When you know that you were meant for chastity?

[realme1976]

My partner and I discovered chastity cages about three months, so a bet was made. If I could wear one for 45 days, I'd get a great payoff. I had never worn one before, and the first two weeks in particular were agonizing. Then the agony turned to an intense awareness of being stimulated all the time. At 43 days, I couldn't stand it anymore, I took it off, and I "pleasured myself" (no, no payoff). But after a couple of days out of it, I realized that I missed it. I missed the feeling of constant stimulation. I put the cage back on seven days ago, and I don't have any intention of being out of it for any extended time again, because--for whatever reason--my being in chastity just feels right. I feel naked without the cage, as if a part of me is missing.

So, I wonder about your respective turning points; i.e, when did any of you realize that you belonged in a cage and that there was no turning back?

This is an uncharted journey for me, so any insight you could provide would be greatly appreciated.

[Mr Pickle]

I think the No turning back was a joint thing. I identify with the feeling you described as "needing to be in it" . But that need alone wouldn't do. It really had to be my keyholders choice. Once she was convinced that things were improving, going backwards wasn't an option.

[WifeIsVanilla]

I saw my first (fairly close up) picture of a guy wearing one of the early CB-X devices. A surge of adrenalin went through me, and I knew that I had to have one.

[Steve2059]

I found chastity was a thing for me when I found out chastity was a thing - about eight years ago. Talk about a sheltered life! I've gotten much more kinky since then.

[Jerryteroga]

I realized that i belonged in a cage whem my wife finally admitted after 16 years that my penis was small for her all all she needed was big cocks to satisfy her

[Want2B_Locked]

I realised that I wanted to go down the chastity road was when I saw a meme then got my first cheap plastic knock off.

It felt right.
Taken a couple of cages and now I enjoy it. Just wish LadyS would