[KHEmmi] Emmie's version

[KnownAsHerbert]

Looks like some milestones and records being set soon.

1st June will be two calendar months since we started on the chastity journey
3rd June Herbi will have done 25 consecutive nights, his longest so far.
25 nights is almost a month so a full month will make a nice goal for when he's relocked on the 3rd.
He will have only come once during the calendar month of May
Just once in June sounds good too.
And we've now done 24 hours in the new cage!
So much going on at the moment.

It looks like my goose is cooked

[KHEmmi]

I did us both some lunch today and called up to Herb when it was ready (he was working from home again today). We ate, talked, and then just sat for a few minutes, had a coffee. Then I asked how much more he had to do today and he replied that he thought he'd done enough and that was it now. Finished for the day.

It was a lovely surprise to start our weekend a few hours early and with lunch and tidying away done, it was too good an opportunity to waste so I went up to our bedroom, undressed, and then called “Come”. He arrived within seconds so I said “Strip” which he did without question of course. By now I was lying on the bed and reached out an arm and said “Come and lie down with me”. We had a lovely cuddle down together, bodies pressed together and, of course, I pushed him down to do what I wanted. We ended up lying together and even falling asleep for a short while. A most unexpected Friday afternoon treat. He did everything just as required. No mention on his cage at all. He knows he's only got another three nights and then he will get unlocked. He's done so well.

Unexpected sleep has refreshed us both I think and we still have the evening in front of us to enjoy. It's even turned out rather bright and sunny. Maybe a walk would be nice.

[KHEmmi]

It looks like it's a whole week since I wrote anything on here and things have happened so I'll write a little update.

The main thing that has happened is that Herbs has had his June orgasm. He was unlocked after 26 nights, his new record, got to have some fun, a good and relaxing clean up in the bath (supervised) and then locked away again until next time. His 26 nights included 4 penalty nights for behaviour issues. Hope he learns from that. Anyway I thought that if he can manage 26, then that's not far off a calendar month, so his next release is due on the fourth of July. Unless he earns any penalty nights of course.

Coming up to ten weeks since chastity began, and I would say he's adapted well to both the steel cage and the Cobra Nub. I require him to keep me informed of any problems but also to tell me how he's getting on with wearing them. It's a while since he's had any problems at all, but he does describe what he's feeling both physically and emotionally as required. He knows he must stick to factual information. Anything that sounds like just whinging is disallowed and will come with consequences.

He's learnt to obey all my “one word commands” instantly and without complaint. (My favourite one word commands are “Strip” and “Kneel” of course). He does all that he needs to do to keep me satisfied and has even got used to going without clothes when instructed. I guess you could say that I've got a conditioned male on my hands.

Three nights completed towards his month long caging now. We're both enjoying our adventure.

[Curiousrk]

… so his next release is due on the fourth of July.

If it works out… over here in we will celebrate Independence Day with you both!

[KHEmmi]

Nice to read (on his blog thread) that Herbs is getting "close to being used to" his cage (to reuse his words).
I'd also thought that he was more settled and used to it so it's good that he's confirmed it.
He didn't mention this but I think he's almost as used to the metal as the original Cobra now.
All good with “about 3 weeks” to go.

[KHEmmi]

Four more days on since I last wrote and...

Nice to have things confirmed. Herbi has written this morning that he feels “settled and comfortable with either cage now” and that is how I feel too. I like both of them just about equally but both for different reasons.

The Cobra is so very sleek in appearance and completely unobtrusive under clothing. He described it as “Light and tight” with no room to move inside it. Very appealing indeed. Interesting how he says the lack of sensation is a “different kind of frustration”. It's good to know that it's frustrating even if it is in a different way.

The House of Denial steel is heavy and maybe a little awkward for him at times as the weight swings about, but like the Cobra, it doesn't show under clothes. I know he gets very aroused in this one but I have no worries about it, especially as he's said that he's comfortable with it. It feels substantial and secure and the gaps in the bars are useful to tease.

Chop and change indeed. When he's next unlocked I might put him back in the Cobra for a little while, like a fortnight or so. Keep things interesting with a different kind of frustration.

[KHEmmi]

I get the feeling that Herbs is on the verge of that Cage Fever again.
Perhaps it's because he's about to enter the third week again. That was difficult last time.
Maybe it's worse because I swapped him back into to the Cobra Nub after a ten days or so in the steel.
He's found adapting backwards into the Cobra rather less easy than he expected. He used to cope with it fine but after wearing the steel cage for a while, the Cobra stops him feeling anything most of the time. He said before it's a different kind of frustration. I think he'd now call it a worse kind of frustration.
Never mind. It will come to an end one day when he goes back into the House of Denial steel again.
And after 19 more nights, assuming good behaviour, he'll get to be unlocked again.

[KHEmmi]

An easy day with nothing urgent to do an no real plans either.
Hoping Herbs finishes work nice and early and then the rest of the day's ours.
Also hoping that he won't have work tomorrow. Early start to the weekend.

He's done well in the Cobra while my parents were staying with us. Hasn't grumbled or complained but then again there are consequences for complaining so he's been wise.

I read a line that made me smile recently. Along the lines that “once he can do three weeks then he can do any length of time that you choose”. Not sure if Herbs would agree but it's an interesting thought. We're fast approaching three months into our journey (1st july!) and he's managed three weeks and more so there's no limits now, Hehehe.

Laundry to do so I'll get that underway and make the most of the warm dry weather. Cooler forecast than yesterday but 22 is still nice. Warm enough for shorts

[waki86]

It's absolutely right.

If he has lasted more than a month now.
Then ultimately there is no limit to how long you let it last the next time.
And after your test year, a lot will have changed.
And it doesn't matter whether one goes through with it or not.

[KnownAsHerbert]

It's absolutely right.

If he has lasted more than a month now.
Then ultimately there is no limit to how long you let it last the next time.
And after your test year, a lot will have changed.
And it doesn't matter whether one goes through with it or not.

Don't tell Miss Emmie that, Waki.
She might follow through with this 'no limit' business.