[Bobby290] Here We Go

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[Bobby290] After stumbling on Tom's Tumblr posts, we decided to engage in denial and chastity... again. We have done this before but tbh it was part of our previous lifestyle which we are not following anymore. We are older with a great deal of mileage in our sex lives but age and subsequent health issues have quietened our adventures. We are still very interested in each other but we needed something more personal. Me previously being denied had a huge effect on me and made me a better hubby to my wife. Previously just an honour system for chastity was enough. I can abstain easily as I enjoy the denial and frustration immensely. Adding a chastity device is also something we both enjoy and I have a few cages we can add to the scenario. We started the new dynamic three weeks ago and intend to keep it this way indefinitely. My mindset has already changed and my attention to my wife changed immediately. I kiss her as much as I can, I hug her.. stroke her face and crave her attention. I will do anything for her. She enjoys this of course and is keen to maintain the new Bob . She is very happy to keep me denied and gives me all the encouragement and teasing which I love. Tonight she has told me we can try my new cock which I bought after reading Tom's Tumblr posts. I am so excited and looking forward to giving her the pleasure she deserves. I always give her orgasms orally and with vibrating toys. Usually we will end with me entering her leading to my own peak. This time it will be different and will end with only her having orgasms. I don't know why but this also excites me. Leaving me frustrated maybe? But happy that my wife is content. My pleasure coming from making her cum... several times. I will still be the same excited, loving and better man for my wife.

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OK. Last night we tried to have fun with our new substitute cock. Also with my cage in place. Not successful unfortunately. The strap on is very difficult to use primarily because my own cock prevents it being worn correctly. My penis was trying to get erect and was jutting out. I was straining inside my cage, so much so that I was in absolute agony. The pain was excruciating so much so that I couldn't concentrate on anything. My wife wasnt happy and demanded I remove both items. I don't have a huge penis, only 6" and my wife loves to play with it. She also loves cock and loves to perform oral. She is very skilled in this aspect and can drive me crazy. We have engaged in denial before simply by not allowing me to peak. Which is what happened last night. I'm still raging horny and still in the zone. (wife was happy once I brought her to a few orgasms with my tongue and vibrator). Hmm

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Wearing a chastity device during sex is impossible for us. It will never work as I get an erection which causes immense pain and makes wearing the strap on impossible. Denial for me for us however is the way forward. It leaves me simmering constantly and more appreciative of my wife. She likes to see me hard for her and laughs at my frustration. She tells me I will never be allowed to cum again and this just increases my fire even more. We have sex and I penetrate her.. but I am not allowed to cum. I give her orgasms and this makes me feel amazing. This is how we live our life now. I am the better man for this.. my wife is my only focus and I love how it makes me feel. Giving up my orgasms is worth it. When she tells me I am not allowed to cum ever.. Just makes me more excited. I ravish her all the time. Why would she ever let me release?

Bob

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I've been denied for 4 weeks now. Been all over my wife for most of the day today. I wear a cage when it's convenient. My wife likes it. I just gave her several orgasms with my tongue and fingers before she went to bed happy. I'm watching the football highlights. Locked up again. She told me she loves me this way. That's how it will stay. Denied permanently.