and I got another right across the buttocks.
"Thats a taster of what will happen if I catch you touching next week".
Again I'm lying in bed with a stinging, marked backside, incredibly wound up and unable to do anything about it (as if I'd dare).
Why is it that wearing a cage makes evey erogenous part of my body ten times more sensitive?
[Spaceman] The long road
Re: [Spaceman] The long road
We've spent.most of the last week away, and therefor not locked, but not allowed to touch. This morning was too much, woke up rock solid and stayed that we for a what seemed like ages. Thats not really surprising as she's been teasing me like crazy all week.
So then I broke the rules and played with myself, not quite to the point of coming but enough to earn a punishment. What it is has yet to be decided but I wouldn't be surprised if its more time. Why do I feel I have to confess when breaking a rule, is it conditioning? Trouble is she says she can tell if I've been bad, and she can, but how?
Anyway we got back home at 2 this afternoon, and I was locked again by 2.15 and have been told to remain that way until we go away again.
Trouble is she chose the smallest cage I have which comes as a bit of a shock after a week unlocked, its also more open so the bulging end rubs on everything, when I walk, in bed and she can touch it whenever she wants.
Why oh why did I want a cage this small? its going to be a disturbed night I feel. Trouble is at the same time I'm loving it, I've been teased all evening, she's danced in front of me and stripped, taunted me that I can't do anything and now every nerve is on edge and so, so sensitive.
We're home for a couple of days, I have a.meeting tomorrow morning and evening and have been told i will be locked for it all, omg its only 3cm of heavy unyielding steel, so crammed in tight.
Good night
So then I broke the rules and played with myself, not quite to the point of coming but enough to earn a punishment. What it is has yet to be decided but I wouldn't be surprised if its more time. Why do I feel I have to confess when breaking a rule, is it conditioning? Trouble is she says she can tell if I've been bad, and she can, but how?
Anyway we got back home at 2 this afternoon, and I was locked again by 2.15 and have been told to remain that way until we go away again.
Trouble is she chose the smallest cage I have which comes as a bit of a shock after a week unlocked, its also more open so the bulging end rubs on everything, when I walk, in bed and she can touch it whenever she wants.
Why oh why did I want a cage this small? its going to be a disturbed night I feel. Trouble is at the same time I'm loving it, I've been teased all evening, she's danced in front of me and stripped, taunted me that I can't do anything and now every nerve is on edge and so, so sensitive.
We're home for a couple of days, I have a.meeting tomorrow morning and evening and have been told i will be locked for it all, omg its only 3cm of heavy unyielding steel, so crammed in tight.
Good night
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Re: [Spaceman] The long road
On a practical note somethings changed over time.
Before this recent rather long period of being locked I used some form of lubrication to prevent chafing. As time's progressed I've stopped using any and am having no chafing or pinching at all, its just comfortable. So somethings changed but I have no idea what.
This also means erections are much more contained, so fully erect in this cage I'm now shorter than normal flacid length as the ring can't move.
What's not changed is that unlike others I cannot say I ever forget I'm wearing it. When your 9cm penis is crammed into 3cm of immobile, heavy, steel cage and bulging out of a slot, its hard to forget.
What I've also noticed is no matter how long I've been locked my penis returns to normal within a few minutes of being free. The only permanent change is that my foreskin is looser than it was a few years ago, probably because I'm instructed to wear it pulled right back when caged.
Before this recent rather long period of being locked I used some form of lubrication to prevent chafing. As time's progressed I've stopped using any and am having no chafing or pinching at all, its just comfortable. So somethings changed but I have no idea what.
This also means erections are much more contained, so fully erect in this cage I'm now shorter than normal flacid length as the ring can't move.
What's not changed is that unlike others I cannot say I ever forget I'm wearing it. When your 9cm penis is crammed into 3cm of immobile, heavy, steel cage and bulging out of a slot, its hard to forget.
What I've also noticed is no matter how long I've been locked my penis returns to normal within a few minutes of being free. The only permanent change is that my foreskin is looser than it was a few years ago, probably because I'm instructed to wear it pulled right back when caged.
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Re: [Spaceman] The long road
So its been a very busy few weeks since I last posted, and as we've been away its been largely unlocked, especially as we've spent a lot of time on family oriented naturist sites, to be honest neither of us would want me to wear a cage naked in public, its for us and our private knowledge, which we both find a turn on.
While the weather is fine that will continue but she's made it very clear that once we're spending more time at home that will be the end of my freedom, this is a temporary pause.
I was curious to see if being locked had led to any permanent changes, and after a few weeks out I can see only one, which is that my foreskin is slightly looser, due to wearing it pulled right back when caged, which is my choice. So to any who worry about any permanent damage etc I can say that in my experience there is none, i was locked almost all that time in a cage at least 2.5 inches shorter than flacid length for 7 months until our summer lifestyle made it impractical.
I.must say im rather looking forward to being under lock and key again, she does keep reminding me, teasing and touching, pulling my nipples and making me hard, then stopping. So strict chasity continues but on the honour system, its been a frustrating two months since I last came.
While the weather is fine that will continue but she's made it very clear that once we're spending more time at home that will be the end of my freedom, this is a temporary pause.
I was curious to see if being locked had led to any permanent changes, and after a few weeks out I can see only one, which is that my foreskin is slightly looser, due to wearing it pulled right back when caged, which is my choice. So to any who worry about any permanent damage etc I can say that in my experience there is none, i was locked almost all that time in a cage at least 2.5 inches shorter than flacid length for 7 months until our summer lifestyle made it impractical.
I.must say im rather looking forward to being under lock and key again, she does keep reminding me, teasing and touching, pulling my nipples and making me hard, then stopping. So strict chasity continues but on the honour system, its been a frustrating two months since I last came.
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Re: [Spaceman] The long road
I also wear my (Mature Metal JailBird) with my relatively short foreskin pulled back. It is a bit looser as a result.
Sometimes,during shrinkage situations, the foreskin will sneak up into its normal position. I push it back down with the back end of an old toothbrush. (Note: I find it interesting that the foreskin is always well retracted when I wake up in the mornings.)
If you have been in for a long time, it may take as long as a few days or things to stretch back to normal size. The "shrinkage" doesn't seem permanent for me.
Sometimes,during shrinkage situations, the foreskin will sneak up into its normal position. I push it back down with the back end of an old toothbrush. (Note: I find it interesting that the foreskin is always well retracted when I wake up in the mornings.)
If you have been in for a long time, it may take as long as a few days or things to stretch back to normal size. The "shrinkage" doesn't seem permanent for me.
Past Devices: Curve & CB 6000s. Both broke, were repaired; then broke beyond repair. I threw the dreaded Spiked Chamber away.
Current Devices: MM Jail Bird, Cobra, MM Watchful Mistress, Holy Trainer v3, and a new Curve.
Current Devices: MM Jail Bird, Cobra, MM Watchful Mistress, Holy Trainer v3, and a new Curve.
Re: [Spaceman] The long road
Back home for a few days last week and first night home she rolled over in bed one evening and started caressing me, as usual an instant hard on which she took great delight on playing with, after a lot of teasing i was allowed to come, it had been a long time and I exploded.
Next morning she repeated it and for while we lay there just cuddling and enjoying the moment together. After a while she jumped out of bed, said "get up, get caged, that's all you get for a long time". She's not even mentioned a cage for a few weeks so i was shocked.
I stayed like that until Thursday when we headed off again for a long bank holiday weekend, as we packed I asked when I should take off the cage, the reply was "when I tell you and not before", which surprised me as normally she's wanted it off before we go away, considering where we're going. This time she simply tells me to make sure we have a key and stay caged.
Well it finally came off about an hour after arrival once we'd unpacked the car, it was a very warm evening, she got undressed and teased me because I couldn't, but then she relented and told me to take it off so I could join her naked sitting outside.
Fast forward to this Monday evening we packed to come home, got in the car and she reached across and touched me, immediately cross that I hadn't put the cage on. I primised to do it as soon as we got home, but was told thats too late and "punsihment will be saved until the end of the summer". I know what that means, a whipping that leaves bruises once the weather is too cold to be a naturist, just hearing that was an instant turn on.
So i've now been caged again since Monday night, most likely until Thursday when we're off again and a bit shocked. She'd said being unlocked was suspended for the summer but I really wasn't expecting her to impose it so soon and out of the blue, in fact i wouldn't have been suprised if the cage had stayed in the drawer.
As I said earlier in this journey i didnt expect this, she's really surprised me, and im loving it. Happily so is she. We can't have PIV sex for now but we seem to have found something very special, very initimate, that we enjoy. She's keeping me on edge since I have no idea how long this will last or what she'll do next, yesterday she was talking about wearing the key on a necklace, the control is 100% in her hands.
Next morning she repeated it and for while we lay there just cuddling and enjoying the moment together. After a while she jumped out of bed, said "get up, get caged, that's all you get for a long time". She's not even mentioned a cage for a few weeks so i was shocked.
I stayed like that until Thursday when we headed off again for a long bank holiday weekend, as we packed I asked when I should take off the cage, the reply was "when I tell you and not before", which surprised me as normally she's wanted it off before we go away, considering where we're going. This time she simply tells me to make sure we have a key and stay caged.
Well it finally came off about an hour after arrival once we'd unpacked the car, it was a very warm evening, she got undressed and teased me because I couldn't, but then she relented and told me to take it off so I could join her naked sitting outside.
Fast forward to this Monday evening we packed to come home, got in the car and she reached across and touched me, immediately cross that I hadn't put the cage on. I primised to do it as soon as we got home, but was told thats too late and "punsihment will be saved until the end of the summer". I know what that means, a whipping that leaves bruises once the weather is too cold to be a naturist, just hearing that was an instant turn on.
So i've now been caged again since Monday night, most likely until Thursday when we're off again and a bit shocked. She'd said being unlocked was suspended for the summer but I really wasn't expecting her to impose it so soon and out of the blue, in fact i wouldn't have been suprised if the cage had stayed in the drawer.
As I said earlier in this journey i didnt expect this, she's really surprised me, and im loving it. Happily so is she. We can't have PIV sex for now but we seem to have found something very special, very initimate, that we enjoy. She's keeping me on edge since I have no idea how long this will last or what she'll do next, yesterday she was talking about wearing the key on a necklace, the control is 100% in her hands.
Re: [Spaceman] The long road
Things have been quiet lately, partly due to travel to stay with family and partly due to illness. However i think im in rrouble as apparently when we got home last week I was supposed to get.myself locked up. The fact that I don't think I was told this is apparently irrelevant and I will received a punishment, at some stage. That's something to look forward to.
As an immediate result I'm now instructed to wear thongs, which i find cause constant feeling of constraint and stimulation, all day and even a residual sensation in bed naked. That coupled with her teasing and touching me at every opportunity is driving me up the wall and im leaking fluid half the day. Today I was threatened with a cage and thongs, a combination which will be excruciating if it happens. Not knowing what will happen next is tough.
How do some ladies wear those things every day?after just two days I'm lying in bed feeling horny, nipples screaming to be touched and she's fast asleep.
I have been told that 'permanent' or long term lockiup starts again sometime next month, and will be maintained over the winter, to say I'm looking forward to that is an understatement, i can't wait. Good night.
As an immediate result I'm now instructed to wear thongs, which i find cause constant feeling of constraint and stimulation, all day and even a residual sensation in bed naked. That coupled with her teasing and touching me at every opportunity is driving me up the wall and im leaking fluid half the day. Today I was threatened with a cage and thongs, a combination which will be excruciating if it happens. Not knowing what will happen next is tough.
How do some ladies wear those things every day?after just two days I'm lying in bed feeling horny, nipples screaming to be touched and she's fast asleep.
I have been told that 'permanent' or long term lockiup starts again sometime next month, and will be maintained over the winter, to say I'm looking forward to that is an understatement, i can't wait. Good night.
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Re: [Spaceman] The long road
I use ikinsky pouch g strings They offer great cage support and also prevent heat chafing. Don’t know if I will ever go back to boxers.I'm now instructed to wear thongs,
She says ‘it’s cute’ in the nub. 
Re: [Spaceman] The long road
Welll its been a start, stop, start this month. We don't do things like Locktober and whether im caged or not is 100% down to her now. She knows I love it and she really enjoys it but she also likes that i have no idea when or for how long.
So earlier this month she suddenly told me to get caged, but after a couple of days i broke a rule and shaved in the shower without permission, she got pissed and told me to get unlocked. (I'm not allowed to shave my balls, kiss her or touch her unless she initiates it, asking is also.punishable).
After that I thought i better just keep quiet and anyway we've been away in places I cant wear anything.
However last week out of the blue she told me to get caged immediately, in the smallest one. She immediately asked for the key and hung it on on chain as a necklace, and there it stayed all day. Since then she's driven me crazy with teasing. She loves to call me over with the wave of a finger, at which point I have to drop my trousers and she carresses me whilst carrying on reading, the act of doing that whilst otherwise ignoring me is so controlling I end up rock hard and straining to burst out of the cage, its steel so no chance of that.
She escalated it further yesterday when i was helping clear out her wardrobe, the riding drop came out and I got eight lashes on naked skin, its still sore this morning on my backside, legs and across both nipples. Shes told me if the marks fade too fast she will renew them. I now have to stand naked and caged in front of her morning and night for inspection.
To make it worse she didn't put the key necklace on yesterday, i stupidly commented and was promptly given an extra week for not reminding her, i then asked how long did that make it, and was told "another week longer for asking".
We had a long conversation about the cage, and her feeling guilty about not being able to give me PIV, ive tried to explain that I love being caged and that many people aren't able to do PIV sex and have been caged for years as an alternative, she seemed interested and asked if the cage left permenent marks after a while, but I have no real idea whats in her head. I'm living for the moment but right now I'd happily do this for the very long term. Unlike others here I am given no targets, no set periods, its entirely at her whim day by day.
So earlier this month she suddenly told me to get caged, but after a couple of days i broke a rule and shaved in the shower without permission, she got pissed and told me to get unlocked. (I'm not allowed to shave my balls, kiss her or touch her unless she initiates it, asking is also.punishable).
After that I thought i better just keep quiet and anyway we've been away in places I cant wear anything.
However last week out of the blue she told me to get caged immediately, in the smallest one. She immediately asked for the key and hung it on on chain as a necklace, and there it stayed all day. Since then she's driven me crazy with teasing. She loves to call me over with the wave of a finger, at which point I have to drop my trousers and she carresses me whilst carrying on reading, the act of doing that whilst otherwise ignoring me is so controlling I end up rock hard and straining to burst out of the cage, its steel so no chance of that.
She escalated it further yesterday when i was helping clear out her wardrobe, the riding drop came out and I got eight lashes on naked skin, its still sore this morning on my backside, legs and across both nipples. Shes told me if the marks fade too fast she will renew them. I now have to stand naked and caged in front of her morning and night for inspection.
To make it worse she didn't put the key necklace on yesterday, i stupidly commented and was promptly given an extra week for not reminding her, i then asked how long did that make it, and was told "another week longer for asking".
We had a long conversation about the cage, and her feeling guilty about not being able to give me PIV, ive tried to explain that I love being caged and that many people aren't able to do PIV sex and have been caged for years as an alternative, she seemed interested and asked if the cage left permenent marks after a while, but I have no real idea whats in her head. I'm living for the moment but right now I'd happily do this for the very long term. Unlike others here I am given no targets, no set periods, its entirely at her whim day by day.
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Re: [Spaceman] The long road
Your kh sounds so excitingly mysterious. The ignoring while reading is something I hope to experience someday.
If she craves piv the way my kh does, might I suggest piv edging. My kh will use me like a sex toy when she is horny. And of course I don’t get to cum unless she decides to finish me with an alternative method. Usually her hand ruining me.
If she craves piv the way my kh does, might I suggest piv edging. My kh will use me like a sex toy when she is horny. And of course I don’t get to cum unless she decides to finish me with an alternative method. Usually her hand ruining me.
She says ‘it’s cute’ in the nub.